Are your standards too high?

i have a short attention span as well

this is my problem im not to big on looks 6 or 7 ,but i cant stand a boring female
 
i don't have high standards just simple requirements I think I don't reallyhave standards like for I wouldn't cut someone off because they are not my dream guy that's dumb
 
Yes, VERY! I've been told
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I think I used to and that used to hurt me....I'd nitpick, cuz in the end its mostly just that, over the stupidest stuff. What I've realized now isthat you will NEVER find a perfect person. You may end up meeting someone who fits the bill perfectly except for one little thing and blow it because youdidn't want to "settle." I understand the mindset but you really run the risk of being lonely....over petty things
 
I mean I don't want to be the man in the relationship.

Not high standards but I have certain standards. I think everyone does.
 
Originally Posted by West2East

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This is my friends excuse for why he hasn't ever had a girlfriend. It really is just an excuse though. In reality, he's just scared and doesn't know how to approach the whole idea though.
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Basically what I was thinking before I even clicked on the thread.

The minute some average girl throws herself on non-(()) getting dudes...then they'll see how high their standards really are.

and does anyone have the pic of that nerdy dudes going "she's below my standards...her knees are too sharp"
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this thread reminds me of that for some reason.
 
I set my standards high so I don't have to deal with headache and heartache. It's that simple. If I am alone and lonely, which I have been, that'sstill better than the stress of a relationship with somebody who I shouldn't have settled for in the first place.

I'm talking completely on character. My standards on looks aren't really that high. If my thing gets hard, and I can be seen in public with her rightby my side comfortably, than I'm all good.

EDIT: Also I feel I ABSOLUTELY have the right to be as picky as wanna be. Most people don't.
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Originally Posted by buggz05

I set my standards high so I don't have to deal with headache and heartache. It's that simple. If I am alone and lonely, which I have been, that's still better than the stress of a relationship with somebody who I shouldn't have settled for in the first place.

I'm talking completely on character. My standards on looks aren't really that high. If my thing gets hard, and I can be seen in public with her right by my side comfortably, than I'm all good.

EDIT: Also I feel I ABSOLUTELY have the right to be as picky as wanna be. Most people don't.
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My man speaks truth.
 
Everyone should have high standerds. Mine arn't too high to where my eyes are closed (pride), they're high enough to see through bs.
 
yea

well at least for today's society they are.....

-dont smoke
-dont drink
-waitin until marriage
-intelligent (and that doesnt mean book smarts)

that eliminates 90% of my potential mates right off the bat

i'm not going to settle though, i know what i deserve and if i dont get it then i guess i will be alone
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my standards are extremely high. no coincidence that i haven't been on a date in a super long time either... just can't get into someone i don'tfind attractive AND intelligent, not or.

and yeah, i'd rather be alone than settle. seriously.
 
Originally Posted by AntBanks81

you really can't say they're too high if you set them there. I can't do it though. I'd rather not smash then hit something just to be hitting. I see a lot of dudes that smash a lot but the quality isn't there with all of them.

in the end, you have to find someone that makes you want them. so just stick to what you know cause following someone else pattern is trouble
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exactly. dudes brag about hitting 8 different girls in a month when 7 of them look like bearnstein bears
 
Originally Posted by IM A HELION

When it comes to looks? They're not astronomical.
When it comes to character? They're higher than most.

I'm a simple guy, and I'd never place expectations on a woman that I couldn't live up to myself. It's just that I would rather not deal with all the riff-raff if I know that I deserve better. Why settle for less?
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