Sort of had a thing with a girl... She hooked up with her ex this weekend when drunk

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Oh please. The "I was drunk" excuse is the lamest in the book.

It's really not complicated OP. She has more feelings for the ex than she does for you. If you're seeing someone you really like and have feelings for, he or she will be the first person you call when you're drunk and  horny. JMO.

Move along. Nothing to see here.
 
For all you know this chick could be pregnant right now by her ex given their actions from this weekend.  Don't even think about being serious with this chick after this.
 
Originally Posted by datboi81

fact is ya'll not dating so she's free to do what she wants.

if she told you what happened, then obviously she cares for you or atleast respects you enough to let you know what she's been doing.

i say take the risk and just keep going. obviously you like her enough to make a thread about her, so just do it and be happy with yourself no matter the outcome of the relationship.
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Sort of torn i feel your pain though OP.

Option 1:  You guys weren't that serious she told you about it you can kind of distance yourself but still try to work it out.  Make sure she is clean though you never know who the ex was laying pipe too since.

Option 2:  Quit her.  After 4 weeks that's usually when things start getting interesting for a new couple.  She obv still has some feelings for her ex. 

I was in a very similar situation.  Girl hit me with the i really like you and i want to try to work it out but i think i still have feelings for my ex.  But i think they will fade as we are together.  I said "nope i am out, i don't play little games"  she had gone out the night before on purpose to see him so i just dead everything right then and there.  It turned out to be the right call.  She has had 8 different "boyfriends" in about a year.  Didn't realize she was just that kind of girl at the time.  Good luck OP
 
Keep her around, but LOSE the emotional attachment.

She downgraded herself to an option rather than a serious potential partner.
 
Do you own her? Are you officially in an exclusive relationship? If both of these answers are no then tell her how you really feel and proceed to smash.
 
this is what you do OP...

you smash one more time....PIITB, finish you know where...film it....then you good.
 
Sounds like she doesn't like you that much fam... If she did she would have hit u up ASAP! Instead of rockin with her EX...
 
Dudes is too insecure these days. If we not together I'm automatically assuming she's messin with other dudes.

You don't need to move on necessarily but you need to play that role if you ever gonna get any upper hand.
 
Keep things going with her, but approach with extreme caution and DO NOT CATCH feelings.
Continue to get P because it's there. But she played you, feel free to play her down the line once she catches feelings






I'm bitter
 
if she still hangs around her ex...is a bad sign


like hanging around a ex?....like nah, curve her!!!
 
Thank her for her honesty. It was just a small mistake bruh. Don't let one small thing break you and her a part. Besides, you even said how alcohol and ex's are a bad combo. you understand bruh.
 
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