NT, My Girl is Pregnant. (FTL)

Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae

Get her a pregnancy test before you pay for that abortion
they do that before the abortion haha.

i'm gonna PM you. i've been through this
 
nvm. it wont let me PM you. so you PM me.
i know what you need to know. hah
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pill is cheaper dude plus its a lot safer... the baby just kinda "pops" out

and let your girl do it on her own time, your stressed? that thing has to cme out of HER not u, if she starts acting wierd just be there to support her... hashappened to me about 2-3 times.. i know wasup..
 
Wow its that easy huh?
At 24, you both know what you were doing.
I hope you reconsider.
 
IMO abortion no matter what is wrong. I know its your life, your decision. But why not let the baby live!? Let her have it and put it up for adoption. Or finda family that wants it so when its born, its theirs. There are a lot of couples out there that want kids, try so hard to have them and just cant. But yall canand dont want it? Atleast look into all options before going to abortion bro.
 
Originally Posted by saint lt

Originally Posted by TBONE95860

How she going to be on birth control yet got pregnant?
Is that even possible?
If so is it like a 99.9% chance of birth control working? You really get that unlucky?
there could be numerous factors common ones are not taking it right & taking other things that decrease the pills effectiveness.
Even forgetting to take the pill once can throw off it's entire effectiveness. That's why they tell you to still wear a condom and useother forms of contraception, especially if you know you're partner isn't the most responsible.
 
Originally Posted by tylerhundley

IMO abortion no matter what is wrong. I know its your life, your decision. But why not let the baby live!? Let her have it and put it up for adoption. Or find a family that wants it so when its born, its theirs. There are a lot of couples out there that want kids, try so hard to have them and just cant. But yall can and dont want it? Atleast look into all options before going to abortion bro.
so easily said from the position of the observer...

pregnancy and child bearing isn't a walk in the park. there are medical complications, psychological after effects... yes there are people out there whowant to adopt children, but sometimes people need to look out for themselves first and foremost when making these decisions and not concern themselves withother people's beliefs or tribulations.

plus it sounds like it's still early in the game. that thing in her isnt even a child yet...
 
Originally Posted by Nako XL

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

IMO abortion no matter what is wrong. I know its your life, your decision. But why not let the baby live!? Let her have it and put it up for adoption. Or find a family that wants it so when its born, its theirs. There are a lot of couples out there that want kids, try so hard to have them and just cant. But yall can and dont want it? Atleast look into all options before going to abortion bro.
so easily said from the position of the observer...

pregnancy and child bearing isn't a walk in the park. there are medical complications, psychological after effects... yes there are people out there who want to adopt children, but sometimes people need to look out for themselves first and foremost when making these decisions and not concern themselves with other people's beliefs or tribulations.

plus it sounds like it's still early in the game. that thing in her isnt even a child yet...


your right. It is easy to say from my seat because its not me, but now a days it seems like when young people (like the OP, like myself) think of only twooptions. Have the baby or abortion.. I was just tryin to point out some good options that people normally dont think about at first.
 
Originally Posted by tylerhundley

IMO abortion no matter what is wrong. I know its your life, your decision. But why not let the baby live!? Let her have it and put it up for adoption. Or find a family that wants it so when its born, its theirs. There are a lot of couples out there that want kids, try so hard to have them and just cant. But yall can and dont want it? Atleast look into all options before going to abortion bro.
honestly as selfish as it sounds, going through the whole 9 month procedure would be too much of a sacrafice of our own lives. we have jobs,school and other responsibilities that would be effected. as cruel as it may sound, we think its right. It would be unfair to the baby to be brought into aworld where his/her parents could not give them everything they could because they are at a point in their life they ant make the sacrifice.
 
Originally Posted by Nako XL

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

IMO abortion no matter what is wrong. I know its your life, your decision. But why not let the baby live!? Let her have it and put it up for adoption. Or find a family that wants it so when its born, its theirs. There are a lot of couples out there that want kids, try so hard to have them and just cant. But yall can and dont want it? Atleast look into all options before going to abortion bro.
so easily said from the position of the observer...

pregnancy and child bearing isn't a walk in the park. there are medical complications, psychological after effects... yes there are people out there who want to adopt children, but sometimes people need to look out for themselves first and foremost when making these decisions and not concern themselves with other people's beliefs or tribulations.

plus it sounds like it's still early in the game. that thing in her isnt even a child yet...
it's still more than just cells...

dude. my girl didnt know she was pregnant until like 4 weeks. we had the abortion 8 weeks. her stomach was still flat blah blah, but in 8 weeks, the child haseyes, fingers and can hear. even though it's only millimeters, it's still something..

even if if you think it's early. it can still be more complicated than you think
 
OP...I feel for your situation, trust, but let me offer up my .02

I know this guy who was in a similar situation as you. He was with his girl at the clinic getting the abortion (I'll spare you the details - unless you pmme and really want to know) and he said that it was the most traumatizing experience he has ever had and one he thinks about at least once a day. I'm notsure if the procedure is still the same, but from what he told me, I would never want to see what he did.

With that being said, I've never been an advocate for abortion - unless it's in situations regarding rape, or potential death to the mother. Instead,in my opinion, I have always thought it better to have the child and then give it up for adoption.

I wish you well though, that's definitely a tough situation.
 
Originally Posted by TBONE95860

How she going to be on birth control yet got pregnant?
Is that even possible?
If so is it like a 99.9% chance of birth control working? You really get that unlucky?


antibiotics render birth control useless
 
Originally Posted by macdeez

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

IMO abortion no matter what is wrong. I know its your life, your decision. But why not let the baby live!? Let her have it and put it up for adoption. Or find a family that wants it so when its born, its theirs. There are a lot of couples out there that want kids, try so hard to have them and just cant. But yall can and dont want it? Atleast look into all options before going to abortion bro.
honestly as selfish as it sounds, going through the whole 9 month procedure would be too much of a sacrafice of our own lives. we have jobs, school and other responsibilities that would be effected. as cruel as it may sound, we think its right. It would be unfair to the baby to be brought into a world where his/her parents could not give them everything they could because they are at a point in their life they ant make the sacrifice.


i understand you bro. I aint judgin at all. You have to make decisions and if yall cant make the sacrifice, then thats def understandable. Do what you think isbest for yalls lives. But think long and hard about it. This could be something that will affect you the rest of your life, so make sure the decision you makeis the right one bro. Good luck with everything!
 
Originally Posted by Lrrr

Originally Posted by TBONE95860

How she going to be on birth control yet got pregnant?
Is that even possible?
If so is it like a 99.9% chance of birth control working? You really get that unlucky?


antibiotics render birth control useless


thats 100% the truth. It sucks too lol My chick just got her wisdom teeth out, and they had her on antibiotics. It messed up her birth control so she"spots" randomly while her birth control cycle tries to get back to normal.

basically that means no sex for me for about a month
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nothing a falcon punch can't fix.


but seriously, congrats. oh nvm you're getting rid of it.
 
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

so how does it feel to have decided to kill a baby?
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Happened to me and my ex. She got an abortion and that !%*$ wrecked our relationship for a few months and made her depression/other stuff worse.

She hated me, hated herself, hated everyone else who said it was a good idea, and hated anyone that tried to talk to her about it.

Worst experience of MY life, I can't even begin to imagine how she felt.

4 years later, happened again. We kept the baby this time. Now me and her hate each other, but my daughter loves me and in 7 months has already made me abetter person. Couldn't be happier with my life.

I'm not on some pro-life type !%*$, but I'm sure you've talked for hours about it and made an educated, realistic decision. Hope for the best mydude.
 
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