seriously....is it just me or do girls not respect nice guys?

Originally Posted by Elpablo21

It's all about balance..gotta be an %!!@#!% and a nice guy
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i mastered this technique
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Oh oh, oh oh, oh oh ohh

I don't understand your thinking
You wanna be happy, guess I was mistaken
Want my love one night, then just
Say you don't want me
Cuz something is missing
Babygirl, you want it and you know it's true
All that I was doin' everything I could do
And if I dogged you out, we'd probably be cool
But I was good to you, so good

1 - Don't you want a guy that's real nice
That'll spend all his doe and his time
Then you change your mind and want a thug guy
That won't act right
It doesn't pay to be the good guy

You callin' me on late nights
Tellin' me how he won't act right
Stayin' with him but he makes you cry
Tell me why
Doesn't pay to be the good guy

2 - Everytime I try to be the good guy
You take me for granted, put me to the side
Rather have a man that'll tell you lies
Tell me why, tell me why, tell me why

Why should I be the good guy
And be there for the guy that don't treat you right
There's nothing good in being good guys
Tell me why, tell me why, tell me why

I don't understand your reason
Sayin' you love me, then sayin' you're leavin'
The situation here is really changin'
Don't wanna fall in love cuz you play me (oh)
You gotta be kiddin' me (no)
Been tryin' to get rid of me
I do more for you than any brotha would do
I was good to you, so good

Repeat 1
Repeat 2

I was good to you (I played the fool)
Played the fool for you
You messed it up for the next girl in my life
I'll never be right
Do the things I do for you
Our love just wasn't true
I was good to you, so good to you
So good to you
Everytime I try...

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depends on the female. as others have already stated.
a lot of girls think that if you're "less attractive" than guys they're used to talking to (which are more than likely aholes)
feel that an ugly guy has to compensate for his shortcoming so he resorts to being nice, be an ahole, it might work wonders.
 
Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Females marry nice guys
they don't %!@+ around with em though.
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yup

i (& basically every female i know) seem to always like dooshbags .. probably because girls have little to no problem getting some type of guy (meaning hemay not be the greatest, but there's almost always a man available to most girls), so the emotionally-unattainable ones are a nice little challenge. wealso LOVE the chase/a challange.
those relationships never last imo, a few months maybe a year, that #$%^#@ gets old & uninteresting .. once the challenge is over all you have is amediocre guy that doesn't know how to act.
girls almost always marry the good guy..
& it's easy to tell the good ones from the bad ones, even if we go for the bad one.
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girls respect good guys .. it's just that a lot of good guys are pushovers & no one respects a pushover

the following is a fact, i don't care what any other female says: IF YOU ALLOW A GIRL TO STEP ON YOU, SHE'LL PUT STEEL TOE BOOTS ON (with pleasure) ANDTAP DANCE ALL OVER YOUR SAD LITTLE HEART.

even if yer a punk .. man up and pretend you aren't
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Nice guys do get the win. You just got to know how to portray yourself differently from the other nice guys. Most women get attention from all sorts of guyseach and everyday. Usually these guys will tell the girl the same complements "You look good, you're beautiful, etc." These could be attractivemen, ugly men, or your average guy. Overtime they get jaded. When you get a chance to "spit" and you get denied it's not because you just simplythe "nice guy" it's because you don't know how to distinct yourself from the rest of the guys.
 
When I was a freshman in high school, this girl Tiffany I was with cheated on me. She was the first girl to ever do that and the last. After that happened, Iknew girls didn't want a nice guy like me so I switched it up. From then on I just went after sex, and when you go after sex there's no way you can benice. You have to be aggressive and let a girl know you want it and there's nothing she can do to stop you. (Figuratively, No Rape Mode though) I'mstill nice though, another thing that helps is I don't believe in relationships. What I also know is, if I don't rewire my mind I'm going to be alonely man. You cant party forever.
 
I was reading my psychology book today for class. Skipping to the point, i skipped ahead to some chapter about behaviorism. I think it was B.F. Skinner whostated that unconfident guys purposely find a disability like shyness, nervousness or something. They do this because they need something to fall back on ifthey fail, so when you do fail you can say to yourself it was because of your shy. But in reality you dont have the skills necessary for yourencounter.

Nice guys are usually shy, they freeze when their nervous which to me means shyness.
 
Originally Posted by dunksnjordans1992

$$%% being a nice guy gets you nowhere.. i swear i will never open up to a girl ever in my life again. id rather be alone and $$%% a bunch of $$*!$+% than be with someone and get heartbroken
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a-men brother.
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Girls dont, Women do.

Stop talking to girls and talk to Women.
Stop talking to hoodrats and talk to girls with class.
 
Originally Posted by Elpablo21

It's all about balance..gotta be an %!!@#!% and a nice guy
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my boi been tellin me this for yrs now. "be coo but when she getout of line or w/e you gotta let her know" but w/me its either one side or the other. either im real nice or it gets to a point when i spaz on her and itsjus all bad from there. balance is a big prob of mine because i dont feel like i should have to tell a girl about herself errytime she does somethin wrong likeshes a child, but at the same time shes not goin to keep doin anythin like like she run shhh so idk. but thats prob the biggest prob i have in relationshipstho....."balance"
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Originally Posted by Face82

Women like stand up guys who can take charge. No body they can run over. Simps get nowhere with women. You can be agressive but don't od. It's crazy though.... I'll chump a %#@ off if the situation warrants and like they like it.


This happened to me the other day when I was in the bar.. This one lady was talkin reckless to a lot of dudes. She looks at me like... "I hope you aint one these down low brothers in Atlanta".
I said "hell naw...cool out with that %#@ lady".

She goes "why you gettin offensive if you straight,you must be a down low brother".

I said " %#@ I'll slap the %#@ out you. Who's %#@ is this? I swear you better get her before I beat her @@@ !"

She looks like she's turned on by it and just started laughing and all on my tip the rest of the night. But she was chumpin mad dudes off cause they wasn't sayin %#@ back like some simps. Nice guys can't win for %#@ . I'm not a disrespectful guy but don't talk t me crazy. I won't hit a woman but I'll beat a snitches @@@
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from my experience, its a roller coaster ... the first couple years of my relationship i was a @$!% and although rocky, our relationship was very strong andsexual ... middle years after i did some things i shouldnt have i tried to play the soft guy, but all that did was push us further away ... now im a @$!% butstill dabble in softness with flowers and such and its going strong ...
 
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