Friendzone Success Stories??? vol. Mission Impossible?

Originally Posted by RKO2004

If you sit in the friendzone waiting for a girl to have relationship problems or leave her dude for you, you are a lame and pitiful. You disgust me. Sittin there like a backup QB hatin and wishing for a torn ACL. Let me exit this thread before I get angry.

Oh and if you take them from someone else, what makes you think someone wont come along and do what you did?

when did I say anything about a bf???

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My post was for dudes/girls who do that. If the chick your targeting is free then cool. But the other cats who think its cool


this man has been played i see. sorry. but its the girls (or whoever is in the relationships fault)

It's never too late. You got to be persistent.


You got to be assertive and go after what you want. You best believe, some other dudes are going after.

the only reason anyone is ever in the friend zone is because they are ugly.

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

you trust a girl who's "kissed" 2 guys?

pathetic.

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Yes, it may sound bad, but its my choice, it happened almost a year and a half ago....my choice and I know I made the right one. Our relationship hasdeveloped much more than that. They happened to successfully plant a peck on the lips on her at a club, but its not like she slept with 2 guys and had anotherrelationship on side which is much worse. My situation, my opinion and choice...your situation, take advice but your the judge. Not pathetic, thankyou...

I just included it because any relationship is not an easy road, but friendzone is one that can work. These relationships in my opinion tend to go better thenthe typical random met ones. Just don't give up a good girl, that is basically it.

2009 I am a man of action, not a man of this is what I would do. I saw this post on NT, and my original friendzone, kryptonite to me being supes, first girl imet at my new college imed me. We are pretty good friends now....we hung out a bit when i was in college (graduated a year ago) and i knew i was infriendzone. She was so delicious it pissed me off....i tried to avoid her but she is such an awesome person, way cooler than most guys, that i realized ah whatthe hell just man up and be friends with her. Anyways back to current, she imed me tonight out of the blue so i gave it a shot.

me: tina
me: ight g2run, big bear all day on saturday, let me know if your done cuzzz
her
her: i'll be in sd
her: my friend is having a going away thing
her: she's leavign to the peace corps
her: =(
her: i wanna see you..
me: tina
me: why you always gotta play so hard to get
her: hahaha
hermg
her: freaking therealdeal (name edited for niketalk purposes)
her: lol
me: i was so excited i thought i'd get to have my lil azn snow bunny out there
me: whack!
her: hahahah
her: i'd kick your +@@ out there too
me: i was going to wear shiny little mirrors on m ski jacket
me: since you'd always be a step behind
herh god
her: lol
her: hahhaha
me: what are u doing, u in O.C?
her: did yup
her: home
me: still married?
her: just got engaged
me: WHAT!
her: hahahhahahahahhahahhahahaha
her: NOT
her: man!
me: i was gonna say
me: i had such a special moment planned for that
her: i thought you knew me better than that
me: i did....i thought somebody drop kicked you in the head
her: hahhaha
me: you prone to reckless behavior with boys
her: i know huh
her: sadness
her: shoot me
her: i'm just a monogamous attention +%%$@
me: HAHAHA
me: ahahah
her: hahahahha
her: i like chillen w/ one boy
her: spoiling one boy
her: i hate dating
her: putting your %#+@ out there
her: sigh*
her: i'm tired
her: lol
her: haha
her: how are you babe?
me: mmm a little emotionally drained from this laker loss that just happened
me: a lot has happened since i talked to u last
her: man
me: for some reason i can never remember anything me and u talk about like the prior time
her: we need to catch up
her: in person soon
me: i think you have that effect on me, sigh
her: no worries
her: that will be the fun in things
her: hahhahah
me: i thought i escaped the ctina curse
me: that seemed to hold the rest of SB
me: well all you need to know right now
me: is that i am back in Cali for good
her: yay!
her: where are u working?
her: ct curse.. thanks -_-
her: they should make a movie huh
her: something about ct
her: lol
her: hahahha
her: NOT
me: hhhaahha
me: get over urself!
me: hahaha
her: i am
her: that was a joke you +@@
her: lol

[Tue Jan 6 2009 10:17:47 PM] suniloneal34: let the rest of us take care
[Tue Jan 6 2009 10:17:47 PM] ctran14:
hahahha
her: man..
her: lets grab a meal when youre here
me: wait what r u in SB!?
her: where are u right now/
me: Bay Area
her: booo
her: gay silicone valley
me: nope SF is prop 8
me: people here
me: are more asexual than anything
her: hahhaha
me: i gotta do some stuff get ready for this 5 day party situation
her; bud.. time to hit the sack on my end
me: we'll catch up soon
her: haha
me: hahaha
her; for sure
her: call me
me: good timing
me: no
her: night night
me: u call me
her: oh god.. get over yourself
her: lol
me: it's is all
me: take take take with u
her: hahah i love the way we joke w/ ea other
me: there has to be some give in this relationship tina
her: hahahha
her: u know i'm all give and modesty.. its just fun to pretend like i'm not once in a while
me: ight babe go tuck yourself in gnite
her: muhahahha
her: night night
me: HAHA
me: don't worry if you want to role play it's all good with me
her: my dear friend who gets that i'm jokin
me: not saying i will be different
her: hahahha
me: but if you need to get into character i understand
her: we'll pretend to be something else next time
her: lol
me: HAHA
me: ight
her: hahahhahahaha
me: go sleep
her: ok
her: bye

I think ignoring them is the best method. Women love attention even if it is from someone they aren't particularly feeling but they know is feeling them.It's sad but pretty ******* are so used to being done wrong that they take kindness for weakness or tend to put those kind of men in the friend zone butwhen you treat them like you don't give a **** about them, Lookey Lookey, now they want to hollar and if not, it's there loss, put your feelings outthere and if they aren't wit it, atleast you gave it a try and you shouldn't have any regrets.

