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joeykadesh wrote:

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First and foremost I truly appreciate the maturity and great advice you guys are giving me right now, reading all of these responses really have made me feel better and I am happy that everyone is giving a supportive input instead of all "didn't read" "pics" and random memes and gifs.. Good looking out my brothers


Here is a quick story..I've always suspected her of hooking up with her ex boyfriend but I didn't have the smoking gun, I didn't have straight up proof..So months upon months me and her carried on our lives and I would see red flags, but once again..no obvious proof..When I did mention it to her she would say its nothing between them and they barely talk. I tried to believe her because I didn't have any proof, just suspicion..So anyway fast forward to today her phone rang and its the Rhianna "talk that talk" ringtone  and I'm like who the hell got that ring tone? She says her aunt..I didn't believe her so I said if you are telling the truth show me it was your aunt..She said no..I'm like if u have nothing to hide show me, once again she says no so I grabbed the phone from her, and she flipped out and I saw it was her ex..I read some text messages and it said stuff like "come pick me up" late at night..and I'm like @%*, I told her she was the only one I was sleeping with, I've been faithful to her, and she said I was the only one she was sleeping with...for a while....STRAIGHT DAGGER TO THE HEART...and I fell on the floor straight up distraught and she just got up and left...And now I'm just trying to pick up the pieces..I really loved this girl 

To keep it real, sounds like she's had this little affair going on for a while. And a thought process I had with an ex was 'it wasn't real'. Everything I experienced with my ex (in finding out she as still dealing with her ex after 4 months) became a farce to me. All of the memories, all of the things I thought was a good time, suddenly lost its impact. That mindset really helped me move on. I certainly learned from the experience, but I wouldn't give her the satisfaction in at least thinking I cared about what we once had. I cut her off cold turkey, and of course she eventually came back the same ole cliche rhetoric that you can imagine..."You were the best boyfriend I've ever...", "I'm sorry I...", "What are you up to this weekend...". I moved on mentally and I had no desire to talk to this chick in the slightest.