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never argue with NT logic lol. 

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Originally Posted by sugafree View Post

SO lemme get this straight.......

You are getting married in 10 days and you are still worried about whats on dating sites and FB/IG thots???
You entertaining hooking up with women on Bumble and you getting married in 10 days???

Dawg...I don't judge....BUT




Got damn you are in for a world of misery getting married and tied down....
If you still have these urges and this mentality of us single guys you are not ready for what comes with marrying a woman.
You are pretty much putting your future and financial freedoms in this woman's and your state's hands.
Why are you settling down if you still wanna hook up with women on Bumble???
Shoudl'ntt you be madly in love and been had tunnel vision outiside of all this BS us single guys indulge in???
Maybe you will prove my logic wrong but I feel if you haven't been out the game when you engaged to that woman ....you damn sure just aint gonna automatically fall out of the game after you get married.

Please tell me you just trolling us....roll.gif





TRUST ME MY GUY.... IM OUT OF THE GAME...

LIKE I SAID, IM JUST PASSING TIME IN THE MEANTIME. NO BS.

I HAVENT HAD ANY SIDE ACTION IN QUITE SOMETIME... I TELL MY HOMIES ALL THE TIME, I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO TALK TO THESE CHICKENS ANYMORE... AND WHEN I DO ITS AWKWARD FOR ME. MY PHONE BARELY RINGS NOW, DM'S ARE DESERT DRY. laugh.giflaugh.gif

KINDA LIKE ONE OF THOSE, "LEMME SEE IF I STILL GOT IT" TYPE THINGS.... AND I DEFINITELY DONT roll.gifroll.gif
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Originally Posted by PedroCerrano View Post
 
Good hint of advice there. I have to look into it because I just turned 33 and I'm beyond desperate at this point. Part of the problem with me is I have no clue where to go? Latin America is out of the question because being Mexican and Salvadorian, I can tell you both cultures are ultra racist and seek the lighter skinned, colored eye guys which I am not. I also dont want to go anywhere I'm just going to be used for a green card


Why desperate?

 

You're 33yo. You haven't even hit your peak yet.

 

Continue to flourish with your career, pursue your hobbies, and go out into the world.

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Why desperate?

You're 33yo. You haven't even hit your peak yet.

Continue to flourish with your career, pursue your hobbies, and go out into the world.

It has to be the fact that I've never really had any lucky with women. The few that I've gotten close to have friendzoned me and I just feel like this is the one thing I've failed in life. I mean, as hard as I try to get the attention of women, they just pass me by like a bologne sandwich with no mayo
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@PedroCerrano I feel ya. I have had two long term relationships, been with an amount of people I can count on one hand (cue the sophomoric humor). But you cannot measure your own "success" by what others do. You have to gauge for yourself, and ultimately, in all these interactions, did you learn anything? What to and not to say, how to go about things differently, etc. 

 

Plus it only takes the one person to see you for more than others do, so worry about improving yourself and others will take notice.

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@PedroCerrano
 I feel ya. I have had two long term relationships, been with an amount of people I can count on one hand (cue the sophomoric humor). But you cannot measure your own "success" by what others do. You have to gauge for yourself, and ultimately, in all these interactions, did you learn anything? What to and not to say, how to go about things differently, etc. 

Plus it only takes the one person to see you for more than others do, so worry about improving yourself and others will take notice.

Yeah... You know what? I have learned things about those failures. The first being not giving everything to someone until they truly show they're worth it. I've learned not to try wooo someone and avoid being the "simp" I was being. But at times I feel like I'm just more and more jaded when I look at women. It's weird. I see women and I'm already judging then negatively, almost as a way to make myself feel better for her not liking me or giving me her attention. I will say I was a bit bigger a few years ago. I went from being 280 down to 245 and hitting the weights everyday. And ultimately, it's the being ignored by women that keeps me going to the gym. It's hard trying to be less of a "simp" when you're a big guy because now the vibe I've gotten when I've asked a few random girls is that I come off as "intimidating" and I don't know wtf that even means.
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Why desperate?

You're 33yo. You haven't even hit your peak yet.

Continue to flourish with your career, pursue your hobbies, and go out into the world.

It has to be the fact that I've never really had any lucky with women. The few that I've gotten close to have friendzoned me and I just feel like this is the one thing I've failed in life. I mean, as hard as I try to get the attention of women, they just pass me by like a bologne sandwich with no mayo

 

Wrong approach in that you're probably coming off desperate / try-hard.

 

Just do your own thing, talk to people, and always have the mindset that you're the prize.

 

Chase your passions, not the birds. The birds will come when you're living well.

 

There's nothing more delicious than @PedroCerrano being indifferent, cool, and spreading positive vibes. Life is contagious, so live it well.

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I had a POF account I forgot I had from back in the day. Saw spam email and put some new picks up just for ***** and giggles about 6 months before I got married.

