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sdsolecollector23		#61	[url]	[-]
Registered User Posts: 57 09/20/11 12:25 AM	If she lied about something simple for so long. Imagine what else she's been lie'ng about. I say just drop her and move on. Today is a Gift from God. That's why its called the present.
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bboy1827		#62	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1743 09/20/11 12:33 AM	I think a lot of ya'll are mad insecure. Everyone has a past, I have one, if you've ever had a serious relationship then I"m sure you have one. If it's killing you, drop her, otherwise let it go and keep rollin wth the good times. Not every relationship will be perfect, not every relationship is all puppy dogs and rainbows, tough !#@# happens and if you can't deal with her seeing her ex, then you probably need to work on something before you have a bunch of failed relationships. People say "future" thinking months, maybe a year or two, but over 50 years if the worse thing she did was kiss an ex then you're in good shape. "Walk around as if the Sun had called me......Mad at the world" Follow @bboy1827 Are you a Jay-z Stan? Check This Last Edited By: bboy1827 09/20/11 12:37 AM. Edited 1 time.
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Chrisphreezy		#63	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2076 09/20/11 12:35 AM	bboy1827 wrote: I think a lot of ya'll are mad insecure. Everyone has a past, I have one, if you've ever had a serious relationship then I"m sure you have one. If it's killing you, drop it, otherwise let it go and keep rollin wth the good times. Not every relationship will be perfect, not every relationship is all puppy dogs and rainbows, tough %##@ happens and if you can't deal with her seeing her ex, then you probably need to work on something before you have a bunch of failed relationships. People say "future" thinking months, maybe a year or two, but over 50 years if the worse thing she did was kiss an ex then you're in good shape. even if he doesn't trust her at ALL? trust=relationship. you can't just act like it never happened. Twitter
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SonOfTony		#64	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 11731 09/20/11 12:37 AM	call on your ex-gf. see how she's doing \|THE\|KLIQ\| PSN/XBL: THEh8er83 YANKEES/TITANS/KNICKS/@wtf_flex
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Hendrix Watermelon		#65	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2354 09/20/11 12:47 AM	Yo, I don't know how you plan on handling this, but personally I'd have dropped her long time ago if she didn't have my complete trust. Then you said you wanted to marry her next year? Nah fam, you don't marry someone you don't fully trust. EVER. Then again, that's just me. Trust is something I value the most on any individual I befriend and women I get closer too, so playing with it and lying to my face about stuff that shes doing is grounds to get dropped immediately. INTERZONE
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zapatito007		#66	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 718 09/20/11 12:47 AM	shes not over her ex at all, dont be that dude op,, she just with u cuz hes not giving her that exclusivity that you give her, if he ever does most likely she will drop u for him ,, for sale lebron vi chalk /////,,,,lebron vi hwc/// hypermax tennis balls silver half cents//////penny 2 white atlantic blue///
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prymone		#67	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 4081 09/20/11 12:51 AM	lol my post got deleted anyways dead her op she a liar and possibly a skank Im with the Money Team right now XBLgt= Prym1tk
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bogusreality		#68	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 304 09/20/11 12:54 AM	OP, you are in what i call the "transitional relationship." TEAM CACAO Florida State Seminoles
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ricerocket1		#69	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2381 09/20/11 12:56 AM	It was me OP. I'll never call her again I HATE MORE TO LOSE THAN LOVING TO WIN
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jehims		#70	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 9248 09/20/11 1:05 AM	i can tell you love her, yet you cant completely trust her. I know exactly what you mean. All im gonna say is, if my girl ever EVER cheated on me, it's done deal on the spot. No questions asked. I told my girl to never talk/see her ex and she listened. However, she did go behind my back and met up with him to get her money from him that he borrowed from her when they were going out. I am still really upset about that, but i am trying to get over it. check this
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Kramer		#71	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2743 09/20/11 1:20 AM	Idk man.. Ask her what she wants and if she wants to be wit you and if things go smoothly from here on til next year your good TEAM 2 5 3
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Adrian1221		#72	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1739 09/20/11 1:27 AM	bbrroowwnnssuuggaarr wrote: So I went on my girls laptop today and her Facebook was open and it was a message she sent to her ex. It was basically saying she missed him but she needed to let him know how she used to feel and wanted closure. I called her and asked why she was messaging him and if she ever did anything with him. She told me they met up about 7 months ago to see each other cus he was moving to Arizona. She was sad cus they were real close and they ended up kissing at the park. After that she left right away and hasnt seen him since. They still texted each other alot after this happened. I saw her phone records and asked whose number this was she text alot and she told me it was his. I said I didnt like her texting her ex so she stopped. This was before I even knew they had kissed. So now I found out she kissed him and still kept in contact 7 months later. What would you do? I love her and I know she loves me but the difference is I would never put my self in the situation she put herself in. We live together and were planning on getting married next year. Now I dont know what to do. I didnt have to much trust her in before and now im going to have even less. Im hurt more than anything that if I never would of seen the message she never wouldve told me. Trust is key in a relationship. if you didnt have much before you shouldnt even think about marriage edit: read through the thread after i posted this and it seems like others keep pointing this out. There must be more reasons as to why you didnt trust her before. why is that? Last Edited By: Adrian1221 09/20/11 1:34 AM. Edited 1 time.
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bbrroowwnnssuuggaarr		#73	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 5338 09/20/11 1:36 AM	First off when I said I didnt trust her to begin with its because I trust no female. Every single female ive known was grimey in one way or another. Even the ones you think who didnt have or would do dirt did. She never gave me anything to not trust her about. Its how I am I just cant trust a female completely from past stuff. Shes never given me any reason to not trust her up until now and she always keeps in constant contact with me. She never ever goes out and when she does leave she always tells me where shes going and what shes doing and if im ok with it. The trust I had in her is about all I can ever have in a female but now its been crippled. When theyve been texting each other these past 7 months it was never a secret. Shes told me they text each other and ive used her phone and while I was he texted her and ive seen the texts. That was something she never kept private. It was all Hey how are you hows life type stuff. Its when I found out how frequent they text each other which was once a week or so and theyd have back and forth convos I told her to dead that and she did. I love her alot and I believe honestly she just kissed cus I know her real real well and if she wanted to have sex with him she would have and left me because when this happened we were having some problems which were mostly on my part. We also werent living together so there was less of a commitment. One thing about her is if shes caught shell tell the truth because she has no problem letting someone know what they want too even if it hurts them or if itll jeaprodize a relationship. One of my best friends in the world was her best friend and hes the one hooked us up. They were really close and he pretty much let me know everything about her before hand. If I was to tell him this hed never ever believe it. I dont want to end a relationship over a kiss and one lie but its going to take me some time to learn how im going to deal with it. I do believe in forgiving but ill never forget this. I think im going to change the structure of this relationship and see where it goes and if nothings changed im done because as much as I know I can leave her and ive thought about it but I dont want to. I really care about her alot so its not so easy to just drop her. This is making me think about my best firends relationship. He loved his girl to death they were together for 6 years but in the beginning he cheated alot and he got caught once and his girl still stayed and I can only imagine how she felt. After that he was on the straight and arrow but in the end she ended up goin psycho and burning him. H.N.I.C The bag weigh a gram the zip 29 The ish gone sell N these ninjas gon buy They 16 in L.A. they 24 in Chicago Im up and down the interstate ninja with the Ralo
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Degenerate423		#74	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2554 09/20/11 1:41 AM	zapatito007 wrote: shes not over her ex at all, dont be that dude op,, she just with u cuz hes not giving her that exclusivity that you give her, if he ever does most likely she will drop u for him ,, Sorry OP, but this sums up what I'm thinking. If he actually moved for good and isn't in your state anymore then I can see you trying work things out with her, but if he's still around then good luck because I know you're not about to break up with her. I'm just gonna throw this out there too, there's no way she would have such strong feelings for an ex that never smashed, especially if the next dude did, and you, then she wouldn't even be thinking about him... FS/FT: Apple iPad 2 16GB Wi-Fi - $370! SF Giants, SF 49ers, SA Spurs...
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Cap29		#75	[url]	[-]
Registered User Posts: 86 09/20/11 3:31 AM	mytmouse76 wrote: honestly she may have had sex w/him just off the strength they never did when she was younger and he was moving anyway... its a strong possibility... pretty much. You weren't ever suppose to find out about that hook up. It was was probably like she loved you but he was moving away. I'm just saying you can do better.
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killahcam06		#76	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 374 09/20/11 9:41 PM	Dang Fam i was pretty much in the exact same situation with my ex. Me and her got together, her ex starts to hit her up. Turns out they broke up because timing was off or whatever so they had unfinished feelings. 2 or 3 months dude hits her up more says he wants to talk to her because he's going through tough times. My ex tells me and i say i'm cool with it. Problem is her ex now begins to hit her up more and get drunk and randomly want to talk to her. My ex tells me her ex was going through some issues again so he came to her house, they chill in his car and they hook up. She tells me right after it happens, i end up staying with her, but the relationship is never the same. She ends up having trust issues first believing every time i'm not with her i am going to cheat to get revenge. I then develop trust issues with her just because That incident never sat right. Basically, it ended up bad and we broke up. It's up to you OP, but from my experience the trust was never the same and the relationship was never as good as it could have been. "The beauty of life, you gotta make it last for the better Cuz nothin' lasts forever"
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