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[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Ya tu sabes[/color]
Generic Boy problems thread Vol. probably the first
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And if that's not the most obvious rule of dating and life in general....
"Left me confused, I messed with chicks that was best when abused, Nice guys finish last with they special set of rules"....
Half the times...all that advice on how to treat women is outdated and given by people of a different generation. In 08, dating is a huge gamble as it is...thegame done changed. You don't gotta be a douche all the time but you definitely can't be a simp either.
"Left me confused, I messed with chicks that was best when abused, Nice guys finish last with they special set of rules"....
Half the times...all that advice on how to treat women is outdated and given by people of a different generation. In 08, dating is a huge gamble as it is...thegame done changed. You don't gotta be a douche all the time but you definitely can't be a simp either.
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I simped once never will I ever do it again.
I took an L
I took an L
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And findin that middle ground between douche and simp is one of the biggest reasons men become jaded whenit comes to the females...they get frustrated, adopt the MOB slogan, and say to hell with it. IMO, that is a testament to how ridiculous the datin game isright now...*$%* definitely ain't simple no more because you got pimps and players on BOTH sides of the line of scrimmage. Lloyd dumb %$$ talkin bout the"year of the lover"...well if '08 was that year, '09 finna be the "year of the bachelor." Real talk.
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some guys at this age (19-22) are genuine. you just have to ask them a real random question, like "if I sat on the floor, would you join me ?"questions like that separate the good from the bad.
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True story Lincey...
I like how females act like they don't know the game themselves acting all shy and all this...they smarter than you...don't get it twisted.
I like how females act like they don't know the game themselves acting all shy and all this...they smarter than you...don't get it twisted.
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If you just let me inside you Jess, you wouldn't have to deal with Simps.
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The fact that SiMPLY made this thread is evidence of that...a lot of these girls ain't stupid...notby a LONG shot.
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Simp'n going on in the thread.. SMH
Simps though.. they get it good though because you know there's females that need that type of dude so they can control em so you won't die alone.
Simps though.. they get it good though because you know there's females that need that type of dude so they can control em so you won't die alone.
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honestly, if there were seats I would point it out, but if she wants to sit on the ground, fine. I'd sit with her.
I'm not quite sure how this indicates authenticity though...
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my pride and dignity will never allow me to be a simp.
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it's a measuring sticks on how "down" that person is. most people are not willing to sit on a dirty floor. therefore it's a clear indication.and I did not mean to ask this question specifically, just as a blue print for other similar questions.
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I understand that you didn't ask. I answered to answer.
So are you saying it's to see how committed they are? Or I missed something?
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WORD
I HATE THAT
BEING UPFRONT >>>
EFF ALL THAT LET ME BEAT YOU DOWN ?
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Simpin' is digusting to me...and sounds like you got caught up in a bad case of it. Contrary to some beliefs, I think your best bet would be to ignore theguy. Like you already said, your resistance to their advances and compliments are taken in quite the opposite way that you intended. The dudes simply don'tget the picture. It's a pretty obvious statement when a girl doesn't give the guy their time of the day though...
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If there wasnt simps in real life then what would guys like me have to laugh at. I cant tell you the amount of girls that i have been talking to that have sataround and blatantly clowned the simps that are either their boyfriend
or dudes trying to be their boyfriends. From giving me their PW's so i can clownat the messages dudes send them, to showing me their text messages and even putting their simp BF on speaker phone so i can hear them while im sitting therewith their chick.
Now, not all girls are like this, and im sure some girls want a simp. My experience has taught me however that while they might entertain the simp, especiallyif they are getting things done for them because of it, behind closed doors they are probably letting a cocky, egotistical "jerk" smash, all thewhile laughing at the other dude.
Its a cold a** game
Now, not all girls are like this, and im sure some girls want a simp. My experience has taught me however that while they might entertain the simp, especiallyif they are getting things done for them because of it, behind closed doors they are probably letting a cocky, egotistical "jerk" smash, all thewhile laughing at the other dude.
Its a cold a** game
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I figure, why lie.....why front. It takes too much energy, and I'm the lazy type.
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Being an genuine @hole FTW
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to see how committed they are. that's what this is all about.Originally Posted by Daedalus Kalais
I understand that you didn't ask. I answered to answer.
