Is the possibility of love worth it?

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The idea that you can one day live happily with one person for the rest of your life.

I always think of being a family man one day, but there are so many negative aspects associated with "love" (i.e. heartbreak, cheating, abuse, thingslosing their flare, etc.)

Is it really worth it?
 
I say yes. But I'm one of those romantic sorta dudes. I guess I watched too much Disney growing up and had parents who got along and whatnot.
 
I'm a low key romantic. I want to be in love with one woman for the rest of my life... but there's so many things that keeps me from actually takingthat leap.

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don't watch the notebook.
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It kills me every time.
 
sure why not, lifes short. I'd rather regret doing something, than regret NOT doing it.
 
Its like losin your remote...frustrating like a mafuh 2 look 4, but worth it when you find it...
 
Originally Posted by iBlink

The idea that you can one day live happily with one person for the rest of your life.

I always think of being a family man one day, but there are so many negative aspects associated with "love" (i.e. heartbreak, cheating, abuse, things losing their flare, etc.)

Is it really worth it?
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It's worth it. That's why you find a girl with the values you both share and don't make sex your number one priority (still importantthough in a marriage). I can guarantee you will have lasting and long-term happiness in being married and raising a family.

It won't be easy all of the time, but it will be worth it. Every minute!
 
It really is. Once oyu find it, both of you wont want to mess up a good thing so thingsll go well
 
Okay, so say I've found a girl. I'm crazy about her. But both of us are moving away and won't get to see each other often. Knowing this, I tend tokeep my true feelings to a minimum. Would your argue against that method?
 
Originally Posted by iBlink

Do you go to the university of oregon?
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Nope, just a rabid and obsessed fan!
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(But I do live in Oregon, so I think I'm able to be one)
My younger brother does though (Presidential Scholarship receiver)

I'm moving out in a few days to Utah to eventually get in to BYU.
 
Originally Posted by iBlink

Okay, so say I've found a girl. I'm crazy about her. But both of us are moving away and won't get to see each other often. Knowing this, I tend to keep my true feelings to a minimum. Would your argue against that method?
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Tried to make a situation like this work and failed miserably
 
Originally Posted by iBlink

Okay, so say I've found a girl. I'm crazy about her. But both of us are moving away and won't get to see each other often. Knowing this, I tend to keep my true feelings to a minimum. Would your argue against that method?
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I'm an all-or-nothing kinda fellow. When it comes to all things. Don't half-$!$ anything. And yeah, long distance relationships just aren't worthit. If she's worth it, you'll find the courage to ditch everything and move to wherever she is.. and vice versa for her..
 
Originally Posted by dr funk 13

Originally Posted by iBlink

Do you go to the university of oregon?
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Nope, just a rabid and obsessed fan!
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(But I do live in Oregon, so I think I'm able to be one)
My younger brother does though (Presidential Scholarship receiver)

I'm moving out in a few days to Utah to eventually get in to BYU.
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Oh. that's cool. I'm trying to transfer out there next year.
 
Originally Posted by swyftdahoe

Originally Posted by iBlink

Okay, so say I've found a girl. I'm crazy about her. But both of us are moving away and won't get to see each other often. Knowing this, I tend to keep my true feelings to a minimum. Would your argue against that method?
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I'm an all-or-nothing kinda fellow. When it comes to all things. Don't half-$!$ anything. And yeah, long distance relationships just aren't worth it. If she's worth it, you'll find the courage to ditch everything and move to wherever she is.. and vice versa for her..
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But the thing with packing up and moving is that we're both in school for different things, so that's not really that realistic of an option.
 
This sounds too much like my life... I'm sure one day i'll that special chick. Until then, I'm going continue to improve upon myself to be the verybest man I can be.. 1
 
II agree with Nawth. My thing is this... "life SUCKS anyway".

Think about it. Everything in life eventually sucks. That's the nature of the life cycle. Birth is to death as happy is to sad. Everything in between islike that. So yeah, I love my girl. That will end horribly. Either we break up and hearts get shattered, or we live happily ever after..........untilsomebody DIES. That SUCKS.....BAD. I've seen it with my own eyes. But that's LIFE. Don't be afraid to enjoy good times because you're afraidthey might not last. That's exactly why you should enjoy them. Hell, they DON'T last.
 
Originally Posted by DearWinter219

II agree with Nawth. My thing is this... "life SUCKS anyway".

Think about it. Everything in life eventually sucks. That's the nature of the life cycle. Birth is to death as happy is to sad. Everything in between is like that. So yeah, I love my girl. That will end horribly. Either we break up and hearts get shattered, or we live happily ever after..........until somebody DIES. That SUCKS.....BAD. I've seen it with my own eyes. But that's LIFE. Don't be afraid to enjoy good times because you're afraid they might not last. That's exactly why you should enjoy them. Hell, they DON'T last.
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I'd dapp you up if you were in front of me right now fam. You have no idea how long this has been plaguing my thoughts. No matter how many people I ask, Inever get a good answer, which has lead me to stressing and making threads like these on NT. Appreciate it fam.
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'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.
[1850 Tennyson In Memoriam xxvii. 44]

I choose love, but fully prepare myself for heartbreak. They come hand in hand and heartbreak is inevitable.
 
Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by swyftdahoe

Originally Posted by iBlink

Okay, so say I've found a girl. I'm crazy about her. But both of us are moving away and won't get to see each other often. Knowing this, I tend to keep my true feelings to a minimum. Would your argue against that method?
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I'm an all-or-nothing kinda fellow. When it comes to all things. Don't half-$!$ anything. And yeah, long distance relationships just aren't worth it. If she's worth it, you'll find the courage to ditch everything and move to wherever she is.. and vice versa for her..
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But the thing with packing up and moving is that we're both in school for different things, so that's not really that realistic of an option.
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Oh, if you're in school then that's different.. I mean, you're in the same stage of life then.. I can see that working.. Once you guys graduate andlife takes you wherever, things can change in a quickie..
But yeah, what's the point of a long distance relationship though? If you have deep feelings, express them and accept whatever feelings/non-feelings thatcome back in return..
 
And that the thing, I've been tripping on this situation since that last thread... hell, maybe even before that.

I been holding back on some next $!#% because I don't want to think of being crushed the day I wake up and she's not there. But I'm gonna go all infrom here all out. You only live once.
 
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