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The Natural Mystic wrote:ok I think something needs to be clarified here. Black women are all not African American women. I have a girl from Trinidad now and I have dated black women from foreign countries and they are completely different from black women in the states. I have come to the conclusion that black women from other countries are willing to let a relationship grow from nothing(at least in my experience). My girl and I got together when I was flat out broke. I had nothing to my name except the clothes and shoes I had on. A !+$%! was eating peanut butter sandwiches for breakfast, lunch and dinner. You dig what a man say? but she held me down when I had nothing and I did the same for her. We have been together for almost 4 years. again, BLACK WOMEN ARE ALL NOT AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN. We shouldn't put all black women under one umbrella.
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kix4kix wrote:I brought up the issue of black women with my girl, and how I used to date them ect.... My girl is white, and we hasn't talked about the issue prior, she told me how every time we are in public she feels penetrating stares from black women, I said, you really feel that too? She said yeah. I am like, that is the exact reason why you my baby. See all these black women are too busy talking about black and white to realize that $%#+ doesn't matter anymore.
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VoidEmperor wrote:kix4kix wrote:I brought up the issue of black women with my girl, and how I used to date them ect.... My girl is white, and we hasn't talked about the issue prior, she told me how every time we are in public she feels penetrating stares from black women, I said, you really feel that too? She said yeah. I am like, that is the exact reason why you my baby. See all these black women are too busy talking about black and white to realize that $%#+ doesn't matter anymore. that feel when you're walking down thh street with your black gf and you feel the penetrating looks of black men...
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AKA LONGSTROKE wrote:The Natural Mystic wrote:ok I think something needs to be clarified here. Black women are all not African American women. I have a girl from Trinidad now and I have dated black women from foreign countries and they are completely different from black women in the states. I have come to the conclusion that black women from other countries are willing to let a relationship grow from nothing(at least in my experience). My girl and I got together when I was flat out broke. I had nothing to my name except the clothes and shoes I had on. A !+$%! was eating peanut butter sandwiches for breakfast, lunch and dinner. You dig what a man say? but she held me down when I had nothing and I did the same for her. We have been together for almost 4 years. again, BLACK WOMEN ARE ALL NOT AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN. We shouldn't put all black women under one umbrella.Be careful there, because there are plenty of West Indian gold diggers in Brooklyn my man. As soon as they get hip to the divide in Black American culture, they will hone in on a brother from the states, giving him what he thinks that he needs, then milk his +** dry. I am from Brooklyn, I have seen it first hand, fully knowing how lethal that Caribbean coochie can be, and how they try and wrap a fella around their fingers.However, I had too much game, as I saw it coming.... However +2, I know quite a few who didn't fare too well!
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The Natural Mystic wrote:AKA LONGSTROKE wrote:The Natural Mystic wrote:ok I think something needs to be clarified here. Black women are all not African American women. I have a girl from Trinidad now and I have dated black women from foreign countries and they are completely different from black women in the states. I have come to the conclusion that black women from other countries are willing to let a relationship grow from nothing(at least in my experience). My girl and I got together when I was flat out broke. I had nothing to my name except the clothes and shoes I had on. A !+$%! was eating peanut butter sandwiches for breakfast, lunch and dinner. You dig what a man say? but she held me down when I had nothing and I did the same for her. We have been together for almost 4 years. again, BLACK WOMEN ARE ALL NOT AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN. We shouldn't put all black women under one umbrella.Be careful there, because there are plenty of West Indian gold diggers in Brooklyn my man. As soon as they get hip to the divide in Black American culture, they will hone in on a brother from the states, giving him what he thinks that he needs, then milk his +** dry. I am from Brooklyn, I have seen it first hand, fully knowing how lethal that Caribbean coochie can be, and how they try and wrap a fella around their fingers.However, I had too much game, as I saw it coming.... However +2, I know quite a few who didn't fare too well! I mean, yea once they are corrupted they are gone forever. There is no changing back. I snatched my girl coming off the boat. But this goes back to not putting everyone under one umbrella. I'm just saying, there are black women around the world that don't think like the harlots in those videos. There are black women who will take care of their man and hold the fort down when he can't. They will still respect you as the man of the relationship even if you are not bringing in Jay-z money. I was just speaking on my experience. It might be rare, but you can also find some African American women who will hold you down but this goes with any race tho. During my college years at HU, I met some well rounded AA women but plenty with some twisted view on not just relationships but on life in general.
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Peep Game wrote:eddiehouse5 wrote:Peep Game wrote:Now that is more of the insight I was looking for, cause the other one just seemed like a broad general statement. All of these are things I've witnessed myself throughouthigh school and college. Isn't it sad man? Those other guys up there are spot on. I've been called weird, and accused of being gay on the regular. Why? Because I'm not about that life? Because I worked decades to make something of my life, and I don't want to throw it away in an instant (YOLO)? Because I wanted to get to know you before I layed down with you? These women are trife, and they NEVER EVER take the blame for what's wrong in their lives, it's always someone else.The strongest black women are out there trying to make a difference. They're helping to raise the youth, and they're working hard to make things better. The weak black women are on tv complaining that they can't get a man, while they claim that they are the "strong black women." It's a disgrace. The strongest black women understand how to compromise, now that it takes work to make a relationship work, and know that after a long day at work that no one wants to come home to an argument. These weak black women don't get it. That's why they're single.Very glad to see that bolded part right there. A lot of times in these types of threads, you never hear people uplifting the positive black women when talking about the criticisms ofthe ones with the negative attitudes like the one in that original vid.
eddiehouse5 wrote:Peep Game wrote:Now that is more of the insight I was looking for, cause the other one just seemed like a broad general statement. All of these are things I've witnessed myself throughouthigh school and college. Isn't it sad man? Those other guys up there are spot on. I've been called weird, and accused of being gay on the regular. Why? Because I'm not about that life? Because I worked decades to make something of my life, and I don't want to throw it away in an instant (YOLO)? Because I wanted to get to know you before I layed down with you? These women are trife, and they NEVER EVER take the blame for what's wrong in their lives, it's always someone else.The strongest black women are out there trying to make a difference. They're helping to raise the youth, and they're working hard to make things better. The weak black women are on tv complaining that they can't get a man, while they claim that they are the "strong black women." It's a disgrace. The strongest black women understand how to compromise, now that it takes work to make a relationship work, and know that after a long day at work that no one wants to come home to an argument. These weak black women don't get it. That's why they're single.
Peep Game wrote:Now that is more of the insight I was looking for, cause the other one just seemed like a broad general statement. All of these are things I've witnessed myself throughouthigh school and college.
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B Smooth 202 wrote:black people are in the state they are because everything we do in America is an after product of CAPITAL-SLAVERY...we have no family structure...we have no ability to build relationships (the next would be communities) with each other because our sexual energy was abused strictly to REPRODUCE in order to produce and replinish the slave population.its not talk..its literal. we can't act on our own because we've been bred to behave a certain way, and think a certain way, thus we are a certain way.
please, we all have choices and decisions we make and we should be mature enough to take responsibility for the consequences ,repercussions and ramifications.
From my perspective, the real issue is not that black women being unable to find eligible black men ,but rather failure by the black men to perform their roles and functions as males including support their women.... like it was mentioned before black men(westernized/domesticated ) chase and obsess over women with long stringy hair and light skin so their women spend $$$billions to try and mimic those feature their males find so desirable.Because black women know they do not possess those features, they begin to resent their males, while at the same time further progressing the feelings of self hatred.Therefore , western society tells black women they are undesirable while, black men let them know they are undesirable(intentionally or unintentionally ).
Therefore the black women's thoughts of resentment are fueled by their feeling of betrayal by the very same men that are supposed to be their protector,lovers and providers.The black women then pass their ill will onto their children, ostracizing the son and poisoning the daughter(mentally and psychologically).The daughters[ with no real self confidence] can only evaluate their existence through materialistic ideals because society and their fathers(black men) tell them they have no real value-Anton. The mother(black women )emasculates and forces feminine characteristics (consciously or subconsciously )onto the son as the ultimate revenge limiting his chances of reproducing.If the son never reproduces then that will be the end of the black men's genes, thus it is the ultimate revenge.Thus, begins the cycle of eroding of black on black love
This means until black men are able to stay out prisons ,become responsible while asserting themselves(economically and socially ) the cycle will continue.Actions speak louder than words often time are blacks are synonymous with the later.This does not absolve black women
example go into black women thread check the women that are in the pyramid posts (how many have their natural hair, how many have western features?) i'm assuming a lot of the guys in there are black meaning you guys are going to father black women who are going to pick up on you ideals and be influenced by them,
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Scientific Method wrote: milestailsprowe wrote: I feel we need more women on NT because everytime these threads come up its always starts with a article or vid of Black women throwing black women under the bus then our majority male poster throw them under the bus. We need more of a women point of view.Used to be. I'm sure they just got tired of the whole, "I'm a good black man and therefore too good for black chics, stopped dating them after I graduated," white girl pedastalization along with the generalizations they are all gold diggers, which goes on for pages and pages, then let a chic say one thing negative about black dudes and they all get upset and try to go at them.
milestailsprowe wrote: I feel we need more women on NT because everytime these threads come up its always starts with a article or vid of Black women throwing black women under the bus then our majority male poster throw them under the bus. We need more of a women point of view.
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MartianRefugee wrote:B Smooth 202 wrote:black people are in the state they are because everything we do in America is an after product of CAPITAL-SLAVERY...we have no family structure...we have no ability to build relationships (the next would be communities) with each other because our sexual energy was abused strictly to REPRODUCE in order to produce and replinish the slave population.its not talk..its literal. we can't act on our own because we've been bred to behave a certain way, and think a certain way, thus we are a certain way. please, we all have choices and decisions we make and we should be mature enough to take responsibility for the consequences ,repercussions and ramifications.From my perspective, the real issue is not that black women being unable to find eligible black men ,but rather failure by the black men to perform their roles and functions as males including support their women.... like it was mentioned before black men(westernized/domesticated ) chase and obsess over women with long stringy hair and light skin so their women spend $$$billions to try and mimic those feature their males find so desirable.Because black women know they do not possess those features, they begin to resent their males, while at the same time further progressing the feelings of self hatred.Therefore , western society tells black women they are undesirable while, black men let them know they are undesirable(intentionally or unintentionally ).Therefore the black women's thoughts of resentment are fueled by their feeling of betrayal by the very same men that are supposed to be their protector,lovers and providers.The black women then pass their ill will onto their children, ostracizing the son and poisoning the daughter(mentally and psychologically).The daughters[ with no real self confidence] can only evaluate their existence through materialistic ideals because society and their fathers(black men) tell them they have no real value-Anton. The mother(black women )emasculates and forces feminine characteristics (consciously or subconsciously )onto the son as the ultimate revenge limiting his chances of reproducing.If the son never reproduces then that will be the end of the black men's genes, thus it is the ultimate revenge.Thus, begins the cycle of eroding of black on black loveThis means until black men are able to stay out prisons ,become responsible while asserting themselves(economically and socially ) the cycle will continue.Actions speak louder than words often time are blacks are synonymous with the later.This does not absolve black womenexample go into black women thread check the women that are in the pyramid posts (how many have their natural hair, how many have western features?) i'm assuming a lot of the guys in there are black meaning you guys are going to father black women who are going to pick up on you ideals and be influenced by them,
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