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Mr Fongstarr		#21	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 4544 01/25/12 3:48 PM	brasilianmami wrote: a male and a female can't be friends without at least one person wanting to over step the boundaries at some point in the friendship. plain and simple. anyone that denies that is either naive, complete idiot, or doesn't have a social life. I have a girl friend and I have girl buddies. Some of them are single with kids and others are just random chicks and my girl knows about them. I don't want them nor do they want me. I don't think it is really that hard as long as you are not hiding it in some sort of way. - Fong$tarr Member since: January 26, 2003 FONGSTARR.COM \| FATLACE BLOG \| INSTAGRAM:@FONGSTARR
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richiecotite		#22	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1427 01/25/12 3:50 PM	agree with the sentiment in this thread, married men and single wimminz cannot be friends I'm Your Huckleberry....
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diew its james		#23	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1993 01/25/12 3:51 PM	Mr Fongstarr wrote: Brolic Scholar wrote: Mr Fongstarr wrote: On an unrelated note, my married friend (a girl) just celebrated their 10 year anniversary and she is allowing her husband to sleep with another girl as long as she agrees to the girl and she has to watch. She figures that is a nice present to him since he has pretty much only slept with her but man, I don't think I know any other person that would allow this in their relationship. He's gonna fall for that trap and she's gonna be out there seeking that 2 on 1 glaze phase next. She think she slick... Haha. Nah, it seems legit. They got married at 20 years old, have 3 kids and they just came back from Vegas at the AVN awards and she was buying her husband lapdanced for 4 hours at Saphire. I guess the only thing is...it has to be straight sex (no kissing or other emotional stuff) with a stranger and someone that doesn't live nearby. I am sure this is easier said then done though but if he follows the rules, he's pretty much getting permission to get down with another girl. even if its not a trap, which it is , she will always be able to use this event to one-up him in future arguments.
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Jordanforever08		#24	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 852 01/25/12 3:52 PM	hell to the nooo...lol I have been with my wife for 10+years and have had issues with this very same problem, either new co-workers or just old friends, it never ends well not saying its her fault or mine just not a good combo.. my 2 cents Peace
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durty pancakes		#25	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 8079 01/25/12 3:55 PM	Leave no vagina un-opened. Smangle everything. T H E D A R K K N I G H T R I S E S
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AJChick23		#26	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 6160 01/25/12 3:58 PM	Mr Fongstarr wrote: Seriously? If she is ugly: yes If she is hot: no On an unrelated note, my married friend (a girl) just celebrated their 10 year anniversary and she is allowing her husband to sleep with another girl as long as she agrees to the girl and she has to watch. She figures that is a nice present to him since he has pretty much only slept with her but man, I don't think I know any other person that would allow this in their relationship. woah Anyways OP... it's a TARP SAY IT'S GREAT TO BE A FLORIDA GATOR
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blakep267		#27	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 140 01/25/12 3:59 PM	ExtRaOrDinaRy SwAg wrote: datpiff110 wrote: na female friendships never work it seems like women are more attracted to you when u are in some type of committed relationship 1000% true, even if it's just a steady BF/GF relationship and not marriage of course, because you are then deemed desirable. Nobody wants to eat in the restaurant that is always empty. Give me the 1 that is jammed packed. It must be good since everybody is there. Now apply that to people
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onewearz		#28	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 10369 01/25/12 4:00 PM	it'simple, i'm your packin a boa u can get away with murder , if your'e like me and hung like a 5 hr energy bottle u can't have female friends ....... Team Yankees
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shoefreakbaby		#29	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 882 01/25/12 4:02 PM	Mr Fongstarr wrote: Seriously? If she is ugly: yes If she is hot: no On an unrelated note, my married friend (a girl) just celebrated their 10 year anniversary and she is allowing her husband to sleep with another girl as long as she agrees to the girl and she has to watch. She figures that is a nice present to him since he has pretty much only slept with her but man, I don't think I know any other person that would allow this in their relationship.
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cap1229		#30	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 65 01/25/12 4:06 PM	If the married woman is watching for kink purposes that's one thing but if she is watching to make sure he doesn't make the girl cum a few times that's whack as hell. I get kink. Applaud it actually but not to regulate. I'm just saying you can do better. #Spartan
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brasilianmami		#31	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1975 01/25/12 4:19 PM	KatieJade4 wrote: bigsupa wrote: @KatieJade4 WHY WAIT...UR MARRIED LET US KNOW NOW. LOLOL I'm 100% faithful and I trust that my husband would never cheat on me. I also know the way I feel when I see another handsome looking man. I know that they're good looking and that's about it. I never think "oh man, wish I was single again so I could tap that" LOLL.. So I'm sure it's the same for my husband. I have no problem socializing and talking with good looking guys but since I've been married I haven't really "befriended" any. Not that I don't want to or want to for that matter, it's just kind of instilled in my mind that I shouldn't. BUT... I know if I were to find out that my husband were friends with a really attractive female, it would drive me crazy. Not that I'm insecure or anything like that, it's just like, "what can she or any female for that matter, bring to the table that I can't?" I don't know if that makes sense but I would almost feel disrespected. But +#%%#$% is crazy and once a man is in a relationship it's the #1 challenge to get him out of that relationship and into a relationship with her. Women love the thought of being able to "change" a man. Which is one of the reasons why girls go for the "bad guys". .MisGuidedxKidHopeless. Team National Truckers ''We'll be back next Spring Ladies..."
