Am I in the wrong? Upset g/fs family on Christmas....

The iPhone thing may have been about pride. Some people refuse to take free handouts because they would feel lesser if they did. I'm that way about some things.

This was 3 months ago and her mom was supposed to pay to get her phone fixed and it still hasn't happened lol
 
The iPhone thing may have been about pride. Some people refuse to take free handouts because they would feel lesser if they did. I'm that way about some things.

This was 3 months ago and her mom was supposed to pay to get her phone fixed and it still hasn't happened lol

3 months ago or not the woman must have some strong pride going on. I would refuse a free iPhone from someone too. To her it probably looked like this

You; Damn that's a shi**y iPhone. You should get that fixed
Her: Yeah I dropped it a few times I'm getting it fixed soon
you: Well, I'm getting a better iPhone than mine and yours, do you want this one?


It looks %1000 different to you though.

Oh well :lol:
 
Yeah, it's barely been a full 24 hours since the incident . . . she definitely would have hit you up on her own by Saturday . . .​

EDIT: Was you really expecting her to cuss out her mom over a movie . . . She prolly got mad at you for taking the shots at her sister, but moreso causing a scene and probably ruining Christmas in that house . . . Did you think about the hell your girl might have gotten from her mom/family because of what you did?


"This is the type of man you bring me"​

I guarantee your mom told her something to that effect . . . it's less of a situation of her "having your back", but moreso creating as little conflict as possible . . . dudes so scared of being "beta" or feeling slighted these day​
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Ya shoulda just chilled and said "We have a movie to catch, I really hope to see you some other time." and dipped with nothing more said. She might have felt left short, but she definitely would not have felt disrespected as she and her family does now​

good point

if their relationship is already bad you didn't help by coming into their house and trying to tell them about themselves...

its not always easy standing up to your parents even when they are in the wrong and you didnt help the situation by going off on her fam...
 
Hm. I think you could've toned it down. All you had to say was that you and your then gf had plans and that moving them to tomorrow wouldn't be doable because you had work. If she still insisted, stand your ground and politely leave. Better luck next time. (PS that mom sounds like trouble so you may have actually escaped a bad situation. You won OP.)
 
Hm. I think you could've toned it down. All you had to say was that you and your then gf had plans and that moving them to tomorrow wouldn't be doable because you had work. If she still insisted, stand your ground and politely leave. Better luck next time. (PS that mom sounds like trouble so you may have actually escaped a bad situation. You won OP.)


seriously like this thread is over. At this point the fam will never accept you so if it ain't this , it's gonna be something else


How old is she letting her fam dictate who she gonna date??
 
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She's 22.

My supervisor at work told me that when (if) she hits me up again.... I need to B my L in her A and then tell her to never talk to me again and proceed to walk out :rofl:

I know damn well though I was the best she ever had in multiple ways. My confidence game aint ALL that but I've seen who else she's been with. And on multiple occasions after hitting it, she said nobody has ever made her feel the way I do in bed, and based on the reaction at the time... that was real. Already know based on her confidence issues she's gonna downgrade so honestly it's her loss. I feel a hell of a lot better now than I did on Tuesday/Wednesday.
 
:smh: Gotta throw her biz in the streets like that :smh:

You know damb well the NT Detectives are on that right now :lol:
 
In my opinion ... you should have just stayed a few hours. Its not like the movie is leaving the theater anytime soon. I agree with you that it was BS for her mom to ask you to stay longer even when she wasn't hanging with you but what you got to understand is that is her family. One of the things you never do is try to come between a girl and her family.

Think about it... you put her in a situation were she has to chose her family over you and even if she did. That would create hell for her because you said she already has problems with them as it is. Plus God knows what she would have to go through if she still lived with them.

You got to look at it like this tho... This is actually a good thing because judging by the way you describe her family and her relationship with them she is probably not a girl you would want to be with in the long run anyway. Because you best believe her family drama would definitely spill into your relationship with her and then they would become a problem for you. So basically i think its a good thing this happened because you dodged a bullet.

Also don't email next time I would recommend you call and if she does not answer just leave a voice mail.
 
From the mom's point of view, you were disrespectful. You didn't have to state to her that about her not being around after you sacrificed your time.

She wasn't respectful of your time, but don't tell her that to her face. Oh well, lesson learned. Just let go OP. If you really want your ex gf back. Don't contact her or reply back to her texts or calls for about a month minimum. Even after that time span, don't initiate the contact.
 
 
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