"Women Don't Need Men" (Nothing New But Solid Read) - Page 4

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Originally Posted by ksteezy 


I dont know about you, but me as a man never aspire to live off a woman, I dont see how any man with pride would be cool with that or even want society to find that acceptable.

why not you essentailly in one breathe say lets not stick go to those old archaic ways...and subscribe to a typical gender stereotype...then in the next breath its oh men and women are equal times changed and we shouldnt stick to that old way of thinking... its either equal or not..You no offense almost sound like the women...one minute its im independent im not with that old school ways...then its lay my jacket in the puddle...open my door, im old fashion you take me out pay for my meal...then its i aint cooking cleaning.....no compromise from me thats old school...men can do that work to...

SO if men according to your worlds can follow/do things that are stereotypically assigned/related to women...why cant women do the same... ? Its like your saying its ok for a man to wash clothes cook clean etc.... but to ask a woman to do it and its being stereotypical....but to ask a women to take you out pay the bill and its back to 1950's and im going to be the stereotypical male.

Pshhh... I never got why men feel intimidated by a woman who has a higher paying job.   That's just being extremely insecure.

I rather have a wife making more money than me , rather than less. That's more money in both of our pockets. Cut the housewife thing out, it's a thing of the past.

If my wife wants to be a housewife ,then you know what " Find someone who likes to stay home all day for yourself, that's not me".

EDIT: Same goes for girls that want me to pay for 1000 dates(first couple of months is understandable and traditional). But  ****, you have to make me WANT you too....

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Originally Posted by ksteezy 

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Originally Posted by shoelyesses 


why not you essentailly in one breathe say lets not stick go to those old archaic ways...and subscribe to a typical gender stereotype...then in the next breath its oh men and women are equal times changed and we shouldnt stick to that old way of thinking... its either equal or not..You no offense almost sound like the women...one minute its im independent im not with that old school ways...then its lay my jacket in the puddle...open my door, im old fashion you take me out pay for my meal...then its i aint cooking cleaning.....no compromise from me thats old school...men can do that work to...

SO if men according to your worlds can follow/do things that are stereotypically assigned/related to women...why cant women do the same... ? Its like your saying its ok for a man to wash clothes cook clean etc.... but to ask a woman to do it and its being stereotypical....but to ask a women to take you out pay the bill and its back to 1950's and im going to be the stereotypical male.

women and men think differently, im a man, as a man i believe i should provide for my woman, i wouldnt feel comfortable having a woman support me, that doesnt mean she cant make more than me and i think thats where ya get it twisted, there is a difference between a bum a** uninspired dude and a dude who's simply in a lower pay bracket than his wife.

So you wouldn't date a woman that makes a lot more money than you?  Why is a man who makes less than his wife a bum?

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Originally Posted by ksteezy 


lulz que?


how is that relevant to my post?

i think it goes to say that a women in your argument of men being more superficial is false seeing as you are more incline to see a ugly well to do man and or have some sort of social status with a good looking women...who essentially has nothing but great personal characters... then a well off women with a man who essentially has nothing but great personal character...i would be willing to wager probably in most part wouldnt even be with one if he was below her in terms of money and other superficial aspects... The number 1 reason for divorce right now for women is finances.... for men its infidelity...in which most parts women say it was due to the man being more powerful ala more social status aka money...So if that isnt superficial i dont know exactly what is.

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Originally Posted by PowerBallin 

 

So you wouldn't date a woman that makes a lot more money than you?

i dont care what she makes....it who she is as a person is my point.... but one thing is and me and my old lady aree equal....she will cook clean etc...just as i will...she has taken out garbage...taken me out etc...outside of a special occasion or my bday etc... and has spent her money doing it and not mines...

She hell sunday did yard work....while i was gearing up for the big game.... and i helped the girls get they clothes ready etc.last night...We dont have this oh i make this or that so i dont have to compromise do this attitude. I dont say oh because im a man cook me dinner beitch...no more then she says because im a women open my door, you better pay take me out... We just see things need to be done and we do them. She has never came to me on some im independent and as such i dont have to wash cook etc...cause you are trying to oppress me..And i dont feel intimidated at her work achievements...or other accolades.....she has hell 2 degrees...i barely got an associates....i dont feel less then her...and