real talk: why do black athletes go with white girls ??

Originally Posted by Fade On You

Originally Posted by Jack Daniels

Originally Posted by Fade On You

Originally Posted by RiverXBear

I cant stand white girls.

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Racist much?

White girls > Your life
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..yet you say this on the first page..
Originally Posted by Fade On You


White girls > _______
basically saying that the ugliest white girl is still prettier than any other race of girls? or am I reading this wrong.
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Are you madd because you got burned by a white girl? Fighting tooth and nail for the african goddess?
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Dude just pulled your card and that is the best you can come up with?
 
question though...

why do black women tend to get upset when black men date white women? What difference does it make in their lives who he's dating?

honestly to me it feels like as a black man im not supposed to date any women besides Black Women... and then people make it seem like its detrimental to ourculture if we date outside the race...

just like how a majority of yall parents expressed in some way that you should not bring a white girl home to her... i mean most parents wont outright say itlike that, but they will communicate it to you somehow...

also people are throwing out stereotypes about all black women about how they are loud, cause drama, have attitude, are angry, not easy to be with... Yall needto realize that most of you are specifically talking about hood black females, ghetto black females... aka hoodrats... and some of the things you are sayingare true, but in no way are they true for all black women... and the same can be said for black men...

but im tired of hearing this whole nonsense about its all the black man's fault... or its all the black woman's fault... clearly its both of our faultsthat we've gotten into this situation in regards to each other... i mean really who cares who's fault it is... knowing that aint gonna solve theproblem... IMO when black females say there are no good black men, thats just to hide the fact that they know they dont really deserve a good man... just likewhen black men say there are no good black females, thats just to hide the fact that they know they dont deserve one...
 
I never understood questions like these. You don't want people to be racist and want everyone to be equal, but have a problem with interracialrelationships? Seriously people have to change this mindset. It's people like OP that are part of the racial tension we have in the world.
 
Originally Posted by RavageBX

Originally Posted by GUNNA GET IT

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@ thinkin white women are less drama

Like white dudes don't be ready to strangle their nagging white wives too

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Yall watchin waay too many movies.
But that's what happens when the entertainment medium as a whole sticks to their predictable stereotypical ways

it takes a real weak minded black man to say "I don't mess with black women no more..."
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Dudes co-signin too

More than likely they don't mess wit yo black %!% neither
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Aint nothin wrong with liking who u wanna like tho
but if u closeminded enought to shut down on any nationality of women, especially ur own, 95% of the time the problem is YOU not the particular group of women
I don't even know why the thread was still open after this. Well said.

And really though I think if I were a black woman I would be mad/salty too. As black men we let our counterparts down in so many ways I think they have every right to be upset at times. Quite sad actually. And this phenomena of totally being against dating black women is just the insult to the injury. Like Gunna said if you're that closeminded the problem is probably you.
These two posts plus what LifeLessons has said makes up for all of the small-minded individuals in this thread.
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That's really all I can/have to say in response to some of the idioticcomments here in this thread. Like AJChick said above, I pretty much know what to expect when these kind of threads pop-up on NT.
 
Originally Posted by Thugnificence

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Damn some much hate towards black women, from black dudes of all people. smh. Sad....
Yes but I doubt many of them practice what they preach anyway....

It's sad also because of all these generalizations

It's statistically proven that black men:

Lack jobs
Lack education
Spend more time in jail than a school....

Yet black women still bear all scrutiny
now see that's part of the problem... people see these statistics & generalize it towards all black men... which then turns into "all black men are dogs, there are no good ones out there"...

but another part of the problem is that black women are unwilling to accept that it is also partly their fault for this mess we have...
Now see I only added that part about the stats because I knew somebody was gonna say what you said. How bout if we all as humans takeresponsibility for our actions and stop blaming other people. Example: Some salty dude in this thread made a reference to pregnancy. If you had unprotectedsex with somebody how is it only their fault that you have a baby?...its takes 2 sweetheart and if you're not ready for the the responsibility wrap your^%#^ up next time.

Additionally just like black men don't don't to be generalized as dogs, people need to stop doing the same to black females...

I also think many black men are angry at black women because (and i know I'm going to catch it for this) but because black women are more accepted insociety than black men...sorry it's true
 
Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Damn some much hate towards black women, from black dudes of all people. smh. Sad....
Yeah, the ignorance is upsetting. But more of them for me...
 
Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by Thugnificence

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Damn some much hate towards black women, from black dudes of all people. smh. Sad....
Yes but I doubt many of them practice what they preach anyway....

It's sad also because of all these generalizations

It's statistically proven that black men:

Lack jobs
Lack education
Spend more time in jail than a school....

