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illphil and sillyputty arguments are hilarious
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Debt is just a small part of the equation. That was ONE of my points. But silly goes on his rant about the rings and the diamonds, and it's all a game, and none of it means anything etc.Originally Posted by yngSIMBA
^^illphillip
I think that's one of the points sillyputy is trying to make. People go will go WAYYY beyond their means for a ceremony that lasts a few hours at most. Why not take that money and go somewhere with your girl, or put it down on a house? I'm not even saying don't get married, don't put yourself in a situation that will you leave you in debt.
Spoiler [+]Silly makes great points, but you guys just view him as someone who bashes everything for no reason, but every point he made is valid, and he uses logic to back it up, instead of just accepting things the way they are. I respect and agree with silly's view personally I just wish you guys could be more open minded and see his POV, instead of labeling him as the guy who doesn't like religion.
Just a fun spar.Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
illphil and sillyputty arguments are hilarious
Originally Posted by ToAnotherLevel
We make enough money to support ourselves but I don’t want to spend an excessive amount of money on a wedding ceremony that ultimately benefits the guests - not us.
My fault. I shouldn't have generalized. But if you check the national average, men save better than women. Your mom is probably the exception and I applaud her for it. Please, for goodness sake, stop taking board comments so damn personal.Originally Posted by Biggie62
Originally Posted by Big J 33
Originally Posted by Grizzlyboy
I got married Feb 2011. PLEASE LISTEN TO ME!
If you do not set the tone of your marriage now, you can forget about it.
Women have no sense of saving, money, long-term. They want it now. It is your job to be the MAN and set boundaries.
I expressed to my wife that she has a budget. That was it. Anything over I canceled. Write the checks yourself and look at receipts.
What an outrageously ignorant statement.
I would bet you money that my mom is better at saving, investing, and projecting spending than you ever will be Grizzlyboy. Sure some women are like that, but just an equal amount of men are the same.
Damb, I cant believe the 300 and Magnum were out when this dropped ( 1:20Originally Posted by 0cks
Originally Posted by 0cks
Originally Posted by blakep267
ehh, I mean let her do what she wants ( not saying spend a million dollars), but if she wants a big wedding let her have it. At the end of it all, money doesnt mean anything. All we have are memories. When you guys are 80 years old, do you think that having that extra money you didnt use on the wedding would be useful, or being able to remember this awesome day where you and your girl got hitched and partied hard.
Originally Posted by ToAnotherLevel
We continued our wedding planing this evening and I think we're in a good place. No more than 100 guests and we may have a deal on a venue via my mother's associate. We'll contine to work together on this. I want her to be happy w/ what we do. I appreciate the input.