Yo, there are millions of hot girls out there, if one just wants to be your friend, be present to the other million hot ones that want to be your girl. Also,try being present to yourself, women cannot resist a man that has his thing together, that knows where he is and where he is going.

It really depends on the situation and if you really want that girl bad, but it is possible. The best advice is to just do you and don't let one girldictate your other relationships with women. Don't wait on her, live your life and make sure you are happy and if she comes around then fine, if not thenher loss.

chris rock tells the truth

i got out of the friend zone not by sheer determination but by not giving a rats @!*$. i'll semi-cliff note my experiences

- met this girl at work (freshly single) and started texting each other almost immediately
- did this for two months, and somewhere along that time period i developed feelings for her
- me, her and a bunch of my friends went to the bar where she proceeded to fool around with an ex of hers
- at that point, i did not tell her i developed feelings for her -- but i was choked. i proceeded to berate her and make her feel like trash.
- she hates me, we stop talking for a couple weeks - we decide to start things off on a clean slate
- i bring up the topic of us and she says she'll never see us more than friends. i pretended to agree, but deep down inside i went kwame brown.
- took her out to a movie one night, and i went for a kiss when i thought things were going good. epic, epic fail. she turned away and did not even let me kissher
- i apologize the next day and stopped talking to her for a couple of months to ease the pain
- during those couple of months my bestfriend introduced me to his new girlfriend and her girlfriends
- proceeded to get piss drunk the next couple of weeks.. arguably the best summer of my life.
- towards the end of summer we are on good terms again. one night at dinner she tells me she's seeing this guy but she's not sure if he has feelingsfor her. i tell her to quit whining and keep going for it as she has nothing to lose
- after dinner she invites me out with her friends. she was hammered a little touchy with me but i kept my distance.
- the next night i told her to come over after i returned from the bar. rest is history.

yesterday was our one year and five months.

you want to get out of the friend zone?

give it time. you cannot expect to get out of the friend zone in a couple of days when you've been stuck in there for light years. leave her, beproductive. you do not have to ignore her, but pay more attention to things or people that you strayed away from while you were whipped by her.

oh, and facebook is your friend. get pictures of yourself taken with broads. sounds shallow and pathetic but it works. that's what irked my girlfriend themost when we weren't together.

serious guys...

getting with a female should not be all that effort. there's no shortage. kudos to those of you who eventually got with the girl but still did your thingtho...

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

serious guys...

getting with a female should not be all that effort. there's no shortage. kudos to those of you who eventually got with the girl but still did your thing tho...

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that's the truth. two months in i wanted to break it off because it wasn't what i thought it would be. but we're good now.

I love NT.

Seriously...some people do not throw in the towel! Hahaha some people call it work....i just call it keeping networked though. Whatever if it doesn't workout...i think it's more pathetic to sulk away and be afraid of seeing her and etc. Man up, realize wtv she doesn't like you, and just be a friend! Atthis point....if anything were ever to happen she'd be the one having to jump through hoops to make you like her now. I've tried to hook up with agirl...totally in love with her, didn't work out...she just wanted to be friends. Now we are just friends...and getting to know her better i know shewouldn't be a girl i'd want to go out with long term...she jumps through hoops for me now and wants to hang out etc and easy to tell more. I gave hera chance she didn't want it...and now we are friends. Once you are "friends" that is not a one way street....she shoulnd't have more"power" in that type of relationship. Some fo you need to seriously grow a pair and learn how to be normal around females.

only thing that works is time

Originally Posted by p0tat0 5alad

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I hear those 3 words all the time too and whenever I'm around she is always hugging up on me. But I mean like yesterday, I texted her and was like "Yo, come by tonight so we can kick it" and she hit me with the "Sounds good". Then like an hour later she was like "Can I bring a roommate. We are gonna watch our shows with our teammates and then come by." so I'm like "Aight". It's not like I cleared out the whole rest of the night but I pretty much hung out around campus instead of going anywhere. Then she is gonna flake. She sees me today and the first thing she does is hugs me and says "You know I forget ". I gave her a and was like w/e. This wasn't the first time she has flaked

It's okay to get friendzoned, but at the stage you're in, I wouldn't invest everything in her because the risk of getting played ispretty great and you don't want that. On a sidenote, I know a few girls who will only date guys they've been friends with.

honestly....ignore for an extended amount of time (better yourself for one) go back but with more than friends intentions. and make that CLEAR

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friend zone is a myth... step ur game up