Yet black women still bear all scrutiny
now see that's part of the problem... people see these statistics & generalize it towards all black men... which then turns into "all black men are dogs, there are no good ones out there"...

but another part of the problem is that black women are unwilling to accept that it is also partly their fault for this mess we have...
Now see I only added that part about the stats because I knew somebody was gonna say what you said. How bout if we all as humans take responsibility for our actions and stop blaming other people. Example: Some salty dude in this thread made a reference to pregnancy. If you had unprotected sex with somebody how is it only their fault that you have a baby?...its takes 2 sweetheart and if you're not ready for the the responsibility wrap your ^%#^ up next time.

Additionally just like black men don't don't to be generalized as dogs, people need to stop doing the same to black females...

I also think many black men are angry at black women because (and i know I'm going to catch it for this) but because black women are more accepted in society than black men...sorry it's true
woah, woah, woah, I was feeling you up until the last part. I don't want to turn this into a __ >__ thing, but I think women (in generaland especially black [or any other minority]women) are like at the bottom of the totem pole in regards to the amount of respect given, as unfortunate as it isto admit.
 
Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by Thugnificence

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Damn some much hate towards black women, from black dudes of all people. smh. Sad....
Yes but I doubt many of them practice what they preach anyway....

It's sad also because of all these generalizations

It's statistically proven that black men:

Lack jobs
Lack education
Spend more time in jail than a school....

Yet black women still bear all scrutiny
now see that's part of the problem... people see these statistics & generalize it towards all black men... which then turns into "all black men are dogs, there are no good ones out there"...

but another part of the problem is that black women are unwilling to accept that it is also partly their fault for this mess we have...
Now see I only added that part about the stats because I knew somebody was gonna say what you said. How bout if we all as humans take responsibility for our actions and stop blaming other people. Example: Some salty dude in this thread made a reference to pregnancy. If you had unprotected sex with somebody how is it only their fault that you have a baby?...its takes 2 sweetheart and if you're not ready for the the responsibility wrap your ^%#^ up next time.

Additionally just like black men don't don't to be generalized as dogs, people need to stop doing the same to black females...

I also think many black men are angry at black women because (and i know I'm going to catch it for this) but because black women are more accepted in society than black men...sorry it's true
woah, woah, woah, I was feeling you up until the last part. I don't want to turn this into a __ >__ thing, but I think women (in general and especially black [or any other minority]women) are like at the bottom of the totem pole in regards to the amount of respect given, as unfortunate as it is to admit.
I'm not saying anyone is BETTER than anyone....what I'm saying is I feel like alot of black men who resent black women do so because they(black men) feel like they catch it worse than black women. And you are right women do have major strides to make...However I didn't say RESPECTED i saidACCEPTED... look at education and job stats, they speak to my point
 
This goes for both sexes. Date & marry whoever you feel comfortable with, but limiting your choices
is just flat out ridiculous. Now depending on where or how somebody grew up or what not, they may have developed
a liking towards one nationality or ethnicity more than others, just like they also may have
gained a preposition to certain other characteristics . This is what is called likes and dislikes.

As for OP statement, i'm sure the ratio isn't as one sided as he thinks.

Personality & Compatibility > Looks IMO
 
Thugnificence wrote:
HarlemKickDiva wrote:
DAYTONA 5000 wrote:
Damn some much hate towards black women, from black dudes of all people. smh. Sad....
Yes but I doubt many of them practice what they preach anyway....

It's sad also because of all these generalizations

It's statistically proven that black men:

Lack jobs
Lack education
Spend more time in jail than a school....

Yet black women still bear all scrutiny

now see that's part of the problem... people see these statistics & generalize it towards all black men... which then turns into "all black men are dogs, there are no good ones out there"...

but another part of the problem is that black women are unwilling to accept that it is also partly their fault for this mess we have...



i love how she posts those stats and people get offended...but god forbid we get a lil upset about generalizations about us...we're salty right?

why do black women tend to get upset when black men date white women? What difference does it make in their lives who he's dating?

I don't have a problem with interracial dating..my only problem is posts like these...dudes get all righteous like they're to good for black women andmake all the generalizations and put downs but if i was to start a thread about the stuff HarlemDiva posted it be pages and pages about systematic racism...andCOINTELPRO or whatever...don't get it twisted i'm not trying to downplay anything...but just think of how it would be if the shoe were on the otherfoot...
 
Originally Posted by shortydoowopp

i love how she posts those stats and people get offended...but god forbid we get a lil upset about generalizations about us...we're salty right?
why do black women tend to get upset when black men date white women? What difference does it make in their lives who he's dating?
I don't have a problem with interracial dating..my only problem is posts like these...dudes get all righteous like they're to good for black women and make all the generalizations and put downs but if i was to start a thread about the stuff HarlemDiva posted it be pages and pages about systematic racism...and COINTELPRO or whatever...don't get it twisted i'm not trying to downplay anything...but just think of how it would be if the shoe were on the other foot...
i get what you're saying... but for me i kind of think of it like i think of gay marriage... bear with me now, just think a lil bit...

