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Did yall get married because she got pregnant, or were yall already married?

Talk to her about your feelings. Obviously don't bring up divorce, but ask her how you can become a better husband, and vice versa.

It seems you two have a lack of good communication and that's never a good thing.

Today would probably be a great opportunity to put some spark back into your life by taking her to go see fireworks.
 
Did yall get married because she got pregnant, or were yall already married?

Talk to her about your feelings. Obviously don't bring up divorce, but ask her how you can become a better husband, and vice versa.

It seems you two have a lack of good communication and that's never a good thing.

Today would probably be a great opportunity to put some spark back into your life by taking her to go see fireworks.
 
How long were you together before you got married? People rush into marriage to fast these days, I think that's why everyone gets a divorce. I was with my wife for 10 years and had two kids before I got married. I'm not saying this is what happened to you OP. Maybe you should try marriage counseling. when it comes down to it you have to ask yourself do I still love her? because if you don't staying with her just for the kid will do more harm in the long run. having your kid see you fight all the time and not loving each other will do him no good. Anyway I hope things work out for you.
 
How long were you together before you got married? People rush into marriage to fast these days, I think that's why everyone gets a divorce. I was with my wife for 10 years and had two kids before I got married. I'm not saying this is what happened to you OP. Maybe you should try marriage counseling. when it comes down to it you have to ask yourself do I still love her? because if you don't staying with her just for the kid will do more harm in the long run. having your kid see you fight all the time and not loving each other will do him no good. Anyway I hope things work out for you.
 
Originally Posted by General Johnson

Eh.

Growing up = not enjoying yourself or having your own hobbies. Ok.

Good luck with life.
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Its not about growing up, its about marriage. You have to make sacrifices to keep the peace. Remember theres TWO (2) people in this marriage and you have to be sensative to each others wants and needs.

OP, your selfish. Your putting all the blame on her it seems. Maybe you should re evaluate the situation and think of what YOU can do to make a difference. Im not saying either of you are wrong, but it wouldnt hurt to try a different approach and see how she reacts. Maybe yall need some time to yourselves cause babies tend to hinder marriages. Did she get fat after the pregnancy OP? you dont find her attractive anymore? It could be a number of things that could be going on.   I suggest counseling.
 
Originally Posted by General Johnson

Eh.

Growing up = not enjoying yourself or having your own hobbies. Ok.

Good luck with life.
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Its not about growing up, its about marriage. You have to make sacrifices to keep the peace. Remember theres TWO (2) people in this marriage and you have to be sensative to each others wants and needs.

OP, your selfish. Your putting all the blame on her it seems. Maybe you should re evaluate the situation and think of what YOU can do to make a difference. Im not saying either of you are wrong, but it wouldnt hurt to try a different approach and see how she reacts. Maybe yall need some time to yourselves cause babies tend to hinder marriages. Did she get fat after the pregnancy OP? you dont find her attractive anymore? It could be a number of things that could be going on.   I suggest counseling.
 
It's cool to check with NT on stuff, just to see the differing opinions, and sometimes you will get some gems. But at the end of the day, most of them are children at their comfy spot still at home passing judgement on life when they haven't lived.
 
It's cool to check with NT on stuff, just to see the differing opinions, and sometimes you will get some gems. But at the end of the day, most of them are children at their comfy spot still at home passing judgement on life when they haven't lived.
 
Damn you did all of that and she still isn't trying to appeal to your desires or keep you happy?

Sounds like a lost cause. Some women are just unhappy because the life they live isn't the "ideal life" or the one they thought would "just happen" even thought they made no plans to make it happen.

You're still very young my dude. You have another good 13 or 18 years of "youth" depending on how you take care of yourself. If you don't like the life you're living, then change it. But don't exit your situation like you entered it. Plan it all out.

I REPEAT, PLAN IT ALL OUT.

Leave in the best possible fashion that works to your favor, while providing a stable life (on your end) for you kid. Not saying to leave her on the streets, but doesn't she have a degree? Take an active role in getting her on the right track so you have a stable life for your son and when the time is right, dip.
 
Damn you did all of that and she still isn't trying to appeal to your desires or keep you happy?

Sounds like a lost cause. Some women are just unhappy because the life they live isn't the "ideal life" or the one they thought would "just happen" even thought they made no plans to make it happen.

You're still very young my dude. You have another good 13 or 18 years of "youth" depending on how you take care of yourself. If you don't like the life you're living, then change it. But don't exit your situation like you entered it. Plan it all out.

I REPEAT, PLAN IT ALL OUT.

Leave in the best possible fashion that works to your favor, while providing a stable life (on your end) for you kid. Not saying to leave her on the streets, but doesn't she have a degree? Take an active role in getting her on the right track so you have a stable life for your son and when the time is right, dip.
 
Originally Posted by General Johnson

Damn you did all of that and she still isn't trying to appeal to your desires or keep you happy?

Sounds like a lost cause. Some women are just unhappy because the life they live isn't the "ideal life" or the one they thought would "just happen" even thought they made no plans to make it happen.

You're still very young my dude. You have another good 13 or 18 years of "youth" depending on how you take care of yourself. If you don't like the life you're living, then change it. But don't exit your situation like you entered it. Plan it all out.

I REPEAT, PLAN IT ALL OUT.

Leave in the best possible fashion that works to your favor, while providing a stable life (on your end) for you kid. Not saying to leave her on the streets, but doesn't she have a degree? Take an active role in getting her on the right track so you have a stable life for your son and when the time is right, dip.
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Very VERY good advice

  
 
Originally Posted by General Johnson

Damn you did all of that and she still isn't trying to appeal to your desires or keep you happy?

Sounds like a lost cause. Some women are just unhappy because the life they live isn't the "ideal life" or the one they thought would "just happen" even thought they made no plans to make it happen.

You're still very young my dude. You have another good 13 or 18 years of "youth" depending on how you take care of yourself. If you don't like the life you're living, then change it. But don't exit your situation like you entered it. Plan it all out.

I REPEAT, PLAN IT ALL OUT.

Leave in the best possible fashion that works to your favor, while providing a stable life (on your end) for you kid. Not saying to leave her on the streets, but doesn't she have a degree? Take an active role in getting her on the right track so you have a stable life for your son and when the time is right, dip.
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Very VERY good advice

  
 
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