It was cool to still pull em but those Dm conversations actually made me happy I was getting married.
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Yeah... You know what? I have learned things about those failures. The first being not giving everything to someone until they truly show they're worth it. I've learned not to try wooo someone and avoid being the "simp" I was being. But at times I feel like I'm just more and more jaded when I look at women. It's weird. I see women and I'm already judging then negatively, almost as a way to make myself feel better for her not liking me or giving me her attention. I will say I was a bit bigger a few years ago. I went from being 280 down to 245 and hitting the weights everyday. And ultimately, it's the being ignored by women that keeps me going to the gym. It's hard trying to be less of a "simp" when you're a big guy because now the vibe I've gotten when I've asked a few random girls is that I come off as "intimidating" and I don't know wtf that even means.

Yeah, when I went through my break up 3 years ago, my first thought was "change to get them back." After awhile, I realized, I needed to change for me. After that I was much happier, it wasn't some albatross around my neck. 

 

I think you have the right idea as far as "self improvement". I don't want to seem like I am judging but now you gotta work on the way you view the women you interact with. Getting slighted definitely causes the jadedness to creep in, but you gotta fight that. It creates a poisonous mindset and it may not harm short term, but long term, it will really screw you over. 

 

Good luck man, we all have our challenges. 

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Originally Posted by Slighted View Post

Wrong approach in that you're probably coming off desperate / try-hard.

Just do your own thing, talk to people, and always have the mindset that you're the prize.

Chase your passions, not the birds. The birds will come when you're living well.

There's nothing more delicious than @PedroCerrano
being indifferent, cool, and spreading positive vibes. Life is contagious, so live it well.

I see what you mean but I feel like I've been doing that for about a year now and still nothing. I hate being so damn desperate about this but it just feels like whatever I try, I end up with the same results which is nada
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Yeah, when I went through my break up 3 years ago, my first thought was "change to get them back." After awhile, I realized, I needed to change for me. After that I was much happier, it wasn't some albatross around my neck. 

I think you have the right idea as far as "self improvement". I don't want to seem like I am judging but now you gotta work on the way you view the women you interact with. Getting slighted definitely causes the jadedness to creep in, but you gotta fight that. It creates a poisonous mindset and it may not harm short term, but long term, it will really screw you over. 

Good luck man, we all have our challenges. 

Thanks for the good advice and this really is like an addiction for me. I'm good for about a week and then, bam, I lash out for lack of results and I'm back to square one. I just don't get how it's so easy for most guys to approach women and get results but not for me? I've always been able to get along with all sorts of people but women, specially attractive women, I sorta feel like I hate them for not liking me, for making it hard for guys like me, for having it easier in life than me. It's literally eating me inside
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Imma wrap up POF in a nutshell
 
Unfortunately in this new society alot of women can only offer you sex as thier best quality.
When I was on POF I bluntly told women this....after they complain to me that men only want sex.
I would always confront them about thier bland..shallow lame profiles...and just overall conversation.
WTF else would a man see in you if all you have are booty/selfie/snapchat flower crown/dog ear pics
and your profile says stuff like.....
 
Juss Ask....
Follow me at IG:XYZ
Snapchat: XYZ
I wanna be spoiled
I like to spoil my man(She is broke and has not a pot to piss in...by that she means her best attribute is great head and box and if you stick around long enough for tax return season she'll buy you some Js)
Lookin for Zaddy
My friend made this account for me(I mean really how lame do you have to be to say that??)
Im juss lookin
Looking to chat only(Married or in a relationship...shes seeking someone for just validation and attention online)
Im not here for sex or dating(Well why the **** are you wasting your time and other peoples on a DATING SITE?)
Lookin for my king(These are the stalker psychos..they are very passionate and fall in love instantly..be careful with these)
OMG tired of players and liars don't contact me if you are married or closet gay or have STDs( WTF??? So you pretty much telling us you slept with bisexual men and possible have STDs?? Thanks for the obvious warning ya dummy)
 
The majority of my inbox messages were
 
Hey There(heart eyes emoji)
Hey Cutie
Hey Lightskin(Lame color struck chicks)
Hi!
Hey!
You so fine!
You are handsome!
You cute!
 
As you can see from those openers women have no game..because by design its not in them to need it,
so when they see they may have to make the first move to get your attention its short of these types of openers.
Women fear rejection far more than men....so with these short openers it makes her feel better that she doesn't look like a desperate fool
if you reject her with "Nope not interested" 
 
As for when you meet the women.....
 
Within an hour of meeting you already get all the signs and vibes she isn't even close to the woman
she was portraying herself as online when yall were chatting or on the phone. Shes pretty much the shallow
lame cookie cutter mentality of that particular area. You also notice how much more attractive those magic physical enhanced photos
made her.
At the end of the date she goes through her mental conflicts of continuing to be a *** and give you the box or
to withhold in hopes she can raise her value in your eyes by not having sex that night.
 
A. You get the box at the end of the night...then she gets very distant because she knows she messed up
any perception of you seeing her as not being a ***.
She lays there pondering...whether she just ruined her impression with you and if she is gonna hear from you the next day.
 
