Hinge Takeover >>> Tinder, Bumble Pof

Steebie J said:
She wants to interview u and vise versa. I hate that ****. Like ******* have a list of questions to ask. Just let the conversation flow. I ask questions based on the conversation we're having.
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I mean yeah I hate it but at the same time still want to talk to her. But not on some job interview steeze.

She has the prettiest eyes I've seen on a female so I might just reply because of that.
 
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Don't think I'll ever use one of them apps again

Yeah i talk to jawns but it dont go nowhere after that. Only met up with 1

Its either they have no substance or they just end up flaking

I've always gotten my women in person out somewhere in the world anyways so it dont bother me
 
TroyD said:
Don't think I'll ever use one of them apps again

Yeah i talk to jawns but it dont go nowhere after that. Only met up with 1

Its either they have no substance or they just end up flaking

I've always gotten my women in person out somewhere in the world anyways so it dont bother me
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Currently working one right now on OKC it's hard work but persistence will break thru if your bold and keep it 100. That's why I space my messaging out so it doesn't look I'm coming off as desperate or reaching
 
sole blessed said:
Currently working one right now on OKC it's hard work but persistence will break thru if your bold and keep it 100. That's why I space my messaging out so it doesn't look I'm coming off as desperate or reaching
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Yeah these jawnz def don't want you being pushy.
Feel like you have to be an A hole for them to be interested in you. The irony.
 
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
 
some chick on bumble asked me what i got her for xmas. was the second thing she said to me after hey you. responded with the eggplant emoji and told her to come unwrap it. surprisingly it worked and she's down :lol:


JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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my man :pimp:

glad it's working out
 
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JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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My ex did this. I was getting tired of her wasting my time and almost gave up. We dated for a year and a half. Her issues extended beyond flaking, but maybe I should have taken that as a warning sign from the beginning. Wish you the best, homie.
 
sole blessed said:
Currently working one right now on OKC it's hard work but persistence will break thru if your bold and keep it 100. That's why I space my messaging out so it doesn't look I'm coming off as desperate or reaching
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I was too

I ended up stopping cause i want to move the convo off the app quick

They might say it's too early for the number or whatever

Been rough on those apps but in person I flourish so its good either way
 
TroyD said:
Don't think I'll ever use one of them apps again

Yeah i talk to jawns but it dont go nowhere after that. Only met up with 1

Its either they have no substance or they just end up flaking

I've always gotten my women in person out somewhere in the world anyways so it dont bother me
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When first started i was looking for attractive ones and getting the same results as you. I had to change my approach. Okc has the feature to search key terms. I would search terms i was interested in (ie hip hop, texas or drake). A good feature of ok is the match percentage. Girls actually take that into consideration in replying. When i searched by key terms my match rate was in the high 80s or low 90s. i met my girl by searching 2chainz, we had a 90% match and in my first message i asked if she knew 2chainz was tittyboi. First date was off the hook.
 
thenewjs23 said:
When first started i was looking for attractive ones and getting the same results as you. I had to change my approach. Okc has the feature to search key terms. I would search terms i was interested in (ie hip hop, texas or drake). A good feature of ok is the match percentage. Girls actually take that into consideration in replying. When i searched by key terms my match rate was in the high 80s or low 90s. i met my girl by searching 2chainz, we had a 90% match and in my first message i asked if she knew 2chainz was tittyboi. First date was off the hook.
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That's what's up fam! And that's why it worked out so much for you
 
Troy you could try saying, "hey do you mind texting me? *leave number* I hate messaging on this app lol" or something like that. If they hit you up you are one step closer, if they don't, don't have to worry about carrying on that convo wasting your time never getting a number. Usually works for me.
 
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Hennessy said:
Troy you could try saying, "hey do you mind texting me? *leave number* I hate messaging on this app lol" or something like that. If they hit you up you are one step closer, if they don't, don't have to worry about carrying on that convo wasting your time never getting a number. Usually works for me.
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This is what used and it worked seamlessly.
 
