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hmmm
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Marriage counseling might help....sometimes having a professional to talk to is a good way to get to the bottom of the problems you may be having with your wife. If that doesn't work, then maybe divorce is the best option....
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Marriage counseling might help....sometimes having a professional to talk to is a good way to get to the bottom of the problems you may be having with your wife. If that doesn't work, then maybe divorce is the best option....
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What did you guys talk about before you were married?
I've been married two years and it hasn't been working to this point. I've found out in this two years that we are not as compatible as first thought. We sit in the house all dY together and don't talk. Not even be ause we are mad... Sometimes is just nothing I want to talk about that she would be interested in talking about like.. Sports video games comics I'm trying to stRt my own buisiness and when it comes to that she just isn't excited or interested. We both make sacrifices and try to do what the other enjoys...but that usually ends up in a argument. Speaking of we argument pretty much every day or every other day over dumb @#%+. Here's the zinger... We have a 1 year old child. So of course I've been sticking around in order to give my son a chance at a two parent house hold. If you need more detail just ask. But basicLly I'm getting tired of the same @#%+ everyday routine.... Am I wrong? Would y'all clasify me as a scared punk who would stay wit his kid? I wish I could take my son and raise him alone... I'm a patient person and have know problem wit tryna stick it out For 2 more years or whatever to try to make it work... How long should I wAit?
and how old are you?
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What did you guys talk about before you were married?
I've been married two years and it hasn't been working to this point. I've found out in this two years that we are not as compatible as first thought. We sit in the house all dY together and don't talk. Not even be ause we are mad... Sometimes is just nothing I want to talk about that she would be interested in talking about like.. Sports video games comics I'm trying to stRt my own buisiness and when it comes to that she just isn't excited or interested. We both make sacrifices and try to do what the other enjoys...but that usually ends up in a argument. Speaking of we argument pretty much every day or every other day over dumb @#%+. Here's the zinger... We have a 1 year old child. So of course I've been sticking around in order to give my son a chance at a two parent house hold. If you need more detail just ask. But basicLly I'm getting tired of the same @#%+ everyday routine.... Am I wrong? Would y'all clasify me as a scared punk who would stay wit his kid? I wish I could take my son and raise him alone... I'm a patient person and have know problem wit tryna stick it out For 2 more years or whatever to try to make it work... How long should I wAit?
and how old are you?
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man put down the cod mw2 and start trying to be a better family man ... i understand you enjoy your things but when it comes down to it, video games and comics are juvenile ...
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man put down the cod mw2 and start trying to be a better family man ... i understand you enjoy your things but when it comes down to it, video games and comics are juvenile ...
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This...video games? sitting around the house all day? She didn't sign up for that....and what the hell did you guys do before getting hitched?
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well...its only going to get worse from here on out
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well...its only going to get worse from here on out
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This...video games? sitting around the house all day? She didn't sign up for that....and what the hell did you guys do before getting hitched?
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I'm guessing they sit around the house a lot because they have a one year old child.
Going out to eat, taking loving strolls, going to the movies, etc. can be difficult with a baby. When a woman has a child they usually focus all of their attention on them. That leaves a lot of time for a man to indulge in his personal interest.
Going out to eat, taking loving strolls, going to the movies, etc. can be difficult with a baby. When a woman has a child they usually focus all of their attention on them. That leaves a lot of time for a man to indulge in his personal interest.
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I'm guessing they sit around the house a lot because they have a one year old child.
Going out to eat, taking loving strolls, going to the movies, etc. can be difficult with a baby. When a woman has a child they usually focus all of their attention on them. That leaves a lot of time for a man to indulge in his personal interest.
Going out to eat, taking loving strolls, going to the movies, etc. can be difficult with a baby. When a woman has a child they usually focus all of their attention on them. That leaves a lot of time for a man to indulge in his personal interest.
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Yeah you gotta give some of that stuff up man. Or at least don't do it as often. Because to her that isn't a good look at all.
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Yeah you gotta give some of that stuff up man. Or at least don't do it as often. Because to her that isn't a good look at all.
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I disagree, OP shouldn't have to give up anything. Why must he change who he is in order to make someone else happy?
As long as he's spending time and helping out, he should be able to do whatever he wants to with his time. Do you cats really think that marriage is an all day love fest where you are on top of one another all the time?
As long as he's spending time and helping out, he should be able to do whatever he wants to with his time. Do you cats really think that marriage is an all day love fest where you are on top of one another all the time?
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I disagree, OP shouldn't have to give up anything. Why must he change who he is in order to make someone else happy?
As long as he's spending time and helping out, he should be able to do whatever he wants to with his time. Do you cats really think that marriage is an all day love fest where you are on top of one another all the time?
As long as he's spending time and helping out, he should be able to do whatever he wants to with his time. Do you cats really think that marriage is an all day love fest where you are on top of one another all the time?
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But yea, as long as he's pulling his weight, I don't see why he'd have to give up what he likes.
Try marriage counseling though. Give it a chance.
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But yea, as long as he's pulling his weight, I don't see why he'd have to give up what he likes.
Try marriage counseling though. Give it a chance.
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because he grew the #!!* up
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because he grew the #!!* up
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You gotta give up something
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You gotta give up something
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Eh.
Growing up = not enjoying yourself or having your own hobbies. Ok.
Good luck with life.
Growing up = not enjoying yourself or having your own hobbies. Ok.
Good luck with life.
