Crazy long story about how I took a pof chick to her first swingers club
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So I just moved back to NYC to finish with school and get my masters since p0rn can't make you rich like it could 10 years ago. So I been on POF casually and the other night I wanted to hit a swingers club and pretty much found a chick I was chatting with on there invited her out for drinks etc. I explained to her the situation like hey it's a BYOB swingers club so I'll get a bottle we can drink and party all night. I told her the catch like listen it's a swingers party but it's not a big orgy more like a lifestyle event. So we end up living around the corner from each other when I pick her up for the date. Now this is my first time going on a date with a black girl in almost a year or more and I always swore if I'd get back into my race of women and I was done exploring but shorty was kinda thick in her pics so I was like ehh whatever lets just see how this goes. I was expecting a simple pof smash and dash but shorty had good conversation in the whip on the way and I have a thing for Aries women not to mention she actually sounded like a good girl went to school etc. So fast forward we are pretty much hitting it off and drinking way to heavy. Mind you this is one of the craziest swinger clubs in NYC with actual hot women 25-40 so I'm like this gonna be epic well worth the $65 price tag for couples. So we go upstairs were all the action is happening and I'm explaining to her how this lifestyle works etc. she is pretty shocked to see live sex all around her lol im just chilling like this is the norm. So we end up getting a bit frisky cause pretty much at 2 am everyone is either smashing or looking for a place to smash. We had 2 couples next to us sitting going ham lol. This is were stuff starts to get foggy for me but all I can remember was her asking can she get some birthday sex and we got a private room with another couple. So I smash for about 20 mins then the lights come on and everyone has to bounce club is closed. So we are faded on the way home and I'm not gonna like she knocked out so I'm sitting there like wtf I should just take her home. However my Johnson is saying son finish what you started. So she finally wakes up I get her water and I'm like you wanna park up and chill. She agrees we go to a parking lot and smash for like 2 hours literally cars started pulling in and what not. Whole time shorty is coherent loving it even begging for it when I tried to stop. So I'm like lets get a telly she's like nah I wanna go home now. Mind you I still didn't get mine (I think I was honestly too drunk). Fast forward I drop shorty home etc. so the next day I hit her like yo my bad you missed work and she is like oh did you put something in my drink? I'm like WTF hell no. She is like oh cause I dunno I forgot mad **** about last night and I shouldn't have gave you the yams. Part of me is shook like is this chick gonna start accusing. I ran her through the whole night and she finally kinda was just like eff it I made a mistake but she was like oh we shouldn't have went to that type of environment.
Am I wrong for what went down?? Like I dunno I kinda feel bad. We are the same age and honestly if shorty was 19-23 year old I'd would have took her home. I feel like when you 25 you know when you giving up the yams and when you not. Plus she literally asked for birthday relations. She been mad spotty with the texts since then which doesn't help my guilt. I guess because I knew my chances of smashing were 70% especially from a POF chick that approached me in the first place. I called her today she picked up like who's this and was like she will call me back. Didn't.. Should I take this L or take her out on a make up date?
I would write cliff notes but I'm on my phone and this will be riddled with typos FYI
PS I'm probably gonna take another chick to a swingers club I am 3/3 with taking chicks I just met there and getting the yams. Works everytime lol