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So Damn I'm wrong for tellin her that's disrespectful?
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Maybe she was just trying to get a reaction out of you and you failed. She was trying to test if you have any feelings for her past a smash buddy. It seems like she does for you.
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In other people's eyes yes. But as someone who's been in that situation I know why you did it and how you feel and no you did the right thing. I wouldn't cut her off though just keep her in check and tell her nobody smashing but you.
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LOL "at nobody is smashing but you." You guys are FWB , she wants more, you dont. This whole situation is spiraling downward.
Once anyone catches feelings in a FWB situation, dead it right there. In your situation she'll find some other dude that doesnt mind cuffing her. At this point she wants to be cuffed.
Edit - As men we want everything, but if a girl agrees to smash NO ONE but you while you go around smashing everything that moves, she's a keeper.
Once anyone catches feelings in a FWB situation, dead it right there. In your situation she'll find some other dude that doesnt mind cuffing her. At this point she wants to be cuffed.
Edit - As men we want everything, but if a girl agrees to smash NO ONE but you while you go around smashing everything that moves, she's a keeper.
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Noooo yall takin it wrong...she can smash whover just have the respect to not do stuff in front of me especially if I'm doing a deed for you...if that's lame,simp, beta, not players then I don't know what to say
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You're not wrong for telling her its disrespectful. You're wrong for A.) Getting in ya feelings and B.) Considering cutting off fwb yambs because she was flirting with somebody.
I think that's what people are talking about.
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How did I get in my feelings? All I did was tell her she's disrespectful n she shouldn't have done that...
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because it SEEMS AS IF you cared as if she was your girl. The way you reacted SEEMS like you had feelings.
Disrespectful or not, you would have just brushed it off if you truly did not care.
Disrespectful or not, you would have just brushed it off if you truly did not care.
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Yamb patties what's your thoughts
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but check me out doe...
i said that i didnt want to know .... but trust me, i know... and that's what's keep me coldblooded... the fact that in the back of my mind, i have a feeling that this bird is getting down keeps me distant... but i try my hardest not to ever come out and say "yep... i'm gettin bishes... deal with it.."
being completely honest with someone is lack of respect to me in today's dating world... like, if you're not willing to lie somewhat to try to save face, then the lack of dambs is evident. kind of backwards thinking, but i'm messed up in the head.
sounds like you were sending her mixed messages, famb... you bugged out on her the first time, and when she went home and thought about it, she was like "hmmm.. i really do care"... and that's why she stepped to you w/ that "lets get cereal"
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Welp thats the end of me n her...she came over talked about it...i told her how I felt..she said if were just smashing why does it matter but she knows what she did was disrespectful...yea ok...I got a lil upset..I told her she is stupid as **** yea smh at me..she started crying..I asked her did she wanna stop or keep messing around...she said she wanted to go n left...but 10 min later I got a new girls number
Shell be back in my scarface voice
Shell be back in my scarface voice
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Naw bro, don't matter how nice it was sounds like its run its course. It can be tricky realizing the end of the run but 99% of FWB arrangements have an expiration date.
Take it from experience, it's usually not worth it to renew an old FWB. And stop catching feelings over a JO my man. If you dig her then make her your girl. You can't play the fence homie, thats what the skirts do
Take it from experience, it's usually not worth it to renew an old FWB. And stop catching feelings over a JO my man. If you dig her then make her your girl. You can't play the fence homie, thats what the skirts do
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I heard that
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So I run about 3 times a week along the beach/cliff in Santa Cruz. There are always a ton of cute fit chicks walking out there or running. What's my best play, fellas? I also always run with headphones in and so do most of them.
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Eye Contact/Smile. After enough times acknowledging one another's presence engage in conversation.
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Yep. It's cool if you not bout that playa pimp life but don't try to act otherwise.
Bruh got mad that he seen ol girl on another dude, which was clearly a ploy by her to get a reaction (Mission Accomplished). If you didn't care, you wouldn't have gone to pick her up or got emotional seeing ol girl with another dude.
What appears to be the case is you kinda dig ol girl, or you think too highly of yourself, so you took a blow to the ego when you saw shorty with dude.
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Confronted her about it and she pretty much immediately handled the situation... she even felt the need to show her billing record.. apparently he was just a thirsty *****
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Was she answering his calls/texts?
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What do you mean...how was I thirsty?...I never had an issue of her calling/texting me back or even getting yambs in fact I turned down yambs from her twice last week after smashing Monday n when she came over yesterday expected us to be cool n just smash...I got into my.feelings n let my ego get the best of me but im tellin yall she got upset because I declined her date or she wanted to be more than fwb's and.I didnt...and the dude who she was come to find out is her neighbor..they never did anything before but dude tried to get at this girl I talk to back at home in Cleveland.yea I know it was a setup in which my true colors showed but it is what it is...harsh words but fantastic hit it on the head...it was both in this case..I knew she is a jump but I had some feelings for her...and I've always had a lil ego issue.. like I said before...
In conclusion I played myself...but hey you live in learn
In conclusion I played myself...but hey you live in learn
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Will give this a shot.
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nah
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Just seen one of the fattest rump ever... That joint made me freeze famb... I was shocked.
made me just stare... Didn't eem speak... Smh..
made me just stare... Didn't eem speak... Smh..
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