NT, My Girl is Pregnant. (FTL)

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before all of you go talking trash about protection, fyi she was on birth control and still got pregnant.

secondly lets not make this thread a debate about whether abortion is right or not.

now, anyone with experiences can you please chime in! weve decided not to keep it and will have an abortion done most likely in clinic instead of the pillbecause ive heard bad stuff bout the pill. im super stressed about the situation and sad but were just not ready.
 
How she going to be on birth control yet got pregnant?
Is that even possible?
If so is it like a 99.9% chance of birth control working? You really get that unlucky?
 
Originally Posted by macdeez

weve decided not to keep it and will have an abortion done most likely in clinic instead of the pill because ive heard bad stuff bout the pill. im super stressed about the situation and sad but were just not ready.
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I too would go with the abortion. How old are you guys?[/color]
 
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Originally Posted by TBONE95860

How she going to be on birth control yet got pregnant?
Is that even possible?
If so is it like a 99.9% chance of birth control working? You really get that unlucky?
there could be numerous factors common ones are not taking it right & taking other things that decrease the pills effectiveness.
 
Damn, a girl getting pregnant when she uses birth control pills, what are the odds. Good luck though fam and make sure you guys talk about it a lot and make adecision together.
 
Do what you feel is best bro. Even though the pill is very effective, there is still that .01% chance of getting pregnant. Smart move by taking this to theclinic.
 
sounds like you have already made a decision. Just relax and make sure its something you both want. o-yea and make it a you and her thing because if she startstalking to other people it might change her decision. In truth its really not your decision so all you really can do is try not to pi$$ her off.
 
were 24 yrs old. trust me, weve been together 6+ years. she isnt hiding nothing from me. i didnt think it could happen but it could be because she was alittle inconsistent on times to take her pill. i would often times have to remind her.
 
weve made our decision. she knows were not ready too. has anyone had specific experience with the abortion procedures? let me know.
 
Hmmm..... did someone get set up for the okie doke

If she gets a abortion make sure you go with her not for support but to make sure she really got it

I've known plenty of chicks who claim to have abortions but have a baby 9 months later
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Good luck
 
I feel you bro. On 12/30, 8 year anniversary, me and my girl got down to business. Went raw, stepped on the field without a helmet. Went to CVS right afterand got "Plan B".
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, damn pills cost $50,
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. Now we are just waiting for the sign,
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Originally Posted by TBONE95860

How she going to be on birth control yet got pregnant?
Is that even possible?
If so is it like a 99.9% chance of birth control working? You really get that unlucky?
The stated effectiveness is only applicable if the pill is taken exactly as directed.
 
weve made our decision. she knows were not ready too. has anyone had specific experience with the abortion procedures? let me know.

Personally, I have never had that experience.

However, one of my boys got drunk one time and confessed that he had his HS sweetheart (They are not together anymore) have an abortion. The decision was mutual, they were 19 at the time, not ready of course. However on that night, he said that more often than not he regrets it. He was 19 when it happened and he didn't tell anyone, including myself an my other boy. We are pretty close, until that night. We were 24, 'cause I remember him saying "My boy could have been 5 right now", pretty deep. Didn't know what to say to him, just told him he did the right thing if he wasn't ready for the responsibility.
 
pics of her belly? for what? she aint pullin no ducktales on me to trap or nuthin. i watched her do 4 at home tests all come up positive. this is my gf of6+ years who i live with, she aint no hoodrat type.
 
Originally Posted by solefood229

Hmmm..... did someone get set up for the okie doke

If she gets a abortion make sure you go with her not for support but to make sure she really got it

I've known plenty of chicks who claim to have abortions but have a baby 9 months later
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Good luck
Wow, that's really low.

To the OP- check out your local clinic, I hear they're suppose to be really discreet about everything. Best of luck to your girl and yourself.
 
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