Im sure its been pointed out that chopping the top off was a terrible...TERRIBLE idea multiple times. He probably thought you were taking pictures of it so reddit can roast it. I hope they didn't JUST chop off the top.
She said she was missing her bf and the videos were for him.....which, honestly, thats what it looks like. Its not a full on OF production. Now, how they got on the internets, that remains to be seen.