So are you saying it's to see how committed they are? Or I missed something?
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You know what man, I feel you 100%. I'm young too, I"m generally an $#!@@$*, but I always hold doors and pull chairs, etc. Sometimesthough, it seems I have to be a straight @!*# inconsiderate as hell to get a girl's attention. That's not my stylo, call me a simp if you want, but Iwon't change my character for better or worse for anyone.Originally Posted by Daedalus Kalais
Hold up.
I'm hella young, and I'm still disturbed by this.
I open doors for chicks, I pull chairs, hell, I even go upstairs after chicks.
PAUSE. It's to catch a woman in the event that she may fall.
No pervertedness involved... most of the time. Damn short skirts...
Basically, I treat women like queens unless they show me they deserve otherwise.
I can do nearly everything in my house: cooking, cleaning, laundry, lawn, washing, what-the-heck-ever.
I tried to say HBD to thytkerjobs on an old thread and I was called a simp.
Does that really make me one?
If so, fine. So be it then.
But I'm not trying to get the business.
I'm trying to make you feel wanted while giving you respect you may or may not deserve.
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Co-sign.
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Once though, only once and I regret it.
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So Slickening wrote:
lol, I'm the opposite. I'm naturally a jerk, but I make it known that I'm just messing around. I like girls that can take jokes and can joke back. Usually I'd randomly call her a $#@*@ for something stupid, and if she plays along then we cool... but for the ones who'd be like "OH NO YOU DI-INT! *SNAP SNAP SNAP* BOY WHO DO YOU THINK YOU IS," I don't mess with those types.
I play too much, and I like girls who either play just as much or can take playing as strictly playing, nothing more serious.
word that's exactly how i am.... i call the guy randomly a loser or a punk and if they play back it's cool, but sometimes they say"woooooooow" or "what the eff" and i have to hit them with a "im just kidding".
calling people mean names are my only terms of endearment.
and lincey- i actually DO like nice guys.... i don't like $%@+@!!@. but what i like more is honesty.... that's really the only thing i look for inrelationships (whether it be platonic or romantic). but what irks me about this "simpin" is the lack of authenticity of it all. if you were like thatby nature, then i really wouldn't have such a problem with it. but it's just like i get pissed off when dudes think i'm stupid enough to fall forthis weak +#%%. it's an insult to my intelligence, it really is.
i don't know if they think their nuances in behavior are unperceptible or what have you, but i see right through it.
so i would like to take this time to thank you niketalk, to making me more aware of men and their ways. it's a blessing and a curse.
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Originally Posted by nicefro
You know what man, I feel you 100%. I'm young too, I"m generally an $#!@@$*, but I always hold doors and pull chairs, etc. Sometimes though, it seems I have to be a straight @!*# inconsiderate as hell to get a girl's attention. That's not my stylo, call me a simp if you want, but I won't change my character for better or worse for anyone.Originally Posted by Daedalus Kalais
Hold up.
I'm hella young, and I'm still disturbed by this.
I open doors for chicks, I pull chairs, hell, I even go upstairs after chicks.
PAUSE. It's to catch a woman in the event that she may fall.
No pervertedness involved... most of the time. Damn short skirts...
Basically, I treat women like queens unless they show me they deserve otherwise.
I can do nearly everything in my house: cooking, cleaning, laundry, lawn, washing, what-the-heck-ever.
I tried to say HBD to thytkerjobs on an old thread and I was called a simp.
Does that really make me one?
If so, fine. So be it then.
But I'm not trying to get the business.
I'm trying to make you feel wanted while giving you respect you may or may not deserve.
Word.
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I can dig it then...hell, who doesn't like honesty? Look at it from they side though...some girlsseem so unattainable that dude resort to this type of +*!! just to get at you. Like I said in my earlier post...datin just ain't simple anymore. With theway things are now, they think that they gotta put in all this extra work to bag a girl, when it really ain't that deep. And you also gotta realize thatsome girl probably fell for the simpin in the past...in the guy's mind, he's thinkin "if it ain't broke, why fix it?" So it's just acircle if simpin that won't end until either a female like you comes along and sets him straight, or some other guy lets him know what's good.