Buyin women drinks at da bar..............

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So me and my brother go to da bar last night and we in there drinkin chillin havein a good time, and my bro see this cutie sittin at a table wit her girls. Sohe gets da waitress and tells her to go to da table and ask her what she drinkin on and he gonna buy her a drink. So she walks ova there and comes back andsays "She said her girls want somethin to drink too." So my bro was like "give them a around of water on me" Lmaoooo. Was that wrong? Washe suppose to buy her girls drinks too?
 
i'm confused with ur screen name and the story then ur ##++ rainbow avatar and sig honestly...
 
It ain't like he was tryna get at ALL of them...let them be mad.

"He trickin on her but he ain't trickin on me too? Off with his head!"

F outta here with that. At least they got water from him...they would have gotten air from me.
 
Originally Posted by Johnson1

i'm confused with ur screen name and the story then ur ##++ rainbow avatar and sig honestly...

Use your best judgement......... What do you think??? And if you re thinkin what i think you are you re 1000% right.
 
Originally Posted by 1focusedfemale

So me and my brother go to da bar last night and we in there drinkin chillin havein a good time, and my bro see this cutie sittin at a table wit her girls. So he gets da waitress and tells her to go to da table and ask her what she drinkin on and he gonna buy her a drink. So she walks ova there and comes back and says "She said her girls want somethin to drink too." So my bro was like "give them a around of water on me" Lmaoooo. Was that wrong? Was he suppose to buy her girls drinks too?


If he would have bought them all a drink, then he would have had the girl on lock because he had the approval of her homegirls from jump(which is always aplus). So by sending them "water" it could have came off as him being a jerk.
 
Originally Posted by CJDynasty

Originally Posted by 1focusedfemale

So me and my brother go to da bar last night and we in there drinkin chillin havein a good time, and my bro see this cutie sittin at a table wit her girls. So he gets da waitress and tells her to go to da table and ask her what she drinkin on and he gonna buy her a drink. So she walks ova there and comes back and says "She said her girls want somethin to drink too." So my bro was like "give them a around of water on me" Lmaoooo. Was that wrong? Was he suppose to buy her girls drinks too?


If he would have bought them all a drink, then he would have had the girl on lock because he had the approval of her homegirls from jump(which is always a plus). So by sending them "water" it could have came off as him being a jerk.


Maybe, but they couldve just been using him for the drink and then bounced.

chicks like talking about not paying for their own drinks ahead of time before getting to the club.

the water thing made me laugh though
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if he's going to use that tactic...then he needs to go all the way with it...

personally...I'd never use that tactic as an opener.
 
I have no idea when it comes to drink buying etiquette.

Would it be wrong to tell the waitress to just buy the girl a drink, and tell her friends that the whole table will get drinks too if she comes to the bar andtalks to your bro?
 
Originally Posted by oidreez

he shouldnt have bought any girl a drink

With that attitude I hope you enjoy being alone... I'm not sure how old you are but when you become a grown man the unfortunate reality is that womenexpect for you to come out of pocket for things like drinks. I'm not advocating simping, nor am I saying he should have bought a whole table of thirstyfemales a drink, but an attitude like "I WON'T BY A FEMALE ANYTHING" isn't getting you anywhere. What do you do when you ask a chick out?Expect her to pay her way? The second you pull a stunt like that and females automatically think you are broke or cheap (which if you are tripping over a $5drink I assume you are) and that is never a good look.

To the OP... My method would have been to actually go up to the female and introduce myself, MAYBE depending on the situation I would offer a drink, butgenerally I think it is unnessecary if you are just meeting someone. As far as buying a whole table drinks, hell no... Next thing you know the table of girlsis laughing at you and you are left alone with your sister and no women talking to you. There is a time and a place where that is nessecary or even advisable,this wasn't one of them.
 
Buying a drink is a waste of money, because if the girl isn't interested in you, she could take the drink and spin yo $%!. Then again, they might thinkyou're trying to get them liquored up. Just starting a convo with her is better than anything.

