Buyin women drinks at da bar..............

Well, YES. He should have bought her girls a drink too if he bought her one unless he caught her alone and then got her one while she was alone. That'sjust drink buying etiquette.
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Easy 'mistake' though. I don't think you should ever offer drinks to one person WHILE they're in a groupunless you plan on paying for everybody. Package deal kinda thing.

She was ignorant as hell for saying that though. You don't ask anyone to buy you drinks. That's lame! She should have refused it if she wanted hergirls to drink too.
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Originally Posted by Knivesdesu

Originally Posted by oidreez

he shouldnt have bought any girl a drink
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With that attitude I hope you enjoy being alone... I'm not sure how old you are but when you become a grown man the unfortunate reality is that women expect for you to come out of pocket for things like drinks. I'm not advocating simping, nor am I saying he should have bought a whole table of thirsty females a drink, but an attitude like "I WON'T BY A FEMALE ANYTHING" isn't getting you anywhere. What do you do when you ask a chick out? Expect her to pay her way? The second you pull a stunt like that and females automatically think you are broke or cheap (which if you are tripping over a $5 drink I assume you are) and that is never a good look.

To the OP... My method would have been to actually go up to the female and introduce myself, MAYBE depending on the situation I would offer a drink, but generally I think it is unnessecary if you are just meeting someone. As far as buying a whole table drinks, hell no... Next thing you know the table of girls is laughing at you and you are left alone with your sister and no women talking to you. There is a time and a place where that is nessecary or even advisable, this wasn't one of them.
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Dont know if all girls expect you to pay for drinks or just the girls you hang out with. I would never pay for a girls drink with the attempt ofit being an opener or an effort to demonstrate higher value. The only time I would buy a girl a drink would be for the fact that I was in the mood for buyingthem a drink and that alone.

Im not to sure what you mean exactly with "asking a chick out" do you mean asking them out as offical BF/GF or asking them out on a date. When I aska girl out on a date or to hang out I do expect her to pay. Im asking her to come enjoy time with me, not asking her to come enjoy my money. I dont mind buyingher something when in the mood but if she expects me to pay for everything shes got another thing coming. And when Im dating someone BF/GF then im more thenhappy to spend my money on her because she its commited to me and I am commited to her.
 
Originally Posted by Dylishis

Well, YES. He should have bought her girls a drink too if he bought her one unless he caught her alone and then got her one while she was alone. That's just drink buying etiquette.
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Easy 'mistake' though. I don't think you should ever offer drinks to one person WHILE they're in a group unless you plan on paying for everybody. Package deal kinda thing.

She was ignorant as hell for saying that though. You don't ask anyone to buy you drinks. That's lame! She should have refused it if she wanted her girls to drink too.
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I don't care about that Kermit!
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You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you'retoo cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
 
Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
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You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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That's not being "cheap/broke/stingy"... if I have no interest in your friends, why should they get special treatment as well?

With that mentality, women must go to the bar and expect free drinks.

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Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
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You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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When I'm out I'm usually at clubs where my boys are promoting or I know someone so I do bring girls to the table to get their drink on, but they'vegotta be worth it. Girls usually would rather dance on couches in VIP than be drinking coronas from the next man playing the bar.
 
Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
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You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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That's not being "cheap/broke/stingy"... if I have no interest in your friends, why should they get special treatment as well?

With that mentality, women must go to the bar and expect free drinks.
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I don't know. That's just what you do.
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Like I said, you don't HAVE to buy all of their friends drinks, if you want to get aroundthat and you care enough, maybe hold off on the drink until you catch the girl alone. If that doesn't happen (she stays attached to her group), just chalkit up to a loss and keep your money! I'm sure she's not the only girl there. lol Hell, maybe even wait until she's with one other person. Ifcoming out of your pocket on like $12 is that big a deal, just don't even offer a drink. Maybe she's the type that will entertain you whether you buyher a drink or not.

And when I go to a bar, I kinda do expect drinks...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
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Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. Just the way it is! I knowy'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it.And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's allin good fun.
 
