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Idk what to think now honestly, she tells now the fking dude who raped her basically said he was messed up and didnt know what he was doing and that should be enough to go to the police but she is just crying and like in a shock state from what I can see being in my position. She says shell tell her mom tomorrow and go to cops but I am just so out of my mind as to why not now and raise hell on the ******g guy. If she doesnt tell her mom I will personally but this is really hurtful along side with other problems I have now that I feel like disappearing right now.


So now she knows the dude ?

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Sad to hear that OP. But a couple of red alerts.

-she wants to make sure she got rape?...................and didn't have drunk sex?

-was shes passed out/dead drunk?.............or just conscious but sloppy drunk?

-and where was she raped/ had drunk sex?........at her sisters house?

-she knows the dude?......but dont wanna call the cops?

post #63 of 536
no offense OP but i think shes lying

ask her sister if she really got raped. ask her who ol girl was around that night

it just seems so fishy that she would realize in the morning that she was raped at her sisters party when she wasnt even under the influence. her judgement wasnt impaired. she was drinking but wasnt wasted

she can still make rational decisions, and in this case she ****** up and cheated. now screaming rape. one of my boys smanged a chick. she regretted it and then called rape on him


just get as much info as you can bruh. sucks this had to happen. keep your head up
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post #64 of 536
Why the hell would she call to say "hey I may or may not have gotten raped last night, not sure tho, gna wait to tell cops"

Is she an attention seeker by any chance? Is she trustworthy? Has she cheated in the past? How long y'all been together? Apart?
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shes lyin dont fall for it
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post #66 of 536

You need to get more details from her OP.

 

Situation seems real sketchy.

post #67 of 536
Op don't let all of this ruin your mindset. For all you know she could have been raped and she can't get he head around the fact. Don't charge up to her (or call her in your case) talking about lying. It could derail the whole situation.

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You need to get more details from her OP.

Situation seems real sketchy.


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Not buying it.

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I got enraged and told her if she was lying to play this off and as an excuse for what she did but with out a doubt im sure she did got raped now.

So, yes it would suck if she did indeed get raped but you questioned it from Jump street.

1. What girl wouldn't go off the deep end and not even wanna talk to their BF after being accused of lying about being raped?

2. You're always gonna have this in the back of your mind. It's best to cut her loose now and save both of yous the headaches in the long run.
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Like others have said, try to clear your head and get all of the details before making any decisions...

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I got enraged and told her if she was lying to play this off and as an excuse for what she did but with out a doubt im sure she did got raped now.

So, yes it would suck if she did indeed get raped but you questioned it from Jump street.

1. What girl wouldn't go off the deep end and not even wanna talk to their BF after being accused of lying about being raped?

 

Forgot about this too

 

She would have spazzed after this if she really did get assaulted and penetrated against her will and you're accusing her of ulterior motives

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Not buying it.

Yeah doesnt sound like she was raped to me. mean.gif at how easily people throw the term rape out there. word to Brian Banks
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I got enraged and told her if she was lying to play this off and as an excuse for what she did but with out a doubt im sure she did got raped now.


So, yes it would suck if she did indeed get raped but you questioned it from Jump street.


1. What girl wouldn't go off the deep end and not even wanna talk to their BF after being accused of lying about being raped?
Forgot about this too
She would have spazzed after this if she really did get assaulted and penetrated against her will and you're accusing her of ulterior motives

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post #75 of 536
Sorry, OP, but like majority of us here...i don't think it happened. For the information you provided, it looks like it was drunk sex instead.
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post #76 of 536
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Idk what to think now honestly, she tells now the fking dude who raped her basically said he was messed up and didnt know what he was doing and that should be enough to go to the police but she is just crying and like in a shock state from what I can see being in my position. She says shell tell her mom tomorrow and go to cops but I am just so out of my mind as to why not now and raise hell on the ******g guy. If she doesnt tell her mom I will personally but this is really hurtful along side with other problems I have now that I feel like disappearing right now.


So lets get this str8.. she got raped, waited a day and told you.. now she wants to wait another day to tell her mother??? SHE CHEATED FAM.. period.. why would any female tell their BF over their mother they got raped and 2 days after the fact... i aint buying it.. mean.gif
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post #77 of 536
Have you met her before? Like in person? Or are you one of the Manti Te'O types....
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is it possible that since she was so obviously drunk that:

-she had consensual intercourse
-fell asleep and blacked out so she did not remember having CONSENSUAL intercourse
-but felt in her private areas that she had clearly had sex recently
-assume that it was rape, because she would not have had consensual sex with said person had she not been inebriated?
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Have you met her before? Like in person? Or are you one of the Manti Te'O types....

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So lets get this str8.. she got raped, waited a day and told you.. now she wants to wait another day to tell her mother??? SHE CHEATED FAM.. period.. why would any female tell their BF over their mother they got raped and 2 days after the fact... i aint buying it.. mean.gif


This.

 

You must be blind if you can't see this.

 

You should've broken up with her from the time that you moved. Long distance relationships never work.

post #81 of 536
Where in Texas?

School?
post #82 of 536
Honestly, you just need to bury your head deep in the books for about a week and let time bring out the details on this matter. Cause at this point, your mind probably aint thinking rationally and you're definitely not going to help the situation by stepping in too soon. Right now you're just that frantic boyfriend in NYC who doesn't know what the f is going on.
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-So she was drinking
-Didn't get wasted
-But don't remember a man on top of her?

-Where was everybody else at, at this party?
-So she gets raped and don't wanna go to the cops?

this.
post #84 of 536
OP, I honestly think the guy forcefully came onto her. After she prolly felt ashamed, disgusted, & confused. Now she's calling rape. Its weird cuz something must be there between the two, otherwise she would've called the cops w zero hesitation.

Regardless of the fact she prolly needs your support because we don't knw the situation. All we can do is assume.

Tough situation to be in. Keep your head up.
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post #85 of 536
how you still aint give us the full story?

i hate when people do this.
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long distance relationships in college cause too many problems.  I feel for you OP

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post #88 of 536
you lost her homie. let her go.

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seems fishy OP but hope it all works out in the end.

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post #90 of 536
Based off your story, seems like she just cheated. That's just based off what you explained.

I mean, not as drunk as everyone else.
Wakes up, not sure if she was raped, huh?
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