Recent content by snake201

You see this is what I was going with. I thought we would be mature enough now that it didn't have to be a game. That I could just let her know straight how it is but I was wrong. She liked my personality and what I had to offer but like others have said in this thread she didn't want it all too...

With all the other girls, I have minimal talk, I let them know what the deal is, go back to their place hit and then go home. I never never ever sleep over. This girl we were actually having meaningful conversations and chatting it up. For a minute I actually was coming to my senses and was...

Good ideas man, thanks for the needed advice. Just because a girl gives it up does not make her a JO in my opinion. JO in my opinion are girls with out substance, you can't hold a conversation with them and all they are good for is the P.

I have no reason to troll. I have been a member here since 07 with thousands of post that got erased with the move to the new board. I don't post much here since being in Grad school does not give me a lot of free time specially the program I am in. Check my track record here never once have I...

This is what I need to work on, that is my witness. When I find the one I like that is my demise. I can't just play it cool. I always insist on hitting them up. But for the JO I have no problem ignoring them and putting them in their place. How do you guys deal with not hitting them back up and...

No, I am a light skin Dominican. Lets not start another topic here. I wasn't thinking of writing a letter but more like a simple engraved stationary card. But appreciate all the advice. I def do like this girl thought. Well I was at this one bar to begin with and I was scoping it out and...

I meant to say that I have no problem picking up girls at the bars and having sex with them. Just that the next day my game is weak since being in a relationship for 18 months.

I thought it was a friend hating because the week before I smashed her good friends("Jane") roommate("Becky". So I talked to the girl I smashed (Becky) and said did "Jane" say anything to "Kayla"? and she was like no, Jane didn't say anything which I still have in the back of my head as...

You speak the truth, thanks for the advice. Moving on and putting this in the past is what is going to be. Yeah I guess you could say I am sprung haha. But that is one thing I def did, I treated her well. When a girl is JO she gets treated like one. But in my mind this girl was far from it and...

How is that not a girl problem bro? lol See thats the thing man, I have gotten with plenty of jump offs that I know from day one I could never see my self with them. But this girl is different man, really smart, great family that all went to college not your typical JO. And like I said earlier...

Yeah I def went wrong with that txt and the minute I sent it and didn't get a reply back in the usual time frame I knew I messed up. :{ She actually added me on facebook first and not only that but one of her friends from the school she went to undergrad added me too. I asked her why friend...

Yeah, I just don't know how I should do it. We are both in grad school and mature. How do you guys feel if I write her a hand written note and say " I'm sorry for coming off too strong and getting a bit ahead of myself" ? And then see what she says from there. I did get a little greedy and def...

I've on NT for a while so it's pics or no help. But yeah live and you learn. I don't think she was looking for straight up sex. The whole night she was talking about how she didn't expect the night to turn out the way it did. I.e. She just went out with her friends to get some drinks and never...

See this is what conventional wisdom tells me to do. But after being around many girls in school I feel as if this one is different.

Two saturdays ago at a local bar in my college town I ended up picking up this girl and taking her back to her place. We actually ended up connecting on a lot of things and eventually we had sex. I spent the night at her place and when we woke up had morning sex. We then we to lunch and then she...