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01/19/12 7:41 PM
23 and been in a relationship for 2 years give or take. but i would rather (and probably soon will) be single. at this stage in my life i dont want to worry about anyone but myself.
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01/20/12 3:31 PM
DipsetGeneral wrote:SneakerHeathen wrote:DipsetGeneral wrote:I'm 22. I'd like to find my soul-mate now, so I can marry her at 35+ years of age.there isn't a chick alive whom'll wait that long for you to make a commitment (simply being in a relationship isn't commitment). They don't want to be 35+ just starting to have kids either. You're probably not going to take my word on that but w/e. NTers with their whimsical fantasies. Then that chick isn't on the same page as me and I will keep it moving. I want to be financially stable and be able to take care of myself first, before taking care of another life-form.I'm not tryna worry about movin' in wit' a girl, and splitting the bills, rent or mortgage with someone.Once I am more than financially stable and mature enough, then that is when we can get married and have children.
SneakerHeathen wrote:DipsetGeneral wrote:I'm 22. I'd like to find my soul-mate now, so I can marry her at 35+ years of age.there isn't a chick alive whom'll wait that long for you to make a commitment (simply being in a relationship isn't commitment). They don't want to be 35+ just starting to have kids either. You're probably not going to take my word on that but w/e. NTers with their whimsical fantasies.
DipsetGeneral wrote:I'm 22. I'd like to find my soul-mate now, so I can marry her at 35+ years of age.
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01/20/12 5:30 PM
ninjahood wrote:I was in a 4 year relationship...when it was good it was great, But yea...that joint burned down In flames, don't smash ur ex either...unless U cool wit da non committedness of it all... My ur late 20s I say find someone, once ur 30 and up its lonely out there... And da pickings is slim cuz all these %%*+#$ have kids...
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01/20/12 6:06 PM
DreSlay wrote:DipsetGeneral wrote:SneakerHeathen wrote:there isn't a chick alive whom'll wait that long for you to make a commitment (simply being in a relationship isn't commitment). They don't want to be 35+ just starting to have kids either. You're probably not going to take my word on that but w/e. NTers with their whimsical fantasies. Then that chick isn't on the same page as me and I will keep it moving. I want to be financially stable and be able to take care of myself first, before taking care of another life-form.I'm not tryna worry about movin' in wit' a girl, and splitting the bills, rent or mortgage with someone.Once I am more than financially stable and mature enough, then that is when we can get married and have children. again, there isnt a woman alive that will wait 13+ years for marriage. Nobody is saying that you shouldn't wait till your financially stable. I applaud you on that because that is a good way to do it. But to find your soul mate and they say "Great! Now just stand by my side for 13+ years and THEN we'll get married and start a family" is absurd and inconsiderate to her and on the flipside, what if she's ready and your not? should she wait around 13+ years for you? In either senairo, you are wasting her time. If your gonna wait till around 35 to settle down, then why not start looking WHEN YOU'RE READY????
DipsetGeneral wrote:SneakerHeathen wrote:there isn't a chick alive whom'll wait that long for you to make a commitment (simply being in a relationship isn't commitment). They don't want to be 35+ just starting to have kids either. You're probably not going to take my word on that but w/e. NTers with their whimsical fantasies. Then that chick isn't on the same page as me and I will keep it moving. I want to be financially stable and be able to take care of myself first, before taking care of another life-form.I'm not tryna worry about movin' in wit' a girl, and splitting the bills, rent or mortgage with someone.Once I am more than financially stable and mature enough, then that is when we can get married and have children.
SneakerHeathen wrote:there isn't a chick alive whom'll wait that long for you to make a commitment (simply being in a relationship isn't commitment). They don't want to be 35+ just starting to have kids either. You're probably not going to take my word on that but w/e. NTers with their whimsical fantasies.
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01/20/12 6:30 PM
DipsetGeneral wrote:DreSlay wrote:DipsetGeneral wrote:Then that chick isn't on the same page as me and I will keep it moving. I want to be financially stable and be able to take care of myself first, before taking care of another life-form.I'm not tryna worry about movin' in wit' a girl, and splitting the bills, rent or mortgage with someone.Once I am more than financially stable and mature enough, then that is when we can get married and have children. again, there isnt a woman alive that will wait 13+ years for marriage. Nobody is saying that you shouldn't wait till your financially stable. I applaud you on that because that is a good way to do it. But to find your soul mate and they say "Great! Now just stand by my side for 13+ years and THEN we'll get married and start a family" is absurd and inconsiderate to her and on the flipside, what if she's ready and your not? should she wait around 13+ years for you? In either senairo, you are wasting her time. If your gonna wait till around 35 to settle down, then why not start looking WHEN YOU'RE READY????Yeah but my whole thing is "Till' death do us part".I want to know my future wife for 6-7 years before we tie the knot.I never want to go through a divorce, there is no sense in breaking up.
DreSlay wrote:DipsetGeneral wrote:Then that chick isn't on the same page as me and I will keep it moving. I want to be financially stable and be able to take care of myself first, before taking care of another life-form.I'm not tryna worry about movin' in wit' a girl, and splitting the bills, rent or mortgage with someone.Once I am more than financially stable and mature enough, then that is when we can get married and have children. again, there isnt a woman alive that will wait 13+ years for marriage. Nobody is saying that you shouldn't wait till your financially stable. I applaud you on that because that is a good way to do it. But to find your soul mate and they say "Great! Now just stand by my side for 13+ years and THEN we'll get married and start a family" is absurd and inconsiderate to her and on the flipside, what if she's ready and your not? should she wait around 13+ years for you? In either senairo, you are wasting her time. If your gonna wait till around 35 to settle down, then why not start looking WHEN YOU'RE READY????
DipsetGeneral wrote:Then that chick isn't on the same page as me and I will keep it moving. I want to be financially stable and be able to take care of myself first, before taking care of another life-form.I'm not tryna worry about movin' in wit' a girl, and splitting the bills, rent or mortgage with someone.Once I am more than financially stable and mature enough, then that is when we can get married and have children.
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SneakerHeathen wrote:DipsetGeneral wrote:DreSlay wrote:again, there isnt a woman alive that will wait 13+ years for marriage. Nobody is saying that you shouldn't wait till your financially stable. I applaud you on that because that is a good way to do it. But to find your soul mate and they say "Great! Now just stand by my side for 13+ years and THEN we'll get married and start a family" is absurd and inconsiderate to her and on the flipside, what if she's ready and your not? should she wait around 13+ years for you? In either senairo, you are wasting her time. If your gonna wait till around 35 to settle down, then why not start looking WHEN YOU'RE READY????Yeah but my whole thing is "Till' death do us part".I want to know my future wife for 6-7 years before we tie the knot.I never want to go through a divorce, there is no sense in breaking up. G'luck bruh. 6-7 years huh? No kids, no engagement, no marriage for 6-7 years huh? And a girl is going to go for that? Not exactly most womens' idea of falling in love and starting their life with the man they love. Nah, they gotta wait 6-7 years to make sure you're secure enough about the relationship.
DipsetGeneral wrote:DreSlay wrote:again, there isnt a woman alive that will wait 13+ years for marriage. Nobody is saying that you shouldn't wait till your financially stable. I applaud you on that because that is a good way to do it. But to find your soul mate and they say "Great! Now just stand by my side for 13+ years and THEN we'll get married and start a family" is absurd and inconsiderate to her and on the flipside, what if she's ready and your not? should she wait around 13+ years for you? In either senairo, you are wasting her time. If your gonna wait till around 35 to settle down, then why not start looking WHEN YOU'RE READY????Yeah but my whole thing is "Till' death do us part".I want to know my future wife for 6-7 years before we tie the knot.I never want to go through a divorce, there is no sense in breaking up.
DreSlay wrote:again, there isnt a woman alive that will wait 13+ years for marriage. Nobody is saying that you shouldn't wait till your financially stable. I applaud you on that because that is a good way to do it. But to find your soul mate and they say "Great! Now just stand by my side for 13+ years and THEN we'll get married and start a family" is absurd and inconsiderate to her and on the flipside, what if she's ready and your not? should she wait around 13+ years for you? In either senairo, you are wasting her time. If your gonna wait till around 35 to settle down, then why not start looking WHEN YOU'RE READY????
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