NT, How do I losen up a boring/stuck up/shy/quiet chick?

Originally Posted by DLo13


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@ the shocker.
 
BLOW?
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Just kidding.

Stuck up chick=Have money
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Shy/quiet=introduce her to people, make her feel comfortable around your friends. Pay her special attention.
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You have to work for it. If you want to have sex with a girl with a brain you have to put in that work without getting into the friend-zone.

Trial & Error worked for me. I would say I got lucky more than I failed but with failing I learned. I think a lot of men fail with girls in College untilthey get their swag right whether it be self confidence or self aware. Girls know who the confident ones from the weak ones. A lot of girls are self consciousso the last thing they need is someone who is ALSO self conscious.

I've skipped classes, cooked, painted, attended a punk rock concerts, did all kinds of things out of my norm to comfort the interests of different girlsfor the sake of keeping warm in my College dorm
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@@ The Show Stopper. It actually looks like it could stop some shows
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Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

but it's hard to get at the FINE GIRLS!
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]That's the thing..you automatically give them a label. Dude, I look at it like this, all girls are the same until I get to know them. Sure some may look better than others, but when I go to a party or w/e.. I don't look at one or two broads and be like "damn, she's bad".. nah.. I treat them just like I treat everyone else. Beauty is common, the way a girl looks really doesn't mean much to me anymore. I'll leave it at that... (that "advice" is all retrospect btw
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Damn, thats real spit *single tear rolls down face*
 
Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

but it's hard to get at the FINE GIRLS!
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]That's the thing..you automatically give them a label. Dude, I look at it like this, all girls are the same until I get to know them. Sure some may look better than others, but when I go to a party or w/e.. I don't look at one or two broads and be like "damn, she's bad".. nah.. I treat them just like I treat everyone else. Beauty is common, the way a girl looks really doesn't mean much to me anymore. I'll leave it at that... (that "advice" is all retrospect btw
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exactly. you don't know how a females anybodies personality is like. like you don'tknow if they are insecure. cliche but don't judge a book by its cover.

and maybe she's not boring but she's not interested in you?

just be interesting. i hate to say it, but it's all about swag. and not over the top lame 'swag'. besmooooooth ....like butta baby, not no parkay not margarin
 
Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

but it's hard to get at the FINE GIRLS!
That's the thing..you automatically give them a label. Dude, I look at it like this, all girls are the same until I get to know them. Sure some may look better than others, but when I go to a party or w/e.. I don't look at one or two broads and be like "damn, she's bad".. nah.. I treat them just like I treat everyone else. Beauty is common, the way a girl looks really doesn't mean much to me anymore. I'll leave it at that... (that "advice" is all retrospect btw
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This is actually VERY good advice. Just be REAL. If a guy comes at me with a pick up line, I already know what hes after and its NOT going towork. Someone who is laidback and relaxed and isn't drooling over every chick makes a girl feel comfortable and is drawn to that person, rather thenrepelled by a guy throwing pick up lines at every half way decent looking girl. Good insight produccionfresos!
 
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos
exactly. you don't know how a females anybodies personality is like. like you don't know if they are insecure. cliche but don't judge a book by its cover.

and maybe she's not boring but she's not interested in you?

just be interesting. i hate to say it, but it's all about swag. and not over the top lame 'swag'. be smooooooth ....like butta baby, not no parkay not margarin
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Originally Posted by EVERLASTiiNG

This is actually VERY good advice. Just be REAL. If a guy comes at me with a pick up line, I already know what hes after and its NOT going to work. Someone who is laidback and relaxed and isn't drooling over every chick makes a girl feel comfortable and is drawn to that person, rather then repelled by a guy throwing pick up lines at every half way decent looking girl. Good insight produccionfresos!
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Originally Posted by Nktran001

I just tell them they look yummy.

Honest to goodness, that works all the time for me.

First it's a giggle, then she be like.. "So what's your name?
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That probably just means you're good looking
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Ain't no girl having that reaction if you're ugly
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They'd be like
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Step your swag and confidence up. Fine females are not hard to get at, they get wet just like the rest. It's just some females are starten to smarten up totry to make a guy stay around longer(playing hard to get) especially the fine ones(majority of them). For some reason their standards are a little higher thanothers but once you talk to them and get to know them, some are going to be dumb as a brick, just fine. At the end of the day their all the same and want thesame thing as you, some just look better than others. You just got to go with the flow and don't treat them no different than others.

And far as strategies, just be yourself and joke around. Don't tell her things she already know or something every dude has told her. Be different andoriginal, make yourself stand out.
 
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Imo For a shy/quiet chick, just make her feel comfortable, be yourself, treat her like a lady anddefinitely make her laugh.. that's what my boyfriend did
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For a boring/stuck up girl, kick her +%+, she ain't worth your time, i just hate stuck up girls,they're just going to treat you like $+*@.
 
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