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You're not lying at all
I switch to different cities see what's up, differences between Utah/Wyoming/South-North Dakota vs any regular major city is 
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You're not lying at all
I switch to different cities see what's up, differences between Utah/Wyoming/South-North Dakota vs any regular major city is :x
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it really depends what your looking for and what messages you send these broads... sometimes a simple hi gets ignored because they get mad messages a day and only reply to a few... and as far as the girls if your picky then it will be tough to find that dime piece because mad people are hitting her up so the competition is tight... but if you dont get care how the girls look like then its pretty easy to bag a chick... ONLY the beasts hit me up but im not going to rely just on online dating im a try to bag chicks in real life because it seems best to do it that way... only if i had game though 
but im not going to rely just on online dating im a try to bag chicks in real life because it seems best to do it that way... only if i had game though
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You're not lying at all
Every time I see someone complaining about lack of success, specifically with non black chicks I'm like "it's light work for me" then I remind myself not everyone lives in a place like LA
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Don't really know if it was me or if she probably had 100 dudes she was messaging....she's a greek girl so... I didn't have high expectations
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I'm gonna upload a few new pics (shirtless
) , filled out my profile a lil more too, see if I can get some better results. Going out Saturday night anyway....
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Anyone know how to make tinder not mess up the quality of my pics?, same pics as I have on okc and it's fine there.
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I hate chics who have a picture of other dudes in their pics.
This is all I got on my profile, simple, works for me. I joke about whales and ooglies mooglies all the time but I get some work from good lookin' women too, even plenty hit me up first like this thirsty *** message I just got, she looks better in her other pics and sounding like she's dtf asap. I was going to take the story off about the flowers and getting dissed but chics like it, sometimes it's the first thing they ask me about. I should rewrite it though, kind of a long sentence.
This is all I got on my profile, simple, works for me. I joke about whales and ooglies mooglies all the time but I get some work from good lookin' women too, even plenty hit me up first like this thirsty *** message I just got, she looks better in her other pics and sounding like she's dtf asap. I was going to take the story off about the flowers and getting dissed but chics like it, sometimes it's the first thing they ask me about. I should rewrite it though, kind of a long sentence.
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I did make a small mistake, I didn't realize until like yesterday that the guy in the pic was actually in my major, we had a few classes together, I never knew the guy, except for his name
but that could of been a better opener..
water under the bridge
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Lose the hi, hello, how are you doing etc. And most importantly lose that "hahaha" 
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
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That's just Tinder being Tinder. A huge flaw in the app imo. Can kill the quality of a hi-res image you had on Facebook.
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Lose the hi, hello, how are you doing etc. And most importantly lose that "hahaha"
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
What's a good opener then?
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Lose the hi, hello, how are you doing etc. And most importantly lose that "hahaha"
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
Good idea, thanks.
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I really hope that girl pulled the trigger
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Wow at "looking for someone to french." By French she means be involved a murder-suicide with her and come up missing. No thanks. Just had a flurry of activity, 4 new chics all hit me up around the same time. Weird, usually happens closer to a weekend but 4 nice ones on a Monday I'm like wtf. 2 are already booked, probably could have told her bring her *** over now and she'd be down but I'll wait til the weekend. Tryna get at this Romanian chic, said she was previously married, hit me up, so she was probably married to a brutha, servicemen.
Also, don't sleep on the Glide app. It's just a video messaging app but once you get the number but before you smash or wife, nice little in between having them send you custom video messages all the time. Never got a chic to send me noodz or anything but she'll send me video messages in the morning, at work, and all throughout the day it's nice to see her as opposed to just reading them on the screen.
Also, don't sleep on the Glide app. It's just a video messaging app but once you get the number but before you smash or wife, nice little in between having them send you custom video messages all the time. Never got a chic to send me noodz or anything but she'll send me video messages in the morning, at work, and all throughout the day it's nice to see her as opposed to just reading them on the screen.
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Lose the hi, hello, how are you doing etc. And most importantly lose that "hahaha"
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
On Tinder after you match it really doesn't matter what you say IMO. I almost always open with the generic how are you and I almost always get responses. I mean they've already decided they're attracted to me. After that it's about getting to the meet up quickly
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Lose the hi, hello, how are you doing etc. And most importantly lose that "hahaha"
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
On Tinder after you match it really doesn't matter what you say IMO. I almost always open with the generic how are you and I almost always get responses. I mean they've already decided they're attracted to me. After that it's about getting to the meet up quickly
For the record getting a match means NOTHING. Just like meet me on POF or a chick rating you 4/5 stars on OKC
I'm speaking from what can work for everyone not just individuals. Some have more wiggle room than others but it's best to get in and get out like a robbery
The small talk gives time for her to lose interest/get distracted...cut to the chase as fast as possible without coming off desperate.
Oprah has all that wealth and business knowledge with no one to pass it directly too
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Lose the hi, hello, how are you doing etc. And most importantly lose that "hahaha"
If you're gonna use that line let it be the first message.
On Tinder after you match it really doesn't matter what you say IMO. I almost always open with the generic how are you and I almost always get responses. I mean they've already decided they're attracted to me. After that it's about getting to the meet up quickly
For the record getting a match means NOTHING. Just like meet me on POF or a chick rating you 4/5 stars on OKC
I'm speaking from what can work for everyone not just individuals. Some have more wiggle room than others but it's best to get in and get out like a robbery
The small talk gives time for her to lose interest/get distracted...cut to the chase as fast as possible without coming off desperate.
Oprah has all that wealth and business knowledge with no one to pass it directly too
I completely disagree that getting a match on Tinder means nothing. I've talked to females about it and most only swipe right on guys they're truly attracted to/interested in
I think people overstate the importance of what is actually said. If a girl wants you to smash it doesn't matter what you say as long as you're not weird/creepy
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I know it's hard for dudes to comprehend at times but like I said before what works for you may not work for everyone else.
If it did they wouldn't be frustrated with their lack of success.
If it did they wouldn't be frustrated with their lack of success.
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The mistake earlier on the page wasn't in the first message though as he got a response
It was later on
I just think people overcomplicate and overthink things and that's the biggest problem I see on here and in TAY.
It's not like I'm the only one who has success with the simple straightforward approach
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The most important thing to take away from OKC, POF, Tinder, etc, is that it ain't THAT serious.
Even if you're 0 for 200. Maybe online dating just isn't your thing. Not necessary to start thinking you're ugly, unattractive, lame, etc.
Even if you're 0 for 200. Maybe online dating just isn't your thing. Not necessary to start thinking you're ugly, unattractive, lame, etc.
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Exactly.
I always keep that positive attitude, not just about dating, but life. When I apply for a job and get turned down, keep it moving. If a girl ain't reply, my intent is/was pure...keep it moving.
If you never take that jumper, you're not going to get any points at all. If you try to take it, you may miss, but you may also make it. Any percentage is better than 0%.
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This isnt about you, me or anyone not having difficulty. I was trying to give some assistance. You're over complicating things by taking what I said way too literally. Give the man some pointers or shut up.
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Question about Tinder: how is it that sometimes I see a girl matches up with me and it says she hasn't been active for days?
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The simple, straightforward approach, IMO, is the most consistently successful but ONLY if you are above-average in terms of physical attractiveness.
