"You're single? How come?" Vol. Status Update

• Feb 20, 2009

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weekend girl

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(Specifically) For the 20+ heads...

Why do people act like there must be something wrong with you if you're not in a relationship?

Like you must have commitment issuesor must be leading a double life riddled with promiscuity and deception and ##!#

It's always the people in relationships that be saying this##!# though

'Ol look leap before you leap look %$! #!*!#+##*+%*# on some serial monogamy type ##!# jumpin' from @!+% to @!+% with 10minute intermission intervals.

Is it that unfathomable that somebody can be content with their lives without being committed/co-dependent?

How is single life working out (or not) for ya'll?

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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parada45

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Pics

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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lurkin2long

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id hate to be single.

do you at least have a main sex buddy?

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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bowzer blitz

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I'm bitter.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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951guero

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Its good, still get my cuddy on the side!

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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ogbobbyjohnson773

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Being single and having occasional flings

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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yungmatt

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Good Thread

I dont need a significant other in my life to be happy....And with the life I live, Its kinda hard for me to compromise time for a relationship.

Thats the easiest way I can answer the question and thats all Ill contribute for now

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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Single... Let's see well before I had girlfriends I cheated on ALL of them. I mean all of them. I had 5 gfs. I guess you could say karma is kicking me inthe butt. I lied to them without any remorse. I was a straight dog but that's how the boys are.

Is it unfathomable to be without somebody? Yes, but I'm 22 and I'm just at a point where I would like to have a "real" relationship not nopuppy love type of thing. I just go by the saying "you got my back, I got your back".

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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tkthegirl

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My family sucks some of them acting like I should married by my 21st birthday (July) and the rest think I'm a lesbian.
Same thing they did to my sister until she brought a dude to the family reunion.
To be honest I really don't want to be bothered until I'm done traveling here and abroad.
I gotta do a Peace Corp tour just once...just once...

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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krazy

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Single, yes it does baffle people a bit, and some people even imply that I might have commitment issues. Fact of the matter is I'm actually looking to get'involved'.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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i swear i'm gonna punch the next person who asks me this. i get asked almost on the daily.


like jessica- you're a pretty girl, why are you single?

yeah, what does that have to do with anything.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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yungmatt

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Originally Posted by Lil Cao

Single, yes it does baffle people a bit, and some people even imply that I might have commitment issues. Fact of the matter is I'm actually looking to get 'involved'.

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RIP

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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dynasty raider

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I don't know but there's a girl I had a crush on from 2nd-5th grade and her status just went to Single, my mind is running wild.

I know how to pick em though, her beauty is out of this world as a grownwoman.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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mangudai954

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I cant lie I do think something is up when a very attractive girl is single for a long time.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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obie21

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being single is always nice

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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lurkin2long

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Originally Posted by yungmatt

Good Thread

I dont need a significant other in my life to be happy....And with the life I live, Its kinda hard for me to compromise time for a relationship.

Thats the easiest way I can answer the question and thats all Ill contribute for now

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coo

but matt unlike many NTrs youre actually smashing. C'mon now everybody needs that, i dont believe nobody who prefers fappin or fingerin.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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jiggaman414

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WG always comin thru with the relationship threads

but anyway, single life is workin out for me just fine, no long phone convos, not havin to explain where I'm goin every time I go out, and I didn'thave to spend any guap to GTD on Valentines Day

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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yungmatt

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Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by yungmatt

Good Thread

I dont need a significant other in my life to be happy....And with the life I live, Its kinda hard for me to compromise time for a relationship.

Thats the easiest way I can answer the question and thats all Ill contribute for now

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coo

but matt unlike many NTrs youre actually smashing. C'mon now everybody needs that, i dont believe nobody who prefers fappin or fingerin.

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You definitely do have a point there

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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finnns2003

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i'm extremely picky, and maryland is trash when it comes to attractive single ladies. gotta wait to get out of this dump.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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weekend girl

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Originally Posted by lurkin2long

id hate to be single.

do you at least have a main sex buddy?

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I mean single in the sense that you have no real obligations to anyone specifically although you may be casually dating. None of that 3 hour phoneconversation, dinner with the in-laws, pet name peanut butter and jelly @!%%@+!%.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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fade on you

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Excellent thread. I get asked this all the time and it drives me crazy.

what do you mean your single?!?!

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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club29

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Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i swear i'm gonna punch the next person who asks me this. i get asked almost on the daily.


like jessica- you're a pretty girl, why are you single?

yeah, what does that have to do with anything.

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Only the pretty girls get asked out....










Just kidding. Ive seen your pictures. Good enough for a starbucks, I suppose.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

id hate to be single.

do you at least have a main sex buddy?

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I mean single in the sense that you have no real obligations to anyone specifically although you may be casually dating. None of that 3 hour phone conversation, dinner with the in-laws, pet name peanut butter and jelly @!%%@+!%.

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• Feb 20, 2009

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deletedelete

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Originally Posted by Club29

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i swear i'm gonna punch the next person who asks me this. i get asked almost on the daily.


like jessica- you're a pretty girl, why are you single?

yeah, what does that have to do with anything.

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Only the pretty girls get asked out....

Just kidding. Ive seen your pictures. Good enough for a starbucks, I suppose.

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ladies and gentlemen, this is why i am single.

 

• Feb 20, 2009

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yungmatt

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The craziest thing for me is every chick I meet automatically thinks im lying when I tell them Im single

I met this Filipino broad a few weeks and she still thinks im "Too Hot" to not have a girlfriend