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you aren't alone.
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I know exactly what you mean.
As for how to be more outgoing, i dont know what to tell you.
Seems like one of those things that you either are or arent
As for how to be more outgoing, i dont know what to tell you.
Seems like one of those things that you either are or arent
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L for love.
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I'm in the same situation man.
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damn Nt general has been making depressing posts lately this holiday season
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it's a fine line b/c I have a lot of friends and until 3 days ago a serious gf but I like to do things alone and need my space or I go crazy
in college and highschool I never wanted to stay in and not be around people so I think I'm making up for it now
in college and highschool I never wanted to stay in and not be around people so I think I'm making up for it now
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Go ball with your boys.
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That's my life in a nutshell. And I have a roommate, and a lot of coworkers to hang out with. But most the time I'd rather chill at the crib.
I have no problem with being a loner. Got my passport ready for 09' I'm jet setting all on my lonesome, I figured if I choose to be alone in life itbetter be somewhere beautiful, and exotic.
I have no problem with being a loner. Got my passport ready for 09' I'm jet setting all on my lonesome, I figured if I choose to be alone in life itbetter be somewhere beautiful, and exotic.
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man, it's making me feel a little bad.Originally Posted by pr0phecy718
damn Nt general has been making depressing posts lately this holiday season
honestly OP, I'm just like you, everything you said applies to me. Sometimes it gets to me(somewhat like I assume it's bothering you now since you madethe post) but I just kinda snap out of it after a while. Normally a time like this would be when I freestyle or occupy myself in something long andtiresome(not too worried whether I finish, just to keep me busy and from contemplating mainly).
I'm shy as well so I'm not gonna go up to a random person and start talking, but I'm ok at getting girls(won't get at somebody randomly walkingby, but going up an escalator or something and it's on) so I go out and meet new girls if I really feel alone, you could do something like that too, itworks
other than that I'm at a loss with you
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Damn, sounds like me. I've moved to this city after graduating, and my life has been a drag ever since. Work, gym, PS3, repeat.Originally Posted by ACBboyz84
What do u do to become more outgoing ?I'm not a club person so i don't go to clubs , etc. I mean i have friends , we hang out once in awhile but me and my boys are not that close anymore as we are getting older. I go shopping by myself, go to a pick up game by myself. I spend most of my free time at home or at the gym. It's either work, playing games, basketball or working out at the gym. I still did not get a new girlfriend ever since the last relationship and it has been more than 2 years. My relatives are bs people so i don't really talk to them that much except for holiday meeting or family reunion. It's Christmas and i feel like life is taking a dump on me.
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dat sucks man how do u spend every nite with ur hand? i admire you young soldier
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Warned.
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Me too brooo, it's straight I don'tmind.
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Originally Posted by NASTii SWAG 23
no one likes you or your personality son, thats why you have no friends. i think you should off yourself IMO.
Harsh. But to OP--Everyone has low times, eventually you'll find some person to pull you out of your depression.
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look at how all you guys are alike. You guys should be friends. There goes the solution to your problem.
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Cheerup buttercup.
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Originally Posted by NASTii SWAG 23
no one likes you or your personality son, thats why you have no friends. i think you should off yourself IMO.
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It's perfectly normal to prefer staying in than going out all the time. I would say just call up your friends. It's not like they are all excluding youand goin to clubs every week; or for your sake I hope not. Call them up and make somethin happen it isn't that hard.
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omgOriginally Posted by wildout4
Gonna be a emo party with wrist slashing everywhere. Nah jp but I kind of feel where you guys are coming from...Actually I hate when my friends call me, theyare some annoying $+! people.
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I'm a loner too...I don't really interact with my fam outside of the immediate ones, and even then, there area couple I have to take in small doses. Just my personality and how I think/feel about certain things alienates those closest to me, so I'm sort of in thesame boat you are. What happened is that I embraced it. I don't have to be well-liked by a lot of folks to feel good about myself. Yes, I know I just wenton a tangent.
If you want to be more outgoing, push yourself to venture outside of your comfort zone. I used to strike up randomconvos with strangers about the most obscure things when I was in the store/club/gym. It was hilarious at times, and I even gained a couple friends by doingit. Try that. Whatever happens, you'll be aight though, fam...don't sweat it too much.
If you want to be more outgoing, push yourself to venture outside of your comfort zone. I used to strike up randomconvos with strangers about the most obscure things when I was in the store/club/gym. It was hilarious at times, and I even gained a couple friends by doingit. Try that. Whatever happens, you'll be aight though, fam...don't sweat it too much.
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Quit laughin. You ain't got no room to talk.Originally Posted by LimitedRetroOG
j/k
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sounds exactly like me minus the pick up game and not going to the clubs...i go but from time to time...hopefully 09 picks upOriginally Posted by ACBboyz84
What do u do to become more outgoing ?I'm not a club person so i don't go to clubs , etc. I mean i have friends , we hang out once in awhile but me and my boys are not that close anymore as we are getting older. I go shopping by myself, go to a pick up game by myself. I spend most of my free time at home or at the gym. It's either work, playing games, basketball or working out at the gym. I still did not get a new girlfriend ever since the last relationship and it has been more than 2 years. My relatives are bs people so i don't really talk to them that much except for holiday meeting or family reunion. It's Christmas and i feel like life is taking a dump on me.
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