TAY: thread about yambs...

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facebook / twitter is not best used for random yambs... it's for yambs you kinda know but like not really. Ya'll met briefly at a party, bump into each other a couple times at a happy hour, etc.

This is how I've been using twitter in yamb acquisition. Or with friends of friends that follow me that are local
 
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dreads
afro
braids
waves
fohawks
mohawks........



whatever....as long as it is clean and the edges are fresh.....



no mysterious odors please...

Word. as far as the bolded, :lol: I've seen dudes with dreads & braids that look like they haven't been re-done in 6 months, gross :x
 
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its not what u wear, its how u wear it....

as they say....let em cook......

i know im glad someone decided to bring the legwarmers back......from the 80's......
 
One girl I'm talking to now is just super nice to me. The things she has done/will do for me is just ridiculous

My barber knows this cat that's selling a car. Since I need one my barber is gonna hook me up. So I started saving up so I can buy it. Ol girl told me she's gonna help me out and put down money.

I was shocked because I never expected her to tell me that. My pride wouldn't let me take it. I'm an independent person and it wouldn't feel right taking it. I told her this and she's like I don't care. I want to help you out. You've been there for me and this is me helping you. She also is going to get me some food from her job since she gets it for me. And some socks too lol

She just came thru to give me some stuff. She gave me casein and whey protein and said when I run out she will get me some more (tho have her cash for it, I got it pretty cheap)

Feelin her a lot
 
haven't checked in here in a minute...

me and my girl took a break during "cuffing season"... She got scooped up by some dude but since then we've gotten back together. She spent New Years Weekend over my house and one of those nights got a random phone call at 4am :rolleyes didn't really think much of it but occasionally brought up the fact that his name was "Benz" as a joke and noticed how uncomfortable she would get.... Found out today that was the dude she was with during that period and he calls VERY often. No self respecting dude is gonna call you excess of twice a day if you broke up with him a month ago and haven't been answering any of his calls. At the very least she's entertaining dude

contemplating just washing my hands of the situation... don't need to be involved in this BS

Wash your hands of her bruh. A lot of people have disagreed with me but I'd rather miss out on a good thing than get played. I'm the kind of cat that my highest high will never make up for my lowest low so anytime somebody tries to play me that **** gets under my skin.

You said it yourself, most sane men ain't hitting a chick up at 4am...unless she's expecting that late night creep call. I would say if you dig her though confront her, tell her where you stand & your expectations. If she makes an excuse for anything, cut her off. If she says "aight, cool" probably got a keeper
 
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PONYTAILS? This ain't the 90s
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Man F U
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I rock a ponytail,looks like a palmtree though
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I wanna smash my girls friend.  they close but not that close.  I'm upset.  I think I just suffer from "Me want Honeycomb" syndrome.  I will continue to fight the urges.
 
I wanna smash my girls friend.  they close but not that close.  I'm upset.  I think I just suffer from "Me want Honeycomb" syndrome.  I will continue to fight the urges.

Just do it and worry about the consequences later.
 
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1) find something in COMMON right away on approach

2) give her a genuine compliment... i love your shoes (NO) vs wow i see you here all the time at the gym, you must keep busy and are super in tune with bettering yourself (YES) or WOW your a teacher, you must be a really patient individual (YES)... u get my drift

3) be CONFIDENT... dont put her in a corner but instead introduce her (if your at a bar setting) to all your friends... and make friends with her friends


if this helps.. +rep me fellas :smokin
 
I wanna smash my girls friend.  they close but not that close.  I'm upset.  I think I just suffer from "Me want Honeycomb" syndrome.  I will continue to fight the urges.

Do it brah, and do it raw aka only way NT gets down. Where is the fun without any thrill?
 
All right guys. Be real with me. So I went on a long distance trip to date a girl. She cleared her schedule for me, said she was excited about my visit, drove me around to some pretty far places, scheduled dates around my interests, made me go on a double date with her best friend because the girl "wanted to meet me", even dropped me off at the airport. But then she was being quite distant and cautious in person aka "mixed signals" and hinted at not being over her ex. This couldn't be any clearer, right? She is not interested in me, just interested in passing the time with me.
 
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All right guys. Be real with me. So I went on a long distance trip to date a girl. She cleared her schedule for me, said she was excited about my visit, drove me around to some pretty far places, scheduled dates around my interests, made me go on a double date with her best friend because the girl "wanted to meet me", even dropped me off at the airport. But then she was being quite distant and cautious in person aka "mixed signals" and hinted at not being over her ex. This couldn't be any clearer, right? She is not interested in me, just interested in passing the time with me.
maybe you did something on the trip to put her off you... how was the interaction with the friend? Some girls value others opinions about the guy their seeing.
 
Straight to cliffs:


So my dude and this girl were on and off for about a year or two.

Lost contact w/ both of them for several months.

Ol girl is at the bar and proceeds to throw herself at me w/ no remorse, found out that she hasn't spoke to my boy in months.

She makes a move and starts making out w/ me in backseat.




I'm wondering what NT would have done after the last cliff?
 
dude...why r u putting the responsibility of respecting boundaries solely on her?.........

nvm. ..... just let her know u dont 'role' like that...i guess... ....to each their own...
 
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All right guys. Be real with me. So I went on a long distance trip to date a girl. She cleared her schedule for me, said she was excited about my visit, drove me around to some pretty far places, scheduled dates around my interests, made me go on a double date with her best friend because the girl "wanted to meet me", even dropped me off at the airport. But then she was being quite distant and cautious in person aka "mixed signals" and hinted at not being over her ex. This couldn't be any clearer, right? She is not interested in me, just interested in passing the time with me.
maybe you did something on the trip to put her off you... how was the interaction with the friend? Some girls value others opinions about the guy their seeing.

Well her friend wasn't very conversational that night because she was having some personal issues. I was a gentleman, though. It didn't matter what the friend thought, to be honest. The girl I was with was just giving bad signs from the beginning. Texting away on her phone, talking to friend more than me. The next day went better when we were alone (she put her phone away), but I still sensed that she was keeping her distance. I still made her laugh, made her smile, she kept good eye contact. I don't know, man. She doesn't know what she wants. The search continues elsewhere for me.
 
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This couldn't be any clearer, right? She is not interested in me, just interested in passing the time with me.

Exactly, you shouldn't even be asking us this Trav. I mean you got on an airplane to see this girl and she's not even your wifey? you started this thing out taking a loss. i hope you had a good trip/ mini-vacation and at least sexed her.

I'm wondering what NT would have done after the last cliff?

probably smashed if it was me, he's not your boy anymore and hasn't been for a long time.
 
All right guys. Be real with me. So I went on a long distance trip to date a girl. She cleared her schedule for me, said she was excited about my visit, drove me around to some pretty far places, scheduled dates around my interests, made me go on a double date with her best friend because the girl "wanted to meet me", even dropped me off at the airport. But then she was being quite distant and cautious in person aka "mixed signals" and hinted at not being over her ex. This couldn't be any clearer, right? She is not interested in me, just interested in passing the time with me.

she sounds like she doesn't know what she wants, I would leave her alone and stop the long distance set up you both got. Focus on other yambs and she wants to visit and kick it fine but don't put much or if any in that relationship

I warned u brahs about this long distance ish a while back
 
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