Man my life has been turned upside down... I never really post much about my personal life but i need to vent and i just don't care anymore. My girl has been acting shady, sure go ahead stop reading there, the thing is i overlooked the random days of her acting miserable and just not up for anything. I have been with here for about 8 years and we have a 6 year old son. I guess i looked past all this because i wanted my son to have that family structure i never had...
So last week she was out til 6am no call or text. Supposed out with her friends... Well yesterday i had her drop the baby off at day care adn then she told me work didn't need her and that she was going to the beach with her female friend. Fast forward to 9 pm i get a text from said friend saying that when my girl isn't around to call her. at that point i knew it was going down. I called her friend and she told me she had my son since 10 and that my fiance would be out of work by 7 but its now 9 and she isn't picking up her phone or answering. It hit me, i almost couldn't finish work, i wanted to cry right there. i finished work got my son and texted the *****
"it's over, thanks for cheating on me".
33 mins past and she texts me
"what do you mean"
So i call and she doesnt pick up then i text
me:"Call me without that ***** from work" (of course cheated with a guy from work)
me:"double check you can move in with him first"
Her: "whatever Phillip(my name)"
her:" I'll drop off the car to you"
At this time i got the baby and moved him to my moms, We'll call the ***** J from this point. J doesn't care to have confrontation.
All in text cause J wouldn't speak to me on the phone.
me"can't call me and talk. K get baby first"
her"if u want i'll get my stuff... its up to you"
me"get the baby then your things leave me my ring bracelet bag and keys"
Some conversation like this continues... Its not 10:30 pm and this ***** still thinks my son is at her friends house. 12 hours leaving him there in her mind and not 1 damn given. Finally her friend gets her to come "get my son" by telling her that if she doesn't get him she will drop him off at the police station.
She got there was talking with her two friends which were upset because she has been lying to them too. and then i walked out and said give me my keys. Little Info, i suspicions so i left the cars under my name the house under my name, and i pay all the important bills.
I took the keys and then i said give me my purse that i bought u for christmas back (she was wearing it,", told her "you can have that ***** from your work buy you one, when her is giving you a "better" life." She left some **** in the purse, i said take it she said she didn't want it so i dropped it on the floor and said someone may want it then.
so i'm hurt, and i wanted to let that ***** know... although her friends were there i told her straight up
me"thanks for ruining the family"
me"What are we going to do with our son, visitation"
her" i dont know, i didn't **** him"
all me: "your lying to your friends, your lying to me, your out till 6 am with this guy after you drop your friend off at 3 am, you've left your son here all day while your out ******g this other guy"
"Call that guy and see if you can stay with him because your not staying with me"
"You can get your **** later, don't bring that ***** from work near my house or he can get it. And your brother come at me he can get it too idgaf.
(both her parents been dead her grandma is about 80ish and starting to decline)U know you if you would have told me earlier maybe a couple years ago you would possibly be able to marry the next person, and maybe your grandma would be alive to watch you walk down the alter, hopefully the next guy doesn't cheat and you may get that chance"
and by the way i know about you mom (she had issues either schizophrenia or bipolar, i know it skips a generation and i've been keeping an eye on my son) i won't say it here but i know **** you never told me.
So **** you and **** that ***** chris too,
this is the side you never saw of me *****,
and drove off.
Her friend called and asked if she can take some clothes, and that she was staying there... i guess she blocked me and my friends on facebook or she deleted it. I called her brothers wife and told her word for word what i said and if he has issues he knows where im at.
So why am i at a low point. We live in south florida but her fam is in tampa. She may move back and i don't want to lose my son. My mom said she will step up to help out but i may just rent this house out live with my mom and get a 9-5 job so i can be with my son. He's my life, and i don't mind her seeing him but she isn't a good parent and he needs me more than ever... school starts monday for me and my head is just not in it...
Beasts please google and post your own pics, i really don't feel like looking at woman or dealing with trifling females. yea i'm jaded
Edited by desent - 1/4/13 at 3:00pm