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Men lie, women lie, numbers don't
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check me out pleigh boi. not sure of your age...but..you shouldn't even be asking these girls how many bodies they have, immature, If a chic asked me this nowadays its a huge turn off. Besides do you think your getting a true answer? she told you 8? bet its 15. is what it is. you dont want to know a chics real #, nothing good can come from it, it will never be a # you'd want to hear anyway
. The way I see it..after I get the yambs, Im the best thats ever been in em 
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Sunshine you're doing it all wrong. What you gotta do is hit up the ladies like this;
That would seal the deal for sure
Take it from personal experience
That would seal the deal for sure
Take it from personal experience
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People are giving lots of great advice on here!
Being a virgin doesn't bug me, since I'm waiting for marriage.
every once in a while though i feel lonely and want a GF, but it never bugs me enough to get one.
plus, every girl I've been interested in has put me in the friend zone!
I'm focusing more on school and my passions such as music and art, and those are bigger priorities
girls cost $$ too, and I really don't have a disposable income
What freaks me out is how girls always put me in the friend zone.
Any one have any advice on not letting this happen?
Being a virgin doesn't bug me, since I'm waiting for marriage.
every once in a while though i feel lonely and want a GF, but it never bugs me enough to get one.
plus, every girl I've been interested in has put me in the friend zone!
I'm focusing more on school and my passions such as music and art, and those are bigger priorities
girls cost $$ too, and I really don't have a disposable income
What freaks me out is how girls always put me in the friend zone.
Any one have any advice on not letting this happen?
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Yah but at least you know the minimum she is willing to admit. And that means something.
check me out pleigh boi. not sure of your age...but..you shouldn't even be asking these girls how many bodies they have, immature, If a chic asked me this nowadays its a huge turn off. Besides do you think your getting a true answer? she told you 8? bet its 15. is what it is. you dont want to know a chics real #, nothing good can come from it, it will never be a # you'd want to hear anyway
No disrespect. Dont take it as such. But when you find a girl you think she won't want sex? Marriage is an unrealistic goal to wait for sex in any relationship these days imo. Unless you are one of those freak couples that get married after months of dating.People are giving lots of great advice on here!
Being a virgin doesn't bug me, since I'm waiting for marriage.
every once in a while though i feel lonely and want a GF, but it never bugs me enough to get one.
plus, every girl I've been interested in has put me in the friend zone!
I'm focusing more on school and my passions such as music and art, and those are bigger priorities
girls cost $$ too, and I really don't have a disposable income
What freaks me out is how girls always put me in the friend zone.
Any one have any advice on not letting this happen?
IDK the only advice I can give you is cut them off after you are in the friend zone. girls need to know you don't want another friend. You have your own.
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I think one thing that's very important for anyone is to not let societal pressures make you feel like you HAVE to accomplish something by a certain age.
At the end of the day, it's your life, do what's natural to you at the right time. Everyone is different, is born into different circumstances, and is accustomed to different situations, and there are cultural differences, etc.
Not all girls will like you. Same way not all companies will hire you, and that you're not going to get along with every person you meet.
But I think the women that will gravitate toward you (and the girls that you end up finding more attractive) will be the ones that share your values and expectations on things.
At the end of the day, it's your life, do what's natural to you at the right time. Everyone is different, is born into different circumstances, and is accustomed to different situations, and there are cultural differences, etc.
Not all girls will like you. Same way not all companies will hire you, and that you're not going to get along with every person you meet.
But I think the women that will gravitate toward you (and the girls that you end up finding more attractive) will be the ones that share your values and expectations on things.
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Does it count if you dont bust?
BaltimoreLove
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completely disagree, if you want to wait for marriage do it...
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Another problem I seem to have is that I am African but not straight from the motherland (lived in europe and then got americanized). Black chicks do not give me the time of day.
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I don't have a set number and it's not something I ask or bring up. Obviously I don't want to wife a JO but its not like asking can prevent that as she could just lie.
I'm 28. Girls in my age range could avg 1 or 2 year and be in the 15 to 20 range. The total number sounds bad at face value but its important to know the circumstances behind it. That type of convo usually doesn't end well and I feel comfortable picking up on vibes/determining her character through our interactions.
