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how many back and forth messages before you wanna meat?
i dont like chatting back and forth and when the chick is just looking for a chat buddy or hesitant to responding to hanging out, i usually just give up. >D
 
DMan14 said:
how many back and forth messages before you wanna meat?
i dont like chatting back and forth and when the chick is just looking for a chat buddy or hesitant to responding to hanging out, i usually just give up. >D
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Around a dozen through the website, after that you make a decision on whether to meat her or not, which depends on the distance, that's when I give my # or ask for hers. Text a little bit and see if she'll meet up for drinks, or coffee if you're un-sure about her weight/appearance :lol:

Met a cute a girl off tinder few weeks ago, got her #, we texted for a little bit and I was trying to meet up with her for lunch, drinks or w/e, she played the busy card and I deaded it.

We live 1 mile from each other, literally.... :x :smh: :smh:
 
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Depends on the girl, but for the most part, you want to get the # and start moving the convo to texts/calls ASAP. The main reason being once you have the #, you're competing with 2-3 other dudes max, whereas if you're messaging she has to sift through tons of messages to get to your replies. Even if she's feeling you, there are a whole lot of distractions when you're just messaging.

And once you get the #, a meetup needs to happen within a few days unless y'all both working during the weekday and it's Monday.
 
DMan14 said:
how many back and forth messages before you wanna meat?
i dont like chatting back and forth and when the chick is just looking for a chat buddy or hesitant to responding to hanging out, i usually just give up. >D
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I came across a chick's profile who said she was "strictly looking for a texting buddy and nothing more". I pasted that Jordan laughing gif in her message and went on my way
 
Executive76 said:
Man Tagged is a WEIRD place...filled with Catfish and chicks who treat it like Myspace uploading 100+ pictures,backgrounds and ****.

I was successful with the one chick I met off there but that place is crazy not as bad as datehookup though
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makes you wonder if some of these sites are involved in a propaganda/bounty program on the low
 
Peep Game said:
DMan14 said:
how many back and forth messages before you wanna meat?
i dont like chatting back and forth and when the chick is just looking for a chat buddy or hesitant to responding to hanging out, i usually just give up. >D
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I came across a chick's profile who said she was "strictly looking for a texting buddy and nothing more". I pasted that Jordan laughing gif in her message and went on my way
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:lol: :lol:





girlslovewaffles said:
Depends on the girl, but for the most part, you want to get the # and start moving the convo to texts/calls ASAP. The main reason being once you have the #, you're competing with 2-3 other dudes max, whereas if you're messaging she has to sift through tons of messages to get to your replies. Even if she's feeling you, there are a whole lot of distractions when you're just messaging.

And once you get the #, a meetup needs to happen within a few days unless y'all both working during the weekday and it's Monday.
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this
 
girlslovewaffles said:
Depends on the girl, but for the most part, you want to get the # and start moving the convo to texts/calls ASAP. The main reason being once you have the #, you're competing with 2-3 other dudes max, whereas if you're messaging she has to sift through tons of messages to get to your replies. Even if she's feeling you, there are a whole lot of distractions when you're just messaging.

And once you get the #, a meetup needs to happen within a few days unless y'all both working during the weekday and it's Monday.
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thought u was dirty for a second. had to double look.
 
CliffordSmith said:
girlslovewaffles said:
Depends on the girl, but for the most part, you want to get the # and start moving the convo to texts/calls ASAP. The main reason being once you have the #, you're competing with 2-3 other dudes max, whereas if you're messaging she has to sift through tons of messages to get to your replies. Even if she's feeling you, there are a whole lot of distractions when you're just messaging.


And once you get the #, a meetup needs to happen within a few days unless y'all both working during the weekday and it's Monday.
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thought u was dirty for a second. had to double look.
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I changed my avy a couple weeks ago :lol:
 
Ayo just got back from a match.com date

Shh was flawless, she's a financial planner downtown. I expected her to be a 7/10, she was was an 8 or 9. I came to the spot three beers deep, had another two and reached that zone where she laughed at everything. She's 26 and I'm 25, perfect.

At the same time, last night I had a girl from OkCupid trying to get in my drawers ASAP, it was a little too forward, hit my warning signal and backed off. Might still smash on Sunday though.

From my experience

Okcupid/POF - good for hookups

Match.com - good for relationships/better chance of reply because people are paying for it

Tinder - definitely hottest girls but lowest chance of reply/actual meet up
 
sonunox34 said:
Ayo just got back from a match.com date

Shh was flawless, she's a financial planner downtown. I expected her to be a 7/10, she was was an 8 or 9. I came to the spot three beers deep, had another two and reached that zone where she laughed at everything. She's 26 and I'm 25, perfect.

At the same time, last night I had a girl from OkCupid trying to get in my drawers ASAP, it was a little too forward, hit my warning signal and backed off. Might still smash on Sunday though.

From my experience

Okcupid/POF - good for hookups

Match.com - good for relationships/better chance of reply because people are paying for it

Tinder - definitely hottest girls but lowest chance of reply/actual meet up
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Pics of your date doe :nerd:
 
Joepac12 said:
So u pay for match .com
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Yeah I think its about $20/month. I was drunk when I signed up, saw the charges the next morning. I've been on two dates in a month, though, one with a 7 and one with an 8-9. It's better for when you're out of college, if you're college age or younger I'd just spit game on Tinder.
 
Match got some dimes. I don't see any of the females on there on pof or okcupid. Might take a stab at it.
 
sonunox34 said:
Ayo just got back from a match.com date

Shh was flawless, she's a financial planner downtown. I expected her to be a 7/10, she was was an 8 or 9. I came to the spot three beers deep, had another two and reached that zone where she laughed at everything. She's 26 and I'm 25, perfect.
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So... that's all? You built it up, then it just turned into a flatline :lol:
 
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