Hennessy said:
I couldn't sleep last night and saw I had a match on tinder at 4 am so I checked it out. Chick was someone I super liked a while ago. We actually talked for a little because both of us had napped earlier in the day so we were wired. Only problem was she was like 200+ miles away in CT, said we prolly matched while she was in DC visiting friends and family. She said that she wished we had matched while she was in DC but she still visits. I just left her my number and told her I'm not looking for a texting buddy but if she's back in town to hit me up and we could do brunch. She texts me right after "I
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DeadsetAce said:
some chick on bumble asked me what i got her for xmas. was the second thing she said to me after hey you. responded with the eggplant emoji and told her to come unwrap it. surprisingly it worked and she's down :lol:


JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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my man :pimp:

glad it's working out
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Thanks papi :pimp:

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JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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My ex did this. I was getting tired of her wasting my time and almost gave up. We dated for a year and a half. Her issues extended beyond flaking, but maybe I should have taken that as a warning sign from the beginning. Wish you the best, homie.
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we talked about it, she was really busy and just a little afraid at first. Things have been awesome and we see each other a few times a week.
 
JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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Bro Seeing This Gives Me Hope Like For Real. Good Job With Patience & Persistence It Pays Off.

Always Remember She Is Testing You By Flaking To See How You React (A Little Psychology).

Now Are You Going To React By Messaging Her Calling Her Out Rudely (To Her You Sound Desperate & And You Disqualified Yourself) or Are You Going To Finesse Your Words/Approach Better To Make Her Feel Relaxed And Interested On A Meet Up/Date
 
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JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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My ex did this. I was getting tired of her wasting my time and almost gave up. We dated for a year and a half. Her issues extended beyond flaking, but maybe I should have taken that as a warning sign from the beginning. Wish you the best, homie.
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Word. Might speak to character issues. I've dealt with flakes and they just don't seem to take other people's time/resources into consideration, just their own.

Hopefully not true for your chick though and that the early flakiness was due to reluctance with meeting a stranger from the interwebs.
 
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xwestbullyx said:
EyeSeeSoles said:
So I stopped texting one girl and she hit me up when I liked one of her IG pics. Talking about, "why are you liking my pics but not texting me?"
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I hate when chicks do that smh, lmao!
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This reminded me of a chick a met off match. She dropped her number and ig. We texted back and forth a little bit. One day I decided to call. I called and I guess she was somewhere with high traffic cause she couldn't hear me. I just hung up :lol: but I sent her a text saying call me back when u got time. I guess that time never came :lol: anyways I was browsing ig a month later...I'm hardly on there. Saw her and liked one of her pics. I promise less than 5 min later she sends me a text with only the hand waving emoji. I said wtf is this. I said hey what's up and got no response back :smh:

misskpayne is her ig. I don't eem care :lol:
 
Johnny cakes said:
 
This year has been slow for me since I got off the dating apps for a good while to get my mind right..I don't have many stories, just 2 notable ones:

DJ chick

Met on: Tinder

So I matched with this girl, she looked decent, 36 years old, she was new to Miami from Houston Texas. She had her IG linked to tinder so I took a look at it, and whoa she had 18K followers, lots of pics with celebs, she was a DJ! And she actually seemed to have a decent sized following in Houston. I laughed and figured, why not, this would should be cool. So we talk and decide to meet up, and wow, this girl was pretty cool..She knew a lot about hip hop (obviously) and we talked for hours because we had the same interests. She was a hustler, she had her own web site, had a pretty good following, mixtapes, it was like whoa this girl is on point. So she starts to really feel me more over time and the dates became more frequent. So things moved pretty quick and I end up smashing..I spoke about this story in TAY..I was not on my A game when we smashed, I was so into it (thinking in the back of my head, whoa I'm actually smashing someone semi famous) so boom...It was like someone called 911 in a white neighborhood..I was lil upset with myself, but I thought ehh whatever, I'll make it up next time..WRONG...She starts to become distant and I notice she begins to flake a lot..I become obsessed with at least trying to smash one more time, I couldn't go out like that..But she makes us actually meeting up hard to accomplish..Then she begins to meet more people, make new connections, she is on south beach almost every night, she is 36 and was in these clubs literally from Mon-Mon, I know she was trying to make connections, but still.. I would call her, she wouldn't answer, but 1 minute later she posts a pic on IG next to fabolous..I'm like whatever, she just took a pic..Then I see "Myfabolouslife" comment with a 100 emoji under the pic..I'm like, ha, that's not the real fab..I click the link, I see 2.2M followers I'm like Whoa! Wait..Is fab smashing? And over the months I see more and more celebs posting comments on her IG pics and I'm like ha, that's not the real 2chains I look at the profile 1.5M followers, I'm like whoa..Is 2 chains smashing..Needless to say, I felt inadequate because she was mingling with celebs and actually knew them, and I was just little ole me, a nice career, a nice car, but nowhere near these guys..We would go months without talking, and then she would hit me up with the random "I miss you" text, I would respond and try to have us talk again..But she would disappear again..I got tired of the games and seeing her on IG so I unfollowed her and just pretty much blocked her because I couldn't take it anymore, it was a huge ego buster. I had to get my mind right..