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

if he's going to use that tactic...then he needs to go all the way with it...
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YUP....And thats even lamer than tryin to break the ice the way in the lame way that he did

I wouldnt recommend either
 
Originally Posted by Dathbgboy

OP u've officially be Chopped n Screwed
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Originally Posted by Dylishis

And when I go to a bar, I kinda do expect drinks...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
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Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. Just the way it is! I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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i'll be 21 in frebruary and I don't plan on buying anybody drinks that I don't know before walking into a bar
 
Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Originally Posted by Dathbgboy

OP u've officially be Chopped n Screwed
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Originally Posted by Dylishis

And when I go to a bar, I kinda do expect drinks...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
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Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. Just the way it is! I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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Jim Halpert would probably buy drinks!
 
The only girls i buy drinks for are the ones that are in my regular ring of bar buddies. We always buy each other drinks and I leave it up to them to fanagledrinks from the other desperate horndogs around. The only time i give away drinks to them without expecting the same in return is if its their birthday.
 
Originally Posted by Dylishis

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
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You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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That's not being "cheap/broke/stingy"... if I have no interest in your friends, why should they get special treatment as well?

With that mentality, women must go to the bar and expect free drinks.
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I don't know. That's just what you do.
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Like I said, you don't HAVE to buy all of their friends drinks, if you want to get around that and you care enough, maybe hold off on the drink until you catch the girl alone. If that doesn't happen (she stays attached to her group), just chalk it up to a loss and keep your money! I'm sure she's not the only girl there. lol Hell, maybe even wait until she's with one other person. If coming out of your pocket on like $12 is that big a deal, just don't even offer a drink. Maybe she's the type that will entertain you whether you buy her a drink or not.

And when I go to a bar, [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I kinda do expect drinks[/color]...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
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Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Just the way it is![/color] I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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I'm sorry. I just have to chime in.

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A lot of rhyme, but no reason. It's one thing to accept drinks, especially if it adds value to a potential mutual interest, but it's another thing togo out every night and expect drinks to be handed to you simply because you're a girl.

I have absolutely no problems buying girls drinks at bars. But the girl I buy drinks for are the type of girls that would have bought themselves a drinkotherwise, and would gladly spot the next round so long as conversation is sparkling.
 
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And when I go to a bar, I kinda do expect drinks...When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it.


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Originally Posted by Dylishis

And when I go to a bar, I kinda do expect drinks...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
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Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. Just the way it is! I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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do you have any interest in the guys buying drinks for you?
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are you just doing it to get a free drink?

if its the latter, then you are part of the reason guys dont like to buy girls drinks. What do i look like giving a girl who has no interest in me a freedrink? you must be crazy if you think some guy would knowingly do that. But then again you probably let him buy you the drink and THEN after tell him that youarent interested.

no the men are not nicer, the men are just more spineless & they feel like trickin will make girls more willing to talk to them, evidenced by your post.& its not all in good fun, you are having him buy you a drink under false pretenses. Why dont you simply tell him that you arent interested in him &not allow him to buy you a drink. If you want a drink so badly why dont you spend your own damn money on it?
 
Originally Posted by Dylishis

And when I go to a bar, I kinda do expect drinks...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
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Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. Just the way it is! I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Broke females expecting dudes topay for their !#%% FTL!!![/color]
 
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
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You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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That's not being "cheap/broke/stingy"... if I have no interest in your friends, why should they get special treatment as well?

With that mentality, women must go to the bar and expect free drinks.
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I don't know. That's just what you do.
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Like I said, you don't HAVE to buy all of their friends drinks, if you want to get around that and you care enough, maybe hold off on the drink until you catch the girl alone. If that doesn't happen (she stays attached to her group), just chalk it up to a loss and keep your money! I'm sure she's not the only girl there. lol Hell, maybe even wait until she's with one other person. If coming out of your pocket on like $12 is that big a deal, just don't even offer a drink. Maybe she's the type that will entertain you whether you buy her a drink or not.

And when I go to a bar, [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I kinda do expect drinks[/color]...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
pimp.gif
Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Just the way it is![/color] I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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I'm sorry. I just have to chime in.

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A lot of rhyme, but no reason. It's one thing to accept drinks, especially if it adds value to a potential mutual interest, but it's another thing to go out every night and expect drinks to be handed to you simply because you're a girl.

I have absolutely no problems buying girls drinks at bars. But the girl I buy drinks for are the type of girls that would have bought themselves a drink otherwise, and would gladly spot the next round so long as conversation is sparkling.
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It's not like we hold guns up to guys' heads and and we're jacking them for alcohol. It's not like we ASK. It's not like if noguys buy us drinks we'll be mad. We have our own $ when we go out, but...just so happens that we rarely ever have to spend it. Don't hate girl! Hatethe game.
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Can't help it, I didn't make things this way. lol
 
Originally Posted by Dylishis

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
laugh.gif
You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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That's not being "cheap/broke/stingy"... if I have no interest in your friends, why should they get special treatment as well?

