what are you insecure about and why?

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what are you insecure about and why? Ill start...

- gained a lil weight over the summer just working and eating out alot..gotta trim up and hit the gym hard. used to be like 20 pounds lighter so i notice the weight and dont like it...
 
Communication skills. I get nervous at times and fail to get my point across in interview and corporate settings.
 
AceMaster193 said:
Communication skills. I get nervous at times and fail to get my point across in interview and corporate settings.
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man i work ina corporate setting myself....i know exactly what you mean...what worked for me during interviews and other functions where i had to speak publicly was to make sure i spoke slow and thought before i spoke...that way i could replay it in my head before i actually said it to make sure i didnt sound crazy and that i got my point across effectively.
 
My hair.. It's disappointing cause it used to be so nice. In a few years I'll look like a young, thin Louis CK lol
 
My body hair.
Im not like a gorilla or anything but i just dont like having any on me.
I got the bottles of Nair for men on lock.
 
I would have to say my 5'6" height. It bugs me at times, but I figure it could be worse, then I began to think it could be better lol.

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the huge difference between my face and the face of the girl i like. The level of hers is too high for me
 
K Town Trash said:
AceMaster193 said:
Communication skills. I get nervous at times and fail to get my point across in interview and corporate settings.
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THIS. how do i improve my communication skills?
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Honestly, as cliche as it sounds, don't care about what people think. Just be open and speak to strangers as if you were with your friends or family. This will build your confidence and your communication skills will improve.

As your confidence builds, you'll speak more clearly and loudly. Public speaking is the #1 fear people have. I used to HATE doing solo presentations for class - would get super nervous too (ones that have time minimum of 15 min + were THE WORST). I still get nervous doing long presentations, but I'm decent enough doing them now to cover up my nervousness.
 
SAlNlDllvllAlNl said:
I would have to say my 5'6" height. It bugs me at times, but I figure it could be worse, then I began to think it could be better lol.
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don't worry about your height because it's all in how you carry yourself. you just got to find that right amount of swagger. you got to find that sweetspot somewhere between too timid and too c0cky. :smokin
 
Good looks guys. Hopefully, we can all master our fears. I've had a few interviewers tell me to relax, because the nervousness was just pouring over me, even when I thought I was doing fine. I'm sure it's cost me some real good corporate internships. :smh:
 
Just weight, liek OP , i put on like 20 pounds in the past 6 months and i hate it , need to change my lifestyle 
 
semf said:
don't worry about your height because it's all in how you carry yourself. you just got to find that right amount of swagger. you got to find that sweetspot somewhere between too timid and too c0cky.
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True story. I'm 6'6 and get a LOT of attention from the womenz, but it isn't only because of my height. I'm actually a cool dude, voted one of the top 5 most popular on campus my last year in college 
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 . Humblebrag. There are a LOT of tall dudes that look ridiculous because they don't have that coolness in their DNA. Walk tall and you will be tall. The best way to stay between the too timid and too c0cky realms is to be arrogant, BUT make sure you compliment other people. Know that you are that dude, but don't hesitate to compliment somebody else on what they're doing. Show homage. Real people respect that. 
 
My social skills. I get really nervous around strangers and have to calm myself down. Sucked being the only child :smh:
 
CashusClay said:
semf said:
don't worry about your height because it's all in how you carry yourself. you just got to find that right amount of swagger. you got to find that sweetspot somewhere between too timid and too c0cky. :smokin
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True story. I'm 6'6 and get a LOT of attention from the womenz, but it isn't only because of my height. I'm actually a cool dude, voted one of the top 5 most popular on campus my last year in college :pimp:  . Humblebrag. There are a LOT of tall dudes that look ridiculous because they don't have that coolness in their DNA. Walk tall and you will be tall. The best way to stay between the too timid and too c0cky realms is to be arrogant, BUT make sure you compliment other people. Know that you are that dude, but don't hesitate to compliment somebody else on what they're doing. Show homage. Real people respect that. 
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If ur 5'5 ull forever be 5'5 unfortunately for you Lol. Growing up I had a friend who was small and would walk around sometimes on his tip toes and busting his chest out it was ridiculous
 
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