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So an update about my son pooping in the toilet,

After I asked for advice on here, I guess it clicked in my sons head (he's 2.5 years old). He pooped in the toilet and I told my girl as soon as he does it we have to give him a big reward to relay appreaciation to him so he gets it. We made him feel good by giving him stamps on his hand and we took a trip to target and toys r us and got him what he's been asking for (buzz light years blaster gun). So now he poops in the toilet when he needs to and he progressed to telling us when he needs to. I guess part of it all was us being impatient with him. Cause we just didn't want him pooping in his underwear anymore.

That's major. Congrats! Don't be too hard on the kid when he decides one day whatever he's playing with is too important to stop and has an accident. Happened plenty of times with my son.
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Man my lil boy is a line pusher.

Hes been staying up later and later everyday.

Hes 17 months, acting like hes in his terrible twos.

Tonight, he wouldn't go to sleep after 3 consecutive days of staying up late, waking up early and no naps.

Lil vato was crying his *** off like if he was hurt, but only wants me to hold him and not his mom. Tried to comfort her on why he wants me but she aint feelin it.

Any advice to get him to sleep early and have the wife feeling better?
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Are you guys taking him out?
is he home all day?
does he nap alot during the day?


We never had this issue with our daughter. We would turn off all the lights when she would sleep with us and got her to understand that its bed time when the lights are off. Just get him into a routine that will have him asleep by 7-8pm.
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Man my lil boy is a line pusher.

Hes been staying up later and later everyday.

Hes 17 months, acting like hes in his terrible twos.

Tonight, he wouldn't go to sleep after 3 consecutive days of staying up late, waking up early and no naps.

Lil vato was crying his *** off like if he was hurt, but only wants me to hold him and not his mom. Tried to comfort her on why he wants me but she aint feelin it.

Any advice to get him to sleep early and have the wife feeling better?

 

For getting him asleep, if he's not already getting plenty of physical play time try to find an activity for him to do that requires him to move/run around. He's gotta get that play out

 

As far as wifey goes she has to understand that it's not an attack or lack of love but just a phase. You really can't tell her that straight up cause she might take offense to it so I'd just try to subtly get your son to give mama stuff, doesn't have to be gifts but bring her anything just to keep the interactions up. even if you just fold a sheet of paper and write "I love Mama" on  it and have him scribble on it, have him deliver it and her heart'll melt

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Originally Posted by Freddie Gordy View Post

Man my lil boy is a line pusher.

Hes been staying up later and later everyday.

Hes 17 months, acting like hes in his terrible twos.

Tonight, he wouldn't go to sleep after 3 consecutive days of staying up late, waking up early and no naps.

Lil vato was crying his *** off like if he was hurt, but only wants me to hold him and not his mom. Tried to comfort her on why he wants me but she aint feelin it.

Any advice to get him to sleep early and have the wife feeling better?

My daughter's 18 months and this is her right now. She used to have a hard bed time of 8pm but it's getting to a point where we struggle for two hours getting her to stop crying and stay in her bed to sleep at night.
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Hes with my mother in law all day and she gets him out the house everyday.

When we get home we play a good chunk of the night and he eats good all day.

Even with a full belly he wont always go to sleep, late night early morning + plenty of playtime and rarley will go to sleep before 9.

We had him at a set bed time at 7:30-8 for a good while.



Yeah ill definitely do the letter thing for my wife from our son. I usually have him hand her a dozen flowers but ill incorporate something he did next time.


He ended uo going to sleep around 12:30 am after playing in the tub, couple oz's of milk and a dose of Tylenol. We chalked it up to him being tired and teething.
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I slept like a baby last night. Up every two hours screaming.

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my son goes to sleep before 10 and we wake him up to get ready in the morning around 630. even if we turn off the lights and get into bed at 8, he just lays there and talks/sings/fidgets for more than an hour before sleeping. he takes a nap at preschool and one time i went to pick him up early and all the kids were already awake and he was on his mat snoring. on the weekend, he sometimes sleeps in until past 8 if we let him.
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As far as wifey goes she has to understand that it's not an attack or lack of love but just a phase.
this man knows. right now my son is on his "mommy is my best friend" trip and when my wife tries to say what about your daddy or something else nice, i tell her no need to do that laugh.gif at this point, it doesn't hurt my feelings.
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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

 

I miss my freak-nasty wife.:(

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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

I miss my freak-nasty wife.frown.gif
We got my son into the little golden books.