Bottom line, it doesn't guarantee anything but you givin her a free drink.
 
Buying a girl a drink as an icebreaker is lame as hell, never have and never will.

After you been talking to her for a bit though and you've got something going then it's all good to go ahead and buy her a couple...
 
Originally Posted by Knivesdesu

Originally Posted by oidreez

he shouldnt have bought any girl a drink

With that attitude I hope you enjoy being alone... I'm not sure how old you are but when you become a grown man the unfortunate reality is that women expect for you to come out of pocket for things like drinks. I'm not advocating simping, nor am I saying he should have bought a whole table of thirsty females a drink, but an attitude like "I WON'T BY A FEMALE ANYTHING" isn't getting you anywhere. What do you do when you ask a chick out? Expect her to pay her way? The second you pull a stunt like that and females automatically think you are broke or cheap (which if you are tripping over a $5 drink I assume you are) and that is never a good look.

To the OP... My method would have been to actually go up to the female and introduce myself, MAYBE depending on the situation I would offer a drink, but generally I think it is unnessecary if you are just meeting someone. As far as buying a whole table drinks, hell no... Next thing you know the table of girls is laughing at you and you are left alone with your sister and no women talking to you. There is a time and a place where that is nessecary or even advisable, this wasn't one of them.

how are u disagreeing with me in your first paragraph and then agreeing in your second paragraph?
 
At all cost, refrain from buying any woman a drink at the bar. It's trickin! (word to Tariq)
 
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

if he's going to use that tactic...then he needs to go all the way with it...

personally...I'd never use that tactic as an opener.
approach...start a b/s subliminal convo...give the look... and
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hahaha funniest thing i've heard all day
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broads are shiesty. they just go out to get free drinks then go home to their boyfriends to boink. I'll have to use that line if i ever hear that from achicken
 
Originally Posted by CJDynasty

Originally Posted by 1focusedfemale

So me and my brother go to da bar last night and we in there drinkin chillin havein a good time, and my bro see this cutie sittin at a table wit her girls. So he gets da waitress and tells her to go to da table and ask her what she drinkin on and he gonna buy her a drink. So she walks ova there and comes back and says "She said her girls want somethin to drink too." So my bro was like "give them a around of water on me" Lmaoooo. Was that wrong? Was he suppose to buy her girls drinks too?


If he would have bought them all a drink, then he would have had the girl on lock because he had the approval of her homegirls from jump(which is always a plus). So by sending them "water" it could have came off as him being a jerk.


She could of realized he wasn't keen to getting played by random women he doesn't know for +%$* i.e. gained respect and more to the point women lovejerks. I get laid a LOT more when I'm an #%@!%%$ then when I'm a sweetheart to women, it's %*+ backwards without doubt but that's life. And thewater is
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so well played I say.
 
dude is lame for buying drinks SMH.

NYC nightlife has taught me never to do so....

hell when you get a table and have bottles they wanna crowd around too.

parasites
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Originally Posted by ebayologist

Originally Posted by CJDynasty

Originally Posted by 1focusedfemale

So me and my brother go to da bar last night and we in there drinkin chillin havein a good time, and my bro see this cutie sittin at a table wit her girls. So he gets da waitress and tells her to go to da table and ask her what she drinkin on and he gonna buy her a drink. So she walks ova there and comes back and says "She said her girls want somethin to drink too." So my bro was like "give them a around of water on me" Lmaoooo. Was that wrong? Was he suppose to buy her girls drinks too?


If he would have bought them all a drink, then he would have had the girl on lock because he had the approval of her homegirls from jump(which is always a plus). So by sending them "water" it could have came off as him being a jerk.


She could of realized he wasn't keen to getting played by random women he doesn't know for +%$* i.e. gained respect and more to the point women love jerks. I get laid a LOT more when I'm an #%@!%%$ then when I'm a sweetheart to women, it's %*+ backwards without doubt but that's life. And the water is
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so well played I say.
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