I dont give a #$%$ if 2 gay people want to get married, that doesnt affect me in any way whatsoever...

just like i dont give a #$%$ if a black man marries a white woman, or if a black man marries a black woman, or if a white man marries a black woman...

i really dont understand why everybody cares so much about whether black men want to marry white women or not... Think about it like this, even if you get yourway & he doesnt marry a white woman, that doesnt help you in anyway...

not to mention black women being upset that black men are dating/marrying white women is just an acceptable form of racism... IMO(slightly)
 
Originally Posted by Fade On You

Originally Posted by Jack Daniels

Originally Posted by Fade On You

Originally Posted by RiverXBear

I cant stand white girls.

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Racist much?

White girls > Your life
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..yet you say this on the first page..
Originally Posted by Fade On You


White girls > _______
basically saying that the ugliest white girl is still prettier than any other race of girls? or am I reading this wrong.
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Are you madd because you got burned by a white girl? Fighting tooth and nail for the african goddess?
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you know you lost an argument when you reply with a busted a##joke and a busted @## gif.
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you only got offended by "i cant stand white girls" cuz you ARE a white girl...and cry racism after you say....
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"white girls >______" and think that isnt racist? yeah. why do I bother? you have no argument..

I digress though.. arguing on NT is dumb...and on top of that you have no argument..(at all). lol so im good. adios ****.
 
Originally Posted by shortydoowopp

Thugnificence wrote:
HarlemKickDiva wrote:
DAYTONA 5000 wrote:
Damn some much hate towards black women, from black dudes of all people. smh. Sad....
Yes but I doubt many of them practice what they preach anyway....

It's sad also because of all these generalizations

It's statistically proven that black men:

Lack jobs
Lack education
Spend more time in jail than a school....

Yet black women still bear all scrutiny

now see that's part of the problem... people see these statistics & generalize it towards all black men... which then turns into "all black men are dogs, there are no good ones out there"...

but another part of the problem is that black women are unwilling to accept that it is also partly their fault for this mess we have...



i love how she posts those stats and people get offended...but god forbid we get a lil upset about generalizations about us...we're salty right?

why do black women tend to get upset when black men date white women? What difference does it make in their lives who he's dating?

I don't have a problem with interracial dating..my only problem is posts like these...dudes get all righteous like they're to good for black women and make all the generalizations and put downs but if i was to start a thread about the stuff HarlemDiva posted it be pages and pages about systematic racism...and COINTELPRO or whatever...don't get it twisted i'm not trying to downplay anything...but just think of how it would be if the shoe were on the other foot...
And that's all I am trying to say...thank you for being one of the few people who gets it....
 
HarlemKickDiva wrote:

I also think many black men are angry at black women because (and i know I'm going to catch it for this) but because black women are more accepted in society than black men...sorry it's true


That is definitely true. I agree with this---especially in terms of rights and priviledges---black men have been sitting on the bottom of socialtotem pole for a while, especially since the 1960s.

Also, its not that Black men are angry at black women--- black women were given more priviledges and rights that superceded the rights of black men,especially in the household. this is why society feels like black women are more accepted than black men.
 
some of what i read that you guys wrote is stupid, america is 12-13% black, if you get out the hood there are other options of women besides black andhispanic.
 
alright rather than make vague generalazations like most of the rest of u im jus gunna speak on experience...

as a black man i frankly find white women more attractive... ON AVERAGE!! than black women

ARRBITRARY EXAMPLE: meaning if i walk down the street n see 10 black girls n 10 white girls chances are id find one maybe two of those sistas attractive n onemaybe two more "boneable".... white girls on the other hand id proll find myself attracted to 3-4 of them with about 7 of 10 being pipeable...

dont get me wrong i love women of all races n creeds n the most attractive girl ive ever laid eyes on that isnt Kim Kardashian is a black girl that went to thesame college as me... (i was always too intimidated to approach her
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generally i mess wit white girls n ive found them ALL to be down %%% chics willin to ride for u or the cause... however the best ive ever had n bed was asianand like i said the most attractive female ive ever seen is black...
 
i dont understand why black women take offense to black men wanting white women. You should want someone who wants you for you if the color of your skin is theonly thing that makes u inelligible(sp?) for some one then why would u want him anyways... Find love in
whoever you can regardless of race because truthfully true love is hard to find.
 
Same reason fat white women go for black guys because they are on the B-D list if you catch my driftwood.
 
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