Smh I'm a loner

melomandnvnuggets · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by toast1985

Originally Posted by ACBboyz84

What do u do to become more outgoing ?I'm not a club person so i don't go to clubs , etc. I mean i have friends , we hang out once in awhile but me and my boys are not that close anymore as we are getting older. I go shopping by myself, go to a pick up game by myself. I spend most of my free time at home or at the gym. It's either work, playing games, basketball or working out at the gym. I still did not get a new girlfriend ever since the last relationship and it has been more than 2 years. My relatives are bs people so i don't really talk to them that much except for holiday meeting or family reunion. It's Christmas and i feel like life is taking a dump on me.

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Damn, sounds like me. I've moved to this city after graduating, and my life has been a drag ever since. Work, gym, PS3, repeat.

same here except I haven't had a job in about 4 months, I don't know anybody here in columbus, all my friends are joining the military orworking or at school back home, haven't been doing shyyt since about june, depressing

and it's mainly because of my personality

chris steez · Dec 26, 2008

Same here...well im outgoing and i chill around sometimes...i dont have any social issues...but lately ive just been chillingby myself because people are lame now a days and no one ever wants to chill...but like i said before...i cut alot of people off...

Im going to be moving to florida soon and living with my cousins and my aunt/uncle so im going to be chilling around with my cousin and his friends lol...

As for the girl situation when i touchdown in my new homebase....well im going to just make a reference to the "can i borrow you?" line from themyspace vol.2 thread

...

I got kitty kat on reserve down there

face82 · Dec 26, 2008

I'm only that way now cuz i cut a lot of dudes off. But I guess just go out to some bars. You'll meet a lot of loners in there that might be on thesame page as you and yall might hook up and get into something. And I mean that in the gayest way possible.

im a helion · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by Face82

I'm only that way now cuz i cut a lot of dudes off. But I guess just go out to some bars. You'll meet a lot of loners in there that might be on the same page as you and yall might hook up and get into something. And I mean that in the gayest way possible.

Like that one time you approached me at the bar? That was a fuuuuun night.

face82 · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

Originally Posted by Face82

I'm only that way now cuz i cut a lot of dudes off. But I guess just go out to some bars. You'll meet a lot of loners in there that might be on the
same page as you and yall might hook up and get into something. And I mean that in the gayest way possible.

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Like that one time you approached me at the bar? That was a fuuuuun night.

Man you lame as hell bru. That #+# ain't even cool. we was drunk bru, but you wana tell the world. Lose my number and you blocked on myspace and aim. Punk@@@ #+# !

im a helion · Dec 26, 2008

Damn, man I thought you wasn't ashamed of me? I thought we had a connection? %@%@ is goin on???

eye see soles · Dec 26, 2008

You're an introvert. Embrace it.

snaggykicks · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by ACBboyz84

What do u do to become more outgoing ?I'm not a club person so i don't go to clubs , etc. I mean i have friends , we hang out once in awhile but me and my boys are not that close anymore as we are getting older. I go shopping by myself, go to a pick up game by myself. I spend most of my free time at home or at the gym. It's either work, playing games, basketball or working out at the gym. I still did not get a new girlfriend ever since the last relationship and it has been more than 2 years. My relatives are bs people so i don't really talk to them that much except for holiday meeting or family reunion. It's Christmas and i feel like life is taking a dump on me.

I no its not funny but its just sounds like u dont like anyone

face82 · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

Damn, man I thought you wasn't ashamed of me? I thought we had a connection? %*!% is goin on???

I'm cool bru. Changing my sn. Yall look out for KungFuPedoBear

scribble253 · Dec 26, 2008

Welcome to the adult life. You will spend most of your time working and the rest sleeping. You might have some free time on the side but that doesn't meanyour friends always have the same day off as you. Also, most your friends will end up getting married or starting a family. Man, this already sounds prettydepressing, I'm going to stop now lol.

nick0lis · Dec 26, 2008

im usually a loner by choice. very rarely will i go out by choice without being pushed out by my friends.

ihavemyownopinion · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by Face82

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

Damn, man I thought you wasn't ashamed of me? I thought we had a connection? %*!% is goin on???

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I'm cool bru. Changing my sn. Yall look out for KungFuPedoBear

Umm this is really none of my business but i was just wondering why you are giving out your new Sn if the point of getting a new one is to not let someone knowwho you are.

slow motion g35 · Dec 26, 2008

its fine

limitedretroog · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by IHaveMyOwnOpinion

Face82 wrote:

IM A HELION wrote:

Damn, man I thought you wasn't ashamed of me? I thought we had a connection? %*!% is goin on???

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I'm cool bru. Changing my sn. Yall look out for KungFuPedoBear

Umm this is really none of my business but i was just wondering why you are giving out your new Sn if the point of getting a new one is to not let someone know who you are.

