Generic Boy problems thread Vol. probably the first

Originally Posted by snaggykicks

Who cares about females feelings if they aint giving it up they are a waste of space /thread

really, maybe it's just me but I can't help but care, it's just how I am.

the way I always see it, if I thought you were good enough for me to talk to, you good enough for me to still somewhat care about even if you play me(not care,but not be on some "you aint even that cute, you just another bird like everybody else") because that's a reflection on yourself if you tried toget at that same chick a few minutes earlier...that's all you can get?

Maybe because I'm not looking just to hit and that's it, but unless you play me on another level of just $%#%@% upness, if you humane with it we canstill be cool, I'll say my hi's, ask you how you been, see what's new, etc...because I care. So I just met her, big deal, if I'm trying to getat her based on what I know then she aint just a waste of space to me, she probably somebody I think is good to know.


now getting to the post, does that make me a simp? I have no problem being chivlalrous(it's different for me when she expects it, but sometimes I still letit slide if we just met if I was gonna do it anyway) and I have no problem letting a girl know I like her and all that good stuff. I'm relatively shy, soI(don't think I) act the same around them in front of my friends(completely) only to keep the whipped talk down, but they all still know how I am because Idon't change who I am, I just filter out what I do around my friends(ex. I wouldn't divert all my attention to her if I'm around them like I wouldif we're alone, BECAUSE there are more people I know around that deserve my attention, and around friends I wouldn't really be on the PDA tip)


y'all tell me, I'm just who I am, a "nice" guy, am I simping? Because just as I said if I meet somebody good enough for me to get at Iwon't change that, I don't exactly only meet one girl at a time...I'm not on the "I love you" tip with anybody, but when I like girls Ilike girlS, not just one. STILL THE SAME, I never change like Jay(I'm not taking everybodyout to the movies or anything either, I don't trick on anybody), just more than one I keep my options open to until I find one I really like.


do tell me, am I doing it wrong? I'd sure like to know if I got something twisted in my mind
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Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

Originally Posted by The Technodrome

no point to it unless they don't know they doin it which I'm sure is the case when they simp real life unless they have other intentions which they prolly do 98% of the time
i think they do it unintentionally to get a girl to like them.... but that is the most unattractive $%@! ever..... i can see through it and they need to hop the hell off
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maybe its just their way of making your day better...
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and maybe its authentic, I wouldn't say I sleep around...often, but when I decide I enjoy a female's presence I try to make her smile and laugh all day
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I mean if he doesn't know you at all and he keeps goin hard simpin, I get your concern.

EDIT: cuz i'm takin it personal
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but if he has a rough idea that you are a beautiful, intelligent, honest woman then hes just trying to get your attention... I mean its better than whistlingor calling you a *********, right?
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also if you don't like dude stop being honest and saying you're not interested... best thing you should do is be 1000% dishonest like say you'rebusy when you arent(and they know you aren't), say you have a man when they know you don't.
they most likely appreciate your honesty and you're only feeding them more by saying you're not interested
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*P.S.A*
If u accept the simpin....simpin will come..simpin is like a new epidemic in NYC its number of victims are widespread from the devestation of male egoseverywhere...I'm a real N I keep the hos on they toes and they ask...who ruined u..why u don't care if guys ask me out ..etc..stop advocating thesimpin pls..
 
Originally Posted by NothingBefore

stuff like this is confusing
you're not playin
I just lost my jump because I chose to take her out..after smashing
I guess it's my fault her previous man used to beat her and never take her out
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Originally Posted by IHaveMyOwnOpinion

Different girls prefer different treatment. Sometimes, simpin is the only way to get a certain girl. If you gotta simp to get the girl youwant then by all means go ahead. Just make sure that you're simpin ona girl that likes it cause if she doesn't then...
QFT,
every female is insane in their own way
they are either lying to everyone or themselves, sometimes both
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Different girls prefer different treatment. Sometimes, simpin is the only way to get a certain girl. If you gotta simp to get the girl youwant then by allmeans go ahead. Just make sure that you're simpin ona girl that likes it cause if she doesn't then...
 
Originally Posted by IHaveMyOwnOpinion

Different girls prefer different treatment. Sometimes, simpin is the only way to get a certain girl. If you gotta simp to get the girl youwant then by all means go ahead. Just make sure that you're simpin ona girl that likes it cause if she doesn't then...

I don't agree with that. Yea sometimes girls just want somebody to simp, but why the hell you gotta put yourself through that if that's not who youare? If you "HAVE TO" simp just to get her then I say %+#% her if it's putting you out your natural element. She can't MAKE you simp, she got+%@+ twisted, all you can do is be you.

Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but just because she likes it doesn't mean you HAVE TO do it, it aint the ONLY way, it's just the easiest common meansapproach you found.


and I say this after the last post I made
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Originally Posted by Gregory House

Originally Posted by KayCurrency

Originally Posted by snaggykicks

Who cares about females feelings if they aint giving it up they are a waste of space /thread


...True simp talk right here....
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Call me what u want but i know my life is alot easier because i dont care aboutthere feelings once u watch office space u stop carrying about alot of things
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See kids? be indifferent/treat them poorly. Being overly nice, even if genuine will turn them off. Stab her in the leg and it's all good.
 
lol, I'm the opposite. I'm naturally a jerk, but I make it known that I'm just messing around. I like girls that can take jokes and can joke back.Usually I'd randomly call her a $#@*@ for something stupid, and if she plays along then we cool... but for the ones who'd be like "OH NO YOUDI-INT! *SNAP SNAP SNAP* BOY WHO DO YOU THINK YOU IS," I don't mess with those types.

I play too much, and I like girls who either play just as much or can take playing as strictly playing, nothing more serious.
 
Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by NothingBefore

stuff like this is confusing
you're not playin
I just lost my jump because I chose to take her out..after smashing
I guess it's my fault her previous man used to beat her and never take her out
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can never show a bird the finer things in life
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Originally Posted by Dr Spaceman

See kids? be indifferent/treat them poorly. Being overly nice, even if genuine will turn them off. Stab her in the leg and it's all good.


QFT
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Wait wait wait? Does simping include dudes trying to compliment a chick away from her current dude? I got boys that tell me stories and it sounds prettysimpish they can't find their own girl so they try to be best friends with someone else's.
 
Originally Posted by KayCurrency

70% of NT are simps...You think A guy that waits in line for 3 days for a pair of shoes doesnt have to lie to get some play from a female?...RIGHT
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oh my god this is so funny to me.

Edit : I'm sorry.
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Originally Posted by NothingBefore

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by NothingBefore

stuff like this is confusing
you're not playin
I just lost my jump because I chose to take her out..after smashing
I guess it's my fault her previous man used to beat her and never take her out
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can never show a bird the finer things in life
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I know our definition of "simping" might be different SiMPLY but this is what we tend to think of a girl that are so against it.
I think I speak for a majority of men when I say, no, we don't want a golddigger or a bird, but we expect a sensible woman to be in between.
Appreciate the small gestures we make to make you
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rather than the opposite.
but yeah if Duke barely knows you I understand, seems like hes around you often tho
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edited: for the poor grammar and its prolly still horrible
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It is DUMB simpsih to give a girls compliments/stuff to take her away from her man. These same girls go through stuff with their men and wanna see what'sout there then those cats come into the picture. Then they end up mad when they give the girl stuff and they end up back with their man.

You can't treat half these girls "nice" anyway. Daddy issues, insecurity issues,ex bfs mindf-ing them, most these chicks dunno what the hell theywant ANYWAY. Don't take a female's "wants" @ face value.
 
Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

It is DUMB simpsih to give a girls compliments/stuff to take her away from her man. These same girls go through stuff with their men and wanna see what's out there then those cats come into the picture. Then they end up mad when they give the girl stuff and they end up back with their man.

You can't treat half these girls "nice" anyway. Daddy issues, insecurity issues,ex bfs mindf-ing them, most these chicks dunno what the hell they want ANYWAY. Don't take a female's "wants" @ face value.

Had to QFT. Simply because, most females this day and age follow that principle. They say they want A, and dislike B when in reality it's C (or aculmination of B and C).

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Originally Posted by VeryAnalytical85

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

It is DUMB simpsih to give a girls compliments/stuff to take her away from her man. These same girls go through stuff with their men and wanna see what's out there then those cats come into the picture. Then they end up mad when they give the girl stuff and they end up back with their man.

You can't treat half these girls "nice" anyway. Daddy issues, insecurity issues,ex bfs mindf-ing them, most these chicks dunno what the hell they want ANYWAY. Don't take a female's "wants" @ face value.

Had to QFT. Simply because, most females this day and age follow that principle. They say they want A, and dislike B when in reality it's C (or a culmination of B and C).

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Had to QFT as well.
 
I'ma tell you right now...as much as I fool around on the 'net with all this simpin stuff (by the waySiMPLY...*CUFFED*), there's no way I'd actually put it into practice in real life.There's a line between being a nice guy and being a clingy !!@ dude.

At the same time, it does seem like girls don't like nice guys (note that I'm not referring to simps) anyway.It seems like most would rather be treated like %+*@, as opposed to a guy not objectifying them. With that said, I have to agree with blackmagnus...never takea girl's wants at face value. You'll get the short end of the stick 9 times outta 10, whether they got a man or not.

The older I get, the more this statement seems like a FACT --> "Nice guys finish last."
 
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