A REAL LOVE TRIANGLE...vol. man im lost, with pics

Originally Posted by kix4kix

All I saw was three dudes
Damn.

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Go out to the West Coast, and even if it doesn't work out with the new chick she'll still be helping you establish yourself out there.
 
idk dude have you been with the chick from the west enough to know how she acts and stuff?? because if you move out there your gonna be stuck with her and youalready know how your chick of 7 years is so try to compare
 
i feel like its something missing with us and i cant put my hands on it
ever stop to think that the reason you feel something is missing from the relationship is b/c you aren't giving it your all?
if you have someone on the side...it's hard to really put forth the real amount of effort to make a relationship work.

if you always have an out...you're not really risking anything....and that's what relationships are.. taking a risk on giving your all to a person.

edit..and that's not to say that your current girl is the one for you...but if you always leave yourself an out...that probably means you've never letyourself really get to the point of really assessing if she is "the one"
 
Just because you have been with someone 7 years, especially off and on doesn't make it the best situation. If u love her like you say you do then make itwork for you, otherwise move on. You won't know what will or can happen unless you shoot your move.
 
Originally Posted by solefood229

Both chicks seem like good women, how has the chick of 7 yrs reacted to you losing your job

The thing is shes my backbone, she just wants to see me do good. she just keep telling me to be patience and it will come with time. We also have discussedplenty of times picking up and moving away, we both dont wanna be here.
 
Yall trippin. 7yrs dog, think about it. Yall been through it all in 7yrs. Worst thing u can do is move out west w/ ol girl and u be stuck. If u gon go w/ olgirl on the west then yall move to a neutral location together. Never move for the opposite sex to a location more familiar to them, it will never work out.That's just my opinion. The grass always looks greener on the other side.
 
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

i feel like its something missing with us and i cant put my hands on it
ever stop to think that the reason you feel something is missing from the relationship is b/c you aren't giving it your all?
if you have someone on the side...it's hard to really put forth the real amount of effort to make a relationship work.

if you always have an out...you're not really risking anything....and that's what relationships are.. taking a risk on giving your all to a person.


QFT, think you hit the nail on the head. Don't always agree with what this man says but this pretty much sums up most of the"relationship" problems on NT. Either you with her or your not, right now your not and how can you judge if anything will work if your not evenallowing it to work by being with her.
 
blackmagnus514 wrote:
I would stay with the main. You dunno how this chick is when you move in with her. She's all nice then when you move in, she gets emotional and kicks you out.

Maybe its me hating the feeling of owing people stuff....
yea I've def thought of that too, but like i said got a brother over there who's doing pretty good for himself soo that's not really aproblem there.
 
man i say stay with the chick u had for 7 years...

anything brand new seems better than what u have, but man i say you've put too much time into what u already have to let it go.

man u makin us all give u good advice cuz both look good u got lucky
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I just skimmed through the information then looked at the pics. Stay with the chick u been with for 7 years.
 
Originally Posted by FreezeTag

Originally Posted by solefood229

Both chicks seem like good women, how has the chick of 7 yrs reacted to you losing your job

The thing is shes my backbone, she just wants to see me do good. she just keep telling me to be patience and it will come with time. We also have discussed plenty of times picking up and moving away, we both dont wanna be here.


Well if I was in your shoes I would stay with her the west coast just seems more attractive know sense you really want to move
 
kix4kix wrote:
All I saw was three dudes

See what u fail to realize lil man, is that its not all about looks its about sexyness and confindence bc the prettest girl could be the biggest square, lameand insecure in the bedroom or the streets and on top of that have no goals in life. You see that when u get a lil older tho.
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I say wait a couple of months because in most cases something major usually happens that tells you what you should do
 
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