B. She decides to not have sex and you two go about your merry way afterwards..and she texts you when she's home about 
she hopes you aren't mad at her for wanting to wait and she wants to continue to see her.
What you don't know is she already has a previous guy she was dating to call over and get the yambs off the late night with no strings attached.
Meanwhile she's telling you how shes soo horny and hasnt had any in months and if you stick around long enough you gonna get it so good.
The night you get sex from her is when she finally cuts off the other guy for good.
 
Times goes by after a couple months of sex and dating and booty calls you two even agree to be exclusive to one another and delete POF accounts.
Then after a while the chemistry starts to become stale between you two...
Shes growing distant...shes texting you less...shes all of a sudden busy and going through some stuff.
So your connection turns into random booty calls and texts...
YOU ARE NOW BECOMING THE BOOTY CALL GUY SHE WAS SEEING BEFORE WHILE MAKING YOU WAIT!!!  
Its starting to fade off...one day you get a scorned text of despair from her...asking exactly where are you two going with this?
At this point it doesn't matter...its pretty much over between you two but she subconsciously just wants to make it a one sided departure on your fault.
 
The little mini connection ends between you two in confusion and akward distant communications and....back to square one.
You are back on POF scrolling through profiles and boom you see her profile pop back up.
All shined up nice and bright with new pics and ready to repeat the process with another man once again portraying herself as that bright smart interesting woman to sweep a man off his feet.
THE END!
 
Sincerely, 
THE BOOTY CALL GUY SHE IS SEEING WHILE MAKING YOU WAIT!

Edited by sugafree - 4/21/17 at 3:33pm
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Sugafree a cool dude i mess with him
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Sugarfree out here spittin facts.
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Just BAGGED A SINGLE MOM on there this morning... she's on her way  to the city now... 2.5 hour drive and she's not a whale so thats that..  she said she hasnt had time to do anything being a single mom and she just wants to get loose.. 

 

she said she's a squirter and is an hour away from my job atm.... i'll let you guys know how this goes tomorrow.. 

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Just BAGGED A SINGLE MOM on there this morning... she's on her way  to the city now... 2.5 hour drive and she's not a whale so thats that..  she said she hasnt had time to do anything being a single mom and she just wants to get loose.. 

she said she's a squirter and is an hour away from my job atm.... i'll let you guys know how this goes tomorrow.. 


Pics would do this justice
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Just turned 33 on the 11th.roll.gif

Yall notice women our age and even older still haven't matured into grown women???
They be the main ones showing out for social media.....like WTF we were actually around before internet.
How do you still lack social skills and qualities of pre internet age folks???
Then at that they have children and still act like children themselves.
Were our parents the last ones to actually act thier age at 30+???

Its like a horrible epidemic....why are 30+ year old women still claiming to be bad  5 star******* and rocking snapchat filter flower crowns and dog ears???
WTF is going on? I take it this is the age where a woman does everything younger women do to still feel young?

You know what else is down right depressing???
When you meet a chick online and you go to her house then you see her older college grad pics and you are like damn....Why can't I have the sexy slender chick you used to be in those pics??? I be feeling cheated as hell man.....

I see why guys date younger the older they get but damn....its not like a career successful mature intelligent man can really connect with them mentally either.
 I swear we are in purgatory


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I've been dabbling with pof for a little (have a girl which will be probably done in a few months so looking out of state) and wow...This reminds me of what I have to look forward to with online dating smh I definitely didn't miss this
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I remember when I was on a couple would hit me up from out of town just to chat. Didn't engage after that.
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Repped for spitting absolute truth. :Nthat

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That's the 100% play by play truth and I'm glad that's a distant memory now laugh.gif
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Made laugh because I browsed my home area because I might be moving back and saw all these chicks with the flower crown puppy face filter now and "just ask". laugh.gif what the hell. Dull ***** how about just tell, that's what your profile is for.
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Made laugh because I browsed my home area because I might be moving back and saw all these chicks with the flower crown puppy face filter now and "just ask". laugh.gif what the hell. Dull ***** how about just tell, that's what your profile is for.

Man, there's so many dudes that just lust over a face, most of those broads don't even try anymore. The thirsty ****** have ****** the market up. But it's still not hard to win out here if you ain't a sucka.

Just gotta swerve that basic ********.

Gotdamn, sugafree hit everything on the head laugh.gif
Those profiles that are essentially to promote their ig/SC are the worst lmao
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why dont nobody **** wit soul swipe?

my **** hittin out here in DC

i wish it was like this back home

and im matchin decent to baddie types
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why dont nobody **** wit soul swipe?

my **** hittin out here in DC

i wish it was like this back home

and im matchin decent to baddie types

I don't **** with black chicks in the DMV. Every-time I try it's been an disaster.
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why dont nobody **** wit soul swipe?

my **** hittin out here in DC

i wish it was like this back home

and im matchin decent to baddie types

It's dry af up here
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I thought squirting is just peeing ?

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