You just gotta randomly WIO in the middle of the night.
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We got my son into the little golden books.


You just gotta randomly WIO in the middle of the night.

Unfortunately, that doesn't work as much as it used to.

 

And I understand that she's more tired because she's caring for our daughter...But man, didn't think her sex drive would drop this significantly.

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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

 

I miss my freak-nasty wife.:(

 

Nah, I feel it actually got better after kids (temporarily) for some reason.

 

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We got my son into the little golden books.


You just gotta randomly WIO in the middle of the night.

 

LOL, random as hell... what's the golden books gotta do with your wifey's sex drive?  That IS freaky!

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I have been married 14 years with 3 boys. Yeah, the sex isnt anywhere near as frequent, but I definitely try and make the most of it when it happens.

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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

 

I miss my freak-nasty wife.:(

 

Nah, time and opportunity just isn't there tho. Before the kids it was any ol time, now there's gotta be planning and execution. Or vacations #CmonVegas

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I slept like a baby last night. Up every two hours screaming.

 

 

man im right there with you...my 7 month old daughter is up every 3 hours.

 

 

we try to make sure shes very full around 9 when she goes down but shes like clock work. 12, 3, 5:30-6. its tough man...ive never been this tired in my life.

 

 

now she turning over so the putting her on her stomach thing doesnt work anymore. Daycare says she sleeps alot. 

 

 

somebody give me some tips.  

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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

 

I miss my freak-nasty wife.:(

:\ i feel like thats happened...

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man im right there with you...my 7 month old daughter is up every 3 hours.

 

 

we try to make sure shes very full around 9 when she goes down but shes like clock work. 12, 3, 5:30-6. its tough man...ive never been this tired in my life.

 

 

now she turning over so the putting her on her stomach thing doesnt work anymore. Daycare says she sleeps alot. 

 

 

somebody give me some tips.  

 

If it's like clockwork then unfortunately she has developed a wake (and eat?) schedule.  If you're feeding her at all of these times you need to try and cut that out and just go in to soothe her so she doesn't think she  needs to wake and eat at all those times to be content.  She's too young for me to say let her cry it out, but by 12 months it'll be about that time to make that tough transition.

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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

I miss my freak-nasty wife.frown.gif

My girl goes up and down. Sometimes she can't get enough and sometimes I barely get some. Just gotta ride it out. It's all a balancing act for both of us. She tried to pull that I'm a mom so I can't be dirty stuff but once I did some things she liked that freaky woman came back out in her.
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Nah, I feel it actually got better after kids (temporarily) for some reason.


LOL, random as hell... what's the golden books gotta do with your wifey's sex drive?  That IS freaky!


Accidentally saved that in my drafts. Lol.
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Wife is 13 weeks now so we're finally able to tell people about our #2....
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Dad's has your wife or partner sex drive drop significant after having kids? This is tough.

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Its a boomerang when it comes back. It comes back hard.... Prepare yo self
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Its a boomerang when it comes back. It comes back hard.... Prepare yo self

i personally can't wait.... she's already saying that she wants some, but is waiting for the nausea to subside a little more....

Can't wait til i become part of #nopullout again.... LOL
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Its a boomerang when it comes back. It comes back hard.... Prepare yo self

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It happens. Gotta do out of the ordinary **** sometimes to spark it up. After my 3rd one I told my old lady, imma Shave/wax her hair down there. After 4th one told her to blaze some green with me. After 5th one I went extra weird and talked about fn another female laugh.gif
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It happens. Gotta do out of the ordinary **** sometimes to spark it up. After my 3rd one I told my old lady, imma Shave/wax her hair down there. After 4th one told her to blaze some green with me. After 5th one I went extra weird and talked about fn another female laugh.gif


And then after da 6th? AYO....
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