Girlfriend Got raped... Need to Vent.. Updated Information at pg1

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She was at the party by herself? any witnesses? Did she go to the party on a date with the dude?

Whether it is true or not your relationship with her will never be the same cause you will never know what really happened.

Too much drama. I would bail out.
 
She was at the party by herself? any witnesses? Did she go to the party on a date with the dude?

Whether it is true or not your relationship with her will never be the same cause you will never know what really happened.

Too much drama. I would bail out.
That'd be so messed up if she actually got raped.

She goes through a traumatizing event and you just bail on her.

I don't know OP, just make sure she gets examined either way. Tell her to just go do that and figure out everything else later.
 
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This thread serves as a perfect example of why women are often afraid to come forward after being raped.
Agreed. Story sounds fishy, but there's often grey area in rape stories. She might've very well engaged in some for of cheating, but not wanted to have sex and gotten raped as well.
 
Just read the updated information, seems like you got your head in the clear, that's very good to hear.

It's going to be rough, don't be surprised if she goes to see a therapist or seeks extra medical attention.

Stay strong, NT behind you.

Always open to private message. 
 
on some real though - how do you not roll up to the guy you know did it and teach him a lesson. you dont even have to tell your girl about it.
 
on some real though - how do you not roll up to the guy you know did it and teach him a lesson. you dont even have to tell your girl about it.
because the last thing you wanna do is catch a case or get beat up when your girl led him on.
 
After reading the update, I still don't understand how she doesn't want to press charges. I'm a male, what do i know about how a woman thinks. It's good that you are going to support her. But for her to let a rape slide, after telling her mom and going through the procedure of getting plan B and a doctor's appointment, I'm still skeptical. I hope, if the rape was actually a rape, that she would reconsider her decision to let the guy walk away a free man.

Keep ya head up OP and stay focus on your goals. I hope things work out for you.
 
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Damn OP, you're a big for standing by her, idk what I would do If I were in your position. Reminds me of City of God when, Knockout Ned said he couldn't stand the view of his girl anymore after he watched Lil Ze and his goons rape her.
 
i'm pretty skeptical...
but ok. lets roll with it. no way i don't go back to texas and whip a ****** *** (at the least) tho.:smh:
 
Idk. I'm not buying it.

Either she's playing you like a fiddle or you had to write some paper about how people would react to a "Rape" story like the one you laid upon is.

*ye shrug*

I'm out.
 
Just read the update

OP I'm so sorry. I recognize that fear, and that sadness. Take a long walk, get a few deep breaths. Get your head around it. If it suits you, go running like I would. Run and run and run. Faster with each step. Let that anger get out of you, and recognize that no matter how much you beat yourself up its not going to take it back. All you can do now is go to your counselor again, and keep your head up. Support your girl. She needs it even more than you do.

I'm sorry you got caught on the wrong side of the stick, but sometimes people are crazy. It will get better in time.
 
Me and my girlfriend have a long distance relationship currently due to her being in Texas and me in NYC in college. She called me crying to tell me about few hours ago that yesterday at her sisters party she got raped by some guy. She is sure of it and was scared at what to do and called me but me listening to it all, I just had my mind blank out and choke up. She was waiting for her sister to talk to mofo with her bf and find out what happened to be sure before my gf officially goes to the cops. I told her to go get a rape kit done and call cops and tell her parents but she said she wants to be sure before doing anything. I got enraged and told her if she was lying to play this off and as an excuse for what she did but with out a doubt im sure she did got raped now. I'm waiting for more info now but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad and powerless now and I feel so bad right now. I just needed to vent guys ....idk what else to do.



Just to add few more details, she was drinking but not wasted type but everyone else was and when she woke up she knew what had happened and was frantic. She tells me now that she is doesn't know what to do and all that.

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It officially is a rape now that her mom knows and today she went to planned parenthood and she was given a Plan B pill and appointment for a medical check up and get tested. She told me though she does not want to press charges and made up her mind to which she told me this morning. I broke down hard and felt like crap and a deep pain when she told me that. I went to my counselor in college and I literally just let it all out and explained to her what happened. She and another head of the counseling department spoke to me for over an hour and made me think and realize everything. She said to understand that many women don't report it to the police because our court system will drag this to well over months or even years and it would be a constant reminder of what happened and how society will label her as a **** and all that crap we hear about in the news. She just brought out facts and after the whole talk I was able to regain my self and walk out with a clear head. I am going to be there for her and support her because there is no doubt my girl is broken by all this and she just wants to let the healing process begin. I wanna thank you guys as well for the positive comments and I know many of you had the same reaction I initially had about her lying to cover up something but there is no doubt now she was raped.
Wait, how do you know if she told her Mom ?

Have you spoken to her yet ?
 
This sucks OP all you can do is be by her side now.  You should take some time off of school so you are with her in person.     It's gonna take her a long time to get through this.
 
WE NEED A STORY!

This dude hasnt posted what his girl said happened...
Who dude is...
Why was she unsure...

etc...
 
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