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"This guy...Uh-Oh"
BWS FOOT SOLDIER wrote:
get with a white dude
dark skin is not where it's at if you want a relationship
Generic Boy problems thread Vol. 2- You Men are difficult
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ahhhhhhhhhhhh come on
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Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY
soooo...typically when talking to a dude i can tell when a guy just wants relations, but i have a hard +$* time trying to distinguish that between a guy wanting a genuine relationship... mainly because i am jaded and think all men only want sex (when i know that there are some guys who actually have feelings)...
anyhow, my question to you gentlemen is how do you treat a girl that you actually like? like one that you'd like to "wife" up or what have you
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^^ we can still have feelings and still want to have sex...i think you just have to take the bad with the good like we do...a lot of times men have to deal with the very emotional women but it depends and it's also weird because you women want relations too so what gives?
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no i don't want relations. i mean i do but women get emotional involved and it's just not worth it.
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smash first ask questions last.
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Not always, there are girls who can detach just as easily as some guys and vice versa.
When I start out talking to a girl whether im just trying to have sex with her or not I treat her the same but the conversations are a little different. I letit be known that I basically just want sex..just not in a brash way.
You girls are the worst tho..giving dumb signals that make no sense and sometimes confuse us further. I hate/don't chase..
When I start out talking to a girl whether im just trying to have sex with her or not I treat her the same but the conversations are a little different. I letit be known that I basically just want sex..just not in a brash way.
You girls are the worst tho..giving dumb signals that make no sense and sometimes confuse us further. I hate/don't chase..
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^^^OMG, LMFAO!!!!! you are a fool for posting that pic, lol....hey did he just say that, wow
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Ima break a playa code and peep you to game since you NT fam.
If he's just tryin to beat he will:
introduce you to friends (male & female) and family *esp female friends bc y'all talk the most. male friends and fam will generally keep it in house*
take you out in public to places he frequents that are in a 15 mile radius *if he travels too far from where he stays to take you out, he doesn't wantsomeone to see y'all in public together*
Just a few. I've said too much already
If he's just tryin to beat he will:
introduce you to friends (male & female) and family *esp female friends bc y'all talk the most. male friends and fam will generally keep it in house*
take you out in public to places he frequents that are in a 15 mile radius *if he travels too far from where he stays to take you out, he doesn't wantsomeone to see y'all in public together*
Just a few. I've said too much already
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To be real with you, it's somewhat of a buzz kill but you might just wanna ask dude outright what his intentions are
Not being on the same page is@@* but at least ya'll know where you stand.
Generally speaking if a dude actually likes you he'll kiss you on the mouth. That's a true testament
This dude
Generally speaking if a dude actually likes you he'll kiss you on the mouth. That's a true testament
get with a white dude
dark skin is not where it's at if you want a relationship
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Ask to meet his friends.
If he agrees, see how he acts around them.
If he declines, then he's not into a relationship.
If he agrees, see how he acts around them.
If he declines, then he's not into a relationship.
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this man knows what hes talking bout.Originally Posted by Fantastic4our
Ima break a playa code and peep you to game since you NT fam.
If he's just tryin to beat he will:
introduce you to friends (male & female) and family *esp female friends bc y'all talk the most. male friends and fam will generally keep it in house*
take you out in public to places he frequents that are in a 15 mile radius *if he travels too far from where he stays to take you out, he doesn't want someone to see y'all in public together*
Just a few. I've said too much already
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Okay. On the real. Most guys arn't soft like this...
We don't think about every little thing. And that can help fool you because you may think we are thinking something, or our actions have a deepermeaning then they really do.
If you really want to find out if a guy is really into you...get to know him. Go slow. Once you can decipher game from his real you'll know if it's allan act or if he's legit. It's not too hard to figure out. If he get's impatient...well clearly he just wants to smash. We arn't women. It'snot too hard to figure out what are motives are. Unless it's a sketchy dude, then your in for a whole set of female like problems and games.
I hope some of that made sense. Best of luck.
We don't think about every little thing. And that can help fool you because you may think we are thinking something, or our actions have a deepermeaning then they really do.
If you really want to find out if a guy is really into you...get to know him. Go slow. Once you can decipher game from his real you'll know if it's allan act or if he's legit. It's not too hard to figure out. If he get's impatient...well clearly he just wants to smash. We arn't women. It'snot too hard to figure out what are motives are. Unless it's a sketchy dude, then your in for a whole set of female like problems and games.
I hope some of that made sense. Best of luck.
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I don't want a relationship with you. I just want to Smash.
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What? I think you mean he wont?
p.s. 10+ long replies from magnus
Nah that's what I meant read it again. Any girl I was really feeling has met my homegirls to remove threat plus they will tell +*% more straight up. Mydudes will tell them what they wanna hear.
As for going out, the chicks I don't wanna be seen with, I hit the less popular movie theater. "Oh it won't be as crowded...." Thats BS, Ireally just hope I don't see my other girl out here.
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i pose another question to you fellas;
what traits make you want to wife a girl rather than just smash and dash? not that i'm trying to be like that i was just wondering.
what traits make you want to wife a girl rather than just smash and dash? not that i'm trying to be like that i was just wondering.
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Ohh right right. I read it the other way around...bedtime.
nt og
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at first...all men are tryna smash.
now if you have any guy friends, they're the ones that wanna have a relationship with you.
now if you have any guy friends, they're the ones that wanna have a relationship with you.
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knows when to shut her mouth and can handle her alcohol.
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Firstly, you need to come to terms with the fact that all guys are not created equal. Women make the mistake of labeling certain behaviors as signaling onething or the other. The only way to see if a guy wants sex or a relationship is by giving him a chance.
I for one am very straight foward I cut girls off after 2 weeks if they don't let me smash. Now this doesn't necessarily mean I don't like thegirl, I just don't have the time for all that courtship nonsense. If I smash and it's good, that's my cue to pursue
. Now there are guys who simp and date and buy gifts and wait for weeks and weeks who end up smashing and dashing.
My point is, there isn't a formula for this, you just gotta play the game and be persistent.
I for one am very straight foward I cut girls off after 2 weeks if they don't let me smash. Now this doesn't necessarily mean I don't like thegirl, I just don't have the time for all that courtship nonsense. If I smash and it's good, that's my cue to pursue
My point is, there isn't a formula for this, you just gotta play the game and be persistent.