{~~~NT, I got to talk to somebody about it.....Girl Problems~~~}

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Well NT, first off I have to say that i can't post pics, because I'm in the 11th grade so..

a couple weeks ago, on a friday to be exact, my closest female friend and I were talking, and she tells me that she wants to go out with me (but she sort ofthrew hints at it) and I was feelin her, so I'm kind of reassuring her that the relationship would work. she then responds (and this is a quote) "Whatthe heck? why not?" so im like "ok". my phone is dying so i tell her i'll talk to her later

eventually i go out with my family, and when i came back i fell asleep

Saturday: it seems pretty quiet, i figured if i had started flirting she'd freak out, so i just talk to her like nothing happened.

Sunday, she's was busy all day, so i don't hear from her untill the end of the day, where she wants to "talk about us". she pretty much sayshow i misunderstood what she said (which was the quote). I'm like ok and didn't want to talk. I thought about the whole thing and i got pissed off,cause why would she pinned this all on me as if i didn't understand her when she herself wasn't clear?? and on top of that, why would u wait so long totell me u didn't want to do this?

Monday: I talk to her and i'm tellin her that what she did didn't make any sence. she begins to laugh and tells me "I did it because i care"and she's trying to paint me as if i was wrong, i give her my whole 2 cents on the situation and cut the phone off.

tell u the truth NT, i had all i could take of this girl, why would she do something like that and act as if she didn't do anything wrong? and between thisand all the games she plays, im done. i just want to know what went wrong, and how should i handle this situation better?

(if its too long let me know i'll sparknote it)
 
for some reason i did not understand what the situation was. Can u just make one statement explaining whats goin on, it would be appreciated
 
How can "I want to go out with you" be misunderstood? $$@# that.

Why are you tripping too? It's not like you have anything invested in her.
 
sure thing.

the situation was: my closest friend hinted to the fact that she liked me, and when I brought it out of her she says "what the heck, why not". Butduring the whole weekend, she actually didn't want to do it, and waited till sunday to tell me, and made me look dumb by telling me I misunderstood herstatement.

what I want to know is, what went wrong? should i still consider her a friend even tho she does dumb things like that? how could I have handled that better?
 
Originally Posted by tmukg21

*reads that she's 17*

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man, 17 is legal in ny
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girls at that age... their minds are like a game a ping pong.. back and forth back and forth...

dont fret just move along

youre only 17
 
boy I don't kow what your problem is...so she kinda said she wanna be with you and then that changed..
you got nothing to loose boy..focus on school man..more women out there.
 
Here's what you'll need to understand. You will have problems, much, much greater than this. You think she's is special, she's not. You'llnever meet someone like her, you will. People will do stupid, incomprehensible things to you, and there will be no meaning nor answer behind them.
 
why so many girl problem threads these days
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.....Dudes just need tosit back and let life play out. No need to fret over these females and their dubious minds. Everything will fall in place if you just live your life. Don'tfocus on these inconsequential problems, focus on making your life better.
 
Originally Posted by MetroKid26

sure thing.

the situation was: my closest friend hinted to the fact that she liked me, and when I brought it out of her she says "what the heck, why not". But during the whole weekend, she actually didn't want to do it, and waited till sunday to tell me, and made me look dumb by telling me I misunderstood her statement.
Ohhh, when u said she said "what the heck, why not" i thought u ment she was asking u a question like "what the heck, whynot?" thats why i was confused i get it now.

Yea she playin games man
 
Originally Posted by Dakingii

for some reason i did not understand what the situation was. Can u just make one statement explaining whats goin on, it would be appreciated
 
Sounds to me like you didn't take the initial hints very well on the first day. Once you weren't 100% about getting with her she had a day or two tothink about it and probably deal with the embaressment of getting rejected (not saying you rejected her, but obviously y'all weren't on the same pageso she may of took it as an L). After that, she tried to save face.
 
How does she answer the question "do you like me?" with "what the heck, why not?" Is she brick Mortenson or something? I'm 16 so lemmesee some pics. PM me if necessary! Kthxbye
 
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