Recently went on a date, found girl had TWO deal breakers. Didn't drink, too religious

Not drinking is definitely not a deal breaker but ultra religious is. It's fine if she believes in the hype but if she is going every Sunday and trying tomake me live that lifestyle I can't do it. Plus when I have children they don't need church to have a moral compass therefore Sundays will be familytime not church time.
 
Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by youngin33

This one girl I'm currently talking to has never ever smoked weed. It boggles me how it's possible and how she doesn't even want to know what it's like, but it's surely not a deal breaker. So not drinking wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker either. The girl you described vaguely seems pretty down to earth and cool, but maybe she gave you a different vibe.
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Wow, is it that taboo?
I don't smoke anything.
Never have a day in my life.
Have no desire to either.
Not knocking it or anything, I just find it crazy that it's taboo these days
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I'm not knocking people who haven't tried it either. All the power to you. I actually am more attracted to this girl because of the fact thatshe's never tried it and has no desire to. It's just this day and age, someone who has never even tried it is pretty hard to find. Especially for noreason other than there was no desire.

It's especially "taboo" to me because almost all of my close friends do it often and I've actually gotten away from it a lot this past year. And I've realized that almost everyone at least tries it out a couple times.
 
Just because a girl doesn't drink doesn't mean she's not fun. And if she goes to church every single sunday that's bad?...All that is is beingcommited to her religion that's all. You wouldn't be mad if a girl was that commited to you now would you? church girls are girls like any other girl.They just attend church and have religion in their life that's all. Trust me i been there and done that lol.
 
Originally Posted by Falcon4567

Originally Posted by SUCKAFREE85

I feel OP tho. I don't want a boring !*# broad with me. Real talk. Girl has got to drink at least socially.

and its not OD like an alcoholic or anything like that so you lame dudes can save it.
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You really think people that don't drink at all are incapable of having any sort of fun?
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Let's say you like drinking and going to bars or whatever. She might feel out of place and it would just be awkard. Sure, maybe it would be cool acouple times but after awhile.......nah. I've gone out with chicks that don't drink and its coo for awhile but then I don't know...... Personalpreference I guess.
 
I feel like GOB just typed this post.

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Well don't you have a responsibility to also do things that don't involve drinking so there's a balance in the relationship?
 
Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

This thread is absurd.

How dare you turn someone down because they don't drink alcohol and they go to church?
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It's not like you gotta take her to parties with you.
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almost surreal. How are these things dealbreakers? one dude really said "she didn't smoke weed". Man you guys are idiots.
 
Originally Posted by Dr Spaceman

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

This thread is absurd.




How dare you turn someone down because they don't drink alcohol and they go to church?
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It's not like you gotta take her to parties with you.
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almost surreal. How are these things dealbreakers? one dude really said "she didn't smoke weed". Man you guys are idiots.
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Ya Im not gonna lie, Im scratching my head on this one.
I suppose you want to be w/ someone who's lifestyle is similiar to yours (not speaking about anyone in particular). But not even giving someone a chanceb/c they dont drink is pretty stupid.
 
From personal experience, I've thrown away the numbers of a bunch of 'church girls' that I wish I had wifed up. SMH at all you guys saying youdon't want ultra-religous chicks-you're judging a female before you even get to know her. Double standards on NT FTL.
 
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