He's joking, bro...

ihavemyownopinion · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by LimitedRetroOG

Originally Posted by IHaveMyOwnOpinion

Face82 wrote:

IM A HELION wrote:

Damn, man I thought you wasn't ashamed of me? I thought we had a connection? %*!% is goin on???

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I'm cool bru. Changing my sn. Yall look out for KungFuPedoBear

Umm this is really none of my business but i was just wondering why you are giving out your new Sn if the point of getting a new one is to not let someone know who you are.

He's joking, bro...

Alright man. Thanks for clearing that up.

slipnslide23 · Dec 26, 2008

im on the boat but for different circumstances, the ppl i know dont wanna do %!$ but play video games,

los benjaminz · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by melomanDNVnuggets

Originally Posted by toast1985

Originally Posted by ACBboyz84

What do u do to become more outgoing ?I'm not a club person so i don't go to clubs , etc. I mean i have friends , we hang out once in awhile but me and my boys are not that close anymore as we are getting older. I go shopping by myself, go to a pick up game by myself. I spend most of my free time at home or at the gym. It's either work, playing games, basketball or working out at the gym. I still did not get a new girlfriend ever since the last relationship and it has been more than 2 years. My relatives are bs people so i don't really talk to them that much except for holiday meeting or family reunion. It's Christmas and i feel like life is taking a dump on me.

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Damn, sounds like me. I've moved to this city after graduating, and my life has been a drag ever since. Work, gym, PS3, repeat.

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same here except I haven't had a job in about 4 months, I don't know anybody here in columbus, all my friends are joining the military or working or at school back home, haven't been doing shyyt since about june, depressing

and it's mainly because of my personality

same here bro

columbus is lame as hell

were u stay at? im in dublin lolz

goin from to the bronx to columbus ftl

jordan23collecta · Dec 26, 2008

Originally Posted by lilpro4u

That's my life in a nutshell. And I have a roommate, and a lot of coworkers to hang out with. But most the time I'd rather chill at the crib.

I have no problem with being a loner. Got my passport ready for 09' I'm jet setting all on my lonesome, I figured if I choose to be alone in life it better be somewhere beautiful, and exotic.

you are not the only one

im constantly able to do something with friends, but the majority of the time i would rather chill at the crib (with my brothers or 2-3 friends)

antonlavey · Dec 26, 2008

Im in the exact opposite situation, i just want people to leave me alone sometimes.

kix4kix · Dec 27, 2008

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Im in the exact opposite situation, i just want people to leave me alone sometimes.

grandaddypurp415 · Dec 27, 2008

now the time to stack that paypa then

dr spaceman · Dec 27, 2008

Ehh me too but i just accepted it, and so have my friends and family, i am who i am. I just feel fake when i force myself to be outgoing and enjoy somethingthat i obviously don't. Same time don't be a hermit, keep the flow of communication with people open. I used to burden myself with things like workand school so i'd have an excuse not to be open, but that was terrible. Don't do that.

nothingbefore · Dec 27, 2008

im in the same boat (cause of producing & writing)

got me locked down

im out here and there

but just soo many lames i stay shut @ times and tend to watch things

but you know

what

"Duck em all....motha duck em all"

The World is Wack now...least America is

: buy me a spaceship :

creekshow · Dec 27, 2008

Honestly OP like others said its kind of a thing where you are either outgoing or not. As far as some ways to become more outgoing Id say just do the trial anderror thing. Get your confidence up and just go up and try to talk to a group of people. Id say everyone likes a confident person so if you just man up and putyourself out there I bet youll enjoy the outcome. Just tell yourself before you start the day that youre gonna meet someone new. All it t takes is a change inyour mindset. If you think youre a loner its gonna show to other people.

sa amg · Dec 27, 2008

It sounds like you guys aren't even making an effort to go out and meet people. Stop putting yourselves down and startputting yourself out there. Easiest way imo to meet new people is to go out with your outgoing co-workers. Get to know them better and start hanging outwith them. They know people, and you are going to meet their people.

Remember guys, a setback in life is a setup for a comeback. Stop feeling sorry for yourselves and start doing something about it. It's not that hard.First, look the best you ever though you possibly can. Smell good, practice good hygiene, dress clean, get a fresh cut, and just have a positive energy aboutyou that will make it appealing to friends, co-workers and strangers. This is the initial step because this is the first thing that people will notice aboutyou.

Put down that PS3 controller, take a little break from the gym and just go out, have fun, meet people. It opens alot of doors to other opportunities. Call upan old friend, make plans. Your NEVER going to get the full experience of life by just sitting there and feeling sorry for yourself. Get up, get out and dosomething about it. Life is great!

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