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Originally Posted by snaggykicks
Who cares about females feelings if they aint giving it up they are a waste of space /thread
really, maybe it's just me but I can't help but care, it's just how I am.
the way I always see it, if I thought you were good enough for me to talk to, you good enough for me to still somewhat care about even if you play me(not care,but not be on some "you aint even that cute, you just another bird like everybody else") because that's a reflection on yourself if you tried toget at that same chick a few minutes earlier...that's all you can get?
Maybe because I'm not looking just to hit and that's it, but unless you play me on another level of just $%#%@% upness, if you humane with it we canstill be cool, I'll say my hi's, ask you how you been, see what's new, etc...because I care. So I just met her, big deal, if I'm trying to getat her based on what I know then she aint just a waste of space to me, she probably somebody I think is good to know.
now getting to the post, does that make me a simp? I have no problem being chivlalrous(it's different for me when she expects it, but sometimes I still letit slide if we just met if I was gonna do it anyway) and I have no problem letting a girl know I like her and all that good stuff. I'm relatively shy, soI(don't think I) act the same around them in front of my friends(completely) only to keep the whipped talk down, but they all still know how I am because Idon't change who I am, I just filter out what I do around my friends(ex. I wouldn't divert all my attention to her if I'm around them like I wouldif we're alone, BECAUSE there are more people I know around that deserve my attention, and around friends I wouldn't really be on the PDA tip)
y'all tell me, I'm just who I am, a "nice" guy, am I simping? Because just as I said if I meet somebody good enough for me to get at Iwon't change that, I don't exactly only meet one girl at a time...I'm not on the "I love you" tip with anybody, but when I like girls Ilike girlS, not just one. STILL THE SAME, I never change like Jay(I'm not taking everybodyout to the movies or anything either, I don't trick on anybody), just more than one I keep my options open to until I find one I really like.
do tell me, am I doing it wrong? I'd sure like to know if I got something twisted in my mind