I will post the other story later..To be continued...
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Damn bra....your smash game was lackin at the time when she needed da yambz busted open the most.

That's Miami life for ya...the abundance mentality hit her hard that first taste of Miami nightlife and 100s of thirst groupie like males throwing D at her.

You could have been the Safaree to her, sat back quietly in the cut behind the scenes and reaped all the benefits that came with it.
 
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RC103DC said:
JohnnyRedStorm said:
Current chick I'm dating I met off tinder. She was a pain in the *** to meet up with at first. Flaked like three times :lol: but I just stuck it out with her since our convos were a lot of fun, and it's been amazing since our first date.
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My ex did this. I was getting tired of her wasting my time and almost gave up. We dated for a year and a half. Her issues extended beyond flaking, but maybe I should have taken that as a warning sign from the beginning. Wish you the best, homie.
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Word. Might speak to character issues. I've dealt with flakes and they just don't seem to take other people's time/resources into consideration, just their own.

Hopefully not true for your chick though and that the early flakiness was due to reluctance with meeting a stranger from the interwebs.
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Yeah what happened to the new posts thing?
 
I was gonna just screen shot this convo but there was a lot of profanity I didn't feel like editing out. This was from Saturday night:

Her: I think about having something more with you all the time. But why would I ever want something that's not mutual. That's dumb and just makes me sad. I've been there before and I've learned from it.
Me: I know you think I'm selfish and insensitive and a ****
Her: What's going on with you? What do you want to say?
Me: I don't know. But I'm not like that.
Her: Ok. I think that you are because when I reflect on our relationship, I see myself taking care of you and doing little things for you way more than I see you doing it for me. That's why I think that.
Me: Yeah I don't understand why you still wanna see me.
Her: I mean we have fun. I like the sex a lot.
Me: Cuz you talk mad **** about me lately lol
Her: Cuz you have been pissing me off lately. You tell me when I piss you off. Also I don't care if you're selfish and a **** and **** like that.... It doesn't really affect us hanging out and *******
Me: Damn

Then she continued getting pissed at me for a while. All this happened earlier in the night by 11 PM she had said so much messed up, hurtful stuff to me I told her, "you won't see me again." This was part of my plan to let her down easily. Slowly make her not like me at all. But I do still wanna see her for now.

Then she starts texting me again at 2 AM:

Her: Are you up?
Her: Wake up wake up
Me: I'm alseep
Her: Okay well Henn wake up
Her: Henn
Me: What?
Her: Wake up. Do you know how much I care about you?
Me: Talk to me tomorrow when you're sober
Her: Okay
Her: Henn
Me: ?
Her: Henn. Tell me. Henn I see some one else who treats me like a princess. But I want you
Me: I only see you and thought I treated you pretty well. But after earlier tonight I'm not sure we should keep seeing eachother. We'll talk later though I'm sleeping
Her: Okay. Respond to me

Then she texts me next morning saying how she saw friends she hadn't seen in mad long and got pretty drunk. "I'm sorry about yesterday. I don't want to stop seeing you yet. I don't want to fight like that, I keep my cool a lot but when I fight I go 0-100 and always say really hurtful things." She invited me out to dinner last night and we smashed after. Now she wants to come over again tonight.

I'm not mad at it. I like her and hanging out with her. But I told her this is fruitless and nothing will come of it. Although I do feel like this could get ugly, I got her hooked on the D. She's known what it is from the start. Made it abundantly clear I am not looking for a relationship righ tnow.

Also, I am totally fine with her seeing someone else who treats her like a princess while I am Tyrone. I just feel bad for the other dude if he really likes her and wants a real relationship.
 
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