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TeflanDon		#32	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 4116 01/25/12 4:20 PM	onewearz wrote: it'simple, i'm your packin a boa u can get away with murder , if your'e like me and hung like a 5 hr energy bottle u can't have female friends ....... TEFLAN KNOWS Follow--Te flanDon
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shoefreakbaby		#33	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 885 01/25/12 4:30 PM	brasilianmami wrote: KatieJade4 wrote: bigsupa wrote: @KatieJade4 WHY WAIT...UR MARRIED LET US KNOW NOW. LOLOL I'm 100% faithful and I trust that my husband would never cheat on me. I also know the way I feel when I see another handsome looking man. I know that they're good looking and that's about it. I never think "oh man, wish I was single again so I could tap that" LOLL.. So I'm sure it's the same for my husband. I have no problem socializing and talking with good looking guys but since I've been married I haven't really "befriended" any. Not that I don't want to or want to for that matter, it's just kind of instilled in my mind that I shouldn't. BUT... I know if I were to find out that my husband were friends with a really attractive female, it would drive me crazy. Not that I'm insecure or anything like that, it's just like, "what can she or any female for that matter, bring to the table that I can't?" I don't know if that makes sense but I would almost feel disrespected. But +#%%#$% is crazy and once a man is in a relationship it's the #1 challenge to get him out of that relationship and into a relationship with her. Women love the thought of being able to "change" a man. Which is one of the reasons why girls go for the "bad guys". Its sad that, that comment is that laughable.
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Dirtylicious		#34	[url]	[-]
Posts: 48469 01/25/12 4:34 PM Administrator	Mr Fongstarr wrote: Seriously? If she is ugly: yes If she is hot: no addendum .. if she is remotely attractive...she must be in a well committed relationship and your wife must know both the husband and wife T E A MJETSN E R D
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whywesteppin		#35	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 16731 01/25/12 4:51 PM	Dirtylicious wrote: Mr Fongstarr wrote: Seriously? If she is ugly: yes If she is hot: no addendum .. if she is remotely attractive...she must be in a well committed relationship and your wife must know both the husband and wife Exactly. Friends with you means she becomes friends with your wife. Girl wants to have dinner with you? Bring your wife and direct all your energy towards your wife. Does the girl become jealous or irritated? Then she's probably not interested in an innocent friendship. For girls, if you have a guy friend who wants to hang out, have him hang out with your husband. If he becomes less friendly around your husband, then he probably has intentions. I believe in Vünter Slaush
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Mr Jordan04		#36	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 6318 01/25/12 4:55 PM	Brolic Scholar wrote: Mr Fongstarr wrote: On an unrelated note, my married friend (a girl) just celebrated their 10 year anniversary and she is allowing her husband to sleep with another girl as long as she agrees to the girl and she has to watch. She figures that is a nice present to him since he has pretty much only slept with her but man, I don't think I know any other person that would allow this in their relationship. He's gonna fall for that trap and she's gonna be out there seeking that 2 on 1 glaze phase next. She think she slick...
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MoonMan818		#37	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 121 01/25/12 5:00 PM	shoefreakbaby wrote: brasilianmami wrote: KatieJade4 wrote: I'm 100% faithful and I trust that my husband would never cheat on me. I also know the way I feel when I see another handsome looking man. I know that they're good looking and that's about it. I never think "oh man, wish I was single again so I could tap that" LOLL.. So I'm sure it's the same for my husband. I have no problem socializing and talking with good looking guys but since I've been married I haven't really "befriended" any. Not that I don't want to or want to for that matter, it's just kind of instilled in my mind that I shouldn't. BUT... I know if I were to find out that my husband were friends with a really attractive female, it would drive me crazy. Not that I'm insecure or anything like that, it's just like, "what can she or any female for that matter, bring to the table that I can't?" I don't know if that makes sense but I would almost feel disrespected. But +#%%#$% is crazy and once a man is in a relationship it's the #1 challenge to get him out of that relationship and into a relationship with her. Women love the thought of being able to "change" a man. Which is one of the reasons why girls go for the "bad guys". Its sad that, that comment is that laughable. What's so sad about it? I don't think guys are thinking... "I wish I was single again so i can tap that." It's more... "I wish I can tap that."
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Supermanblue79		#38	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 7842 01/25/12 5:02 PM	I've been married for 6 years and I've made no new female friends outside of long time coworkers that I have a close working relationship with daily. They are all engaged or married themselves, and I've steered them to build a strong friendships with my wife. We've built very good friendships with couples this way. As a married man you want to always keep your wife in consideration in everything that you do.
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MetroKid26		#39	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 3144 01/25/12 5:02 PM	I'VE SEEN PPL TRY THIS AND MOST OF THE TIME.... And no I ain't christian, though I believe in God, but I don't believe in the devil my beliefs are odd, if we the people were given free will from God, how could he give you free will without giving you evil?
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mytmouse76		#40	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 20398 01/25/12 5:05 PM	%@$! no! S.H.H.O. Student Hip-Hop Organization Do me a favor...accidentally step on your white sunglasses...this is Hip-hop we don't wear those over here...
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