With that mentality, women must go to the bar and expect free drinks.
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I don't know. That's just what you do.
laugh.gif
Like I said, you don't HAVE to buy all of their friends drinks, if you want to get around that and you care enough, maybe hold off on the drink until you catch the girl alone. If that doesn't happen (she stays attached to her group), just chalk it up to a loss and keep your money! I'm sure she's not the only girl there. lol Hell, maybe even wait until she's with one other person. If coming out of your pocket on like $12 is that big a deal, just don't even offer a drink. Maybe she's the type that will entertain you whether you buy her a drink or not.

And when I go to a bar, [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I kinda do expect drinks[/color]...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
pimp.gif
Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Just the way it is![/color] I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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I'm sorry. I just have to chime in.

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A lot of rhyme, but no reason. It's one thing to accept drinks, especially if it adds value to a potential mutual interest, but it's another thing to go out every night and expect drinks to be handed to you simply because you're a girl.

I have absolutely no problems buying girls drinks at bars. But the girl I buy drinks for are the type of girls that would have bought themselves a drink otherwise, and would gladly spot the next round so long as conversation is sparkling.
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It's not like we hold guns up to guys' heads and and we're jacking them for alcohol. It's not like we ASK. It's not like if no guys buy us drinks we'll be mad. We have our own $ when we go out, but...just so happens that we rarely ever have to spend it. Don't hate girl! Hate the game.
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Can't help it, I didn't make things this way. lol
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Pics or Im calling ducktales..
 
Originally Posted by Dylishis

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Originally Posted by Dylishis

I don't care about that Kermit!
laugh.gif
You don't buy one girl a drink if they're in a group. That's common drink buying sense. But if you're too cheap/broke/stingy to pay for drinks then that doesn't even apply to you! No biggie!
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That's not being "cheap/broke/stingy"... if I have no interest in your friends, why should they get special treatment as well?

With that mentality, women must go to the bar and expect free drinks.
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I don't know. That's just what you do.
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Like I said, you don't HAVE to buy all of their friends drinks, if you want to get around that and you care enough, maybe hold off on the drink until you catch the girl alone. If that doesn't happen (she stays attached to her group), just chalk it up to a loss and keep your money! I'm sure she's not the only girl there. lol Hell, maybe even wait until she's with one other person. If coming out of your pocket on like $12 is that big a deal, just don't even offer a drink. Maybe she's the type that will entertain you whether you buy her a drink or not.

And when I go to a bar, [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I kinda do expect drinks[/color]...but so what? Just a privilege of being a girl.
pimp.gif
Not to say that I feel entitled but guys buy drinks. [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Just the way it is![/color] I know y'all hate to hear it but they do. When we go out to the bars or clubbing, my veins stay over the legal limit and I don't normally pay for any of it. And if I'm at a table with my girls, guys buy drinks for all of us. Maybe we just go to places with nicer men with enough money to blow on us. It's all in good fun.
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I'm sorry. I just have to chime in.

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A lot of rhyme, but no reason. It's one thing to accept drinks, especially if it adds value to a potential mutual interest, but it's another thing to go out every night and expect drinks to be handed to you simply because you're a girl.

I have absolutely no problems buying girls drinks at bars. But the girl I buy drinks for are the type of girls that would have bought themselves a drink otherwise, and would gladly spot the next round so long as conversation is sparkling.
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It's not like we hold guns up to guys' heads and and we're jacking them for alcohol. It's not like we ASK. It's not like if no guys buy us drinks we'll be mad. We have our own $ when we go out, but...just so happens that we rarely ever have to spend it. Don't hate girl! Hate the game.
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Can't help it, I didn't make things this way. lol
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Whatever happened to independent women?

Sigh... I sure hope you're pretty.

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I'm mad...imma just not comment
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she basically said hell yeah...trickin on me and all my friends is cool!....like girls dont see that blood in the water and drain that simptastic #%**@ pockets the rest of the night
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I'm mad...imma just not comment
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she basically said hell yeah...trickin on me and all my friends is cool!....like girls dont see that blood in the water and drain that simptastic #%**@ pocketsthe rest of the night
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