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Is this really the place for this, your girl gets raped and you post it on NT
That'd be so messed up if she actually got raped.She was at the party by herself? any witnesses? Did she go to the party on a date with the dude?
Whether it is true or not your relationship with her will never be the same cause you will never know what really happened.
Too much drama. I would bail out.
You know how dem **** beDually truck mounted up........
Agreed. Story sounds fishy, but there's often grey area in rape stories. She might've very well engaged in some for of cheating, but not wanted to have sex and gotten raped as well.This thread serves as a perfect example of why women are often afraid to come forward after being raped.
because the last thing you wanna do is catch a case or get beat up when your girl led him on.on some real though - how do you not roll up to the guy you know did it and teach him a lesson. you dont even have to tell your girl about it.
cmon manI don't know how some of you function with these viewpoints and insecurities.
Jesus.
Wait, how do you know if she told her Mom ?Me and my girlfriend have a long distance relationship currently due to her being in Texas and me in NYC in college. She called me crying to tell me about few hours ago that yesterday at her sisters party she got raped by some guy. She is sure of it and was scared at what to do and called me but me listening to it all, I just had my mind blank out and choke up. She was waiting for her sister to talk to mofo with her bf and find out what happened to be sure before my gf officially goes to the cops. I told her to go get a rape kit done and call cops and tell her parents but she said she wants to be sure before doing anything. I got enraged and told her if she was lying to play this off and as an excuse for what she did but with out a doubt im sure she did got raped now. I'm waiting for more info now but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad and powerless now and I feel so bad right now. I just needed to vent guys ....idk what else to do.
Just to add few more details, she was drinking but not wasted type but everyone else was and when she woke up she knew what had happened and was frantic. She tells me now that she is doesn't know what to do and all that.
Update:
It officially is a rape now that her mom knows and today she went to planned parenthood and she was given a Plan B pill and appointment for a medical check up and get tested. She told me though she does not want to press charges and made up her mind to which she told me this morning. I broke down hard and felt like crap and a deep pain when she told me that. I went to my counselor in college and I literally just let it all out and explained to her what happened. She and another head of the counseling department spoke to me for over an hour and made me think and realize everything. She said to understand that many women don't report it to the police because our court system will drag this to well over months or even years and it would be a constant reminder of what happened and how society will label her as a **** and all that crap we hear about in the news. She just brought out facts and after the whole talk I was able to regain my self and walk out with a clear head. I am going to be there for her and support her because there is no doubt my girl is broken by all this and she just wants to let the healing process begin. I wanna thank you guys as well for the positive comments and I know many of you had the same reaction I initially had about her lying to cover up something but there is no doubt now she was raped.
there's an update on page 1.WE NEED AN UPDATE