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Ouch my feet wrote:balloonoboy wrote:Not even. Everyone matures at their own rate. And when someone is ready, willing, and mature enough to get into a relationship, I don't see why their age should forecast whether or not it would be successful. The problem is when you have two people who are mentally and emotionally immature (or on the cusp) getting into relationships. I've seen people in their fifties who still haven't reached that point yet and the relationship subsequently falters in effect. And this is primarily due to the fact that they've been wronged and written off the idea of love. So, it is best to get out there to not only learn about yourself, but the needs of others. Eventually, you'll be secure and grounded enough in yourself to make a relationship work.This is an awesome post.
balloonoboy wrote:Not even. Everyone matures at their own rate. And when someone is ready, willing, and mature enough to get into a relationship, I don't see why their age should forecast whether or not it would be successful. The problem is when you have two people who are mentally and emotionally immature (or on the cusp) getting into relationships. I've seen people in their fifties who still haven't reached that point yet and the relationship subsequently falters in effect. And this is primarily due to the fact that they've been wronged and written off the idea of love. So, it is best to get out there to not only learn about yourself, but the needs of others. Eventually, you'll be secure and grounded enough in yourself to make a relationship work.
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WISEPHAROAH wrote:Too much importance is put on "relationships" by a lot of you guys. Nobody is going to complete you but you. Find your passions in life and pursue them, everything else falls into place. Women and men have been brainwashed into the "completes me" or "only really happy with love" paradigm %*@!*##!. You can live a happy meaningful incredible life no matter what situation you are in. Life ain't a Disney movie.
Ouch my feet wrote:balloonoboy wrote:Not even.Everyone matures at their own rate. And when someone is ready, willing, and mature enough to get into a relationship, I don't see why their age should forecast whether or not it would be successful.The problem is when you have two people who are mentally and emotionally immature (or on the cusp) getting into relationships. I've seen people in their fifties who still haven't reached that point yet and the relationship subsequently falters in effect. And this is primarily due to the fact that they've been wronged and written off the idea of love.So, it is best to get out there to not only learn about yourself, but the needs of others. Eventually, you'll be secure and grounded enough in yourself to make a relationship work.This is an awesome post.
balloonoboy wrote:Not even.Everyone matures at their own rate. And when someone is ready, willing, and mature enough to get into a relationship, I don't see why their age should forecast whether or not it would be successful.The problem is when you have two people who are mentally and emotionally immature (or on the cusp) getting into relationships. I've seen people in their fifties who still haven't reached that point yet and the relationship subsequently falters in effect. And this is primarily due to the fact that they've been wronged and written off the idea of love.So, it is best to get out there to not only learn about yourself, but the needs of others. Eventually, you'll be secure and grounded enough in yourself to make a relationship work.
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The Kid Fiasco wrote:Depends Really. I agree with were young and don't know what we want. But Some people already have good income, solid career, why not try to settle down and be happy with that person to top it off. People like to smash and dash, others pursue love, Miss. Right. We're young & foolish still, enjoy. I don't choose to smash every girl I see, not my lifestyle. I'd rather be in a relationship and share my accomplishments and happiness with that one girl. Indeed females don't know what they want, but I can wait till they make up their minds. but glad I'm doing the Army route, seeing the world, building up $$$ and staying young and single. I'm In no rush.
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10/04/11 9:29 AM
TennHouse2 wrote:I kinda agree because once i graduate i don't even plan on living in this same state, so until i'm done in the next 2 years or so (ill be 253) i don't really see myself taking anything serious
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Biggie62 wrote:You need to practice being in relationships so you know what you're looking for exactly and how to act in one. Experience is what you need in order to figure out who you are and what you need in your life exactly.
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DA MATRIX 1 wrote: 50% of all relationships have an expiration date anyway . Im 22 year old and I "date" i have two girls that i talk too. Alot of people in the 20's "date" or smash and just dash until its time to settle down. Plus im noticing in my peers even females friends have dudes on rotation with out knowing it. You just cant have relationships in your early 20's man just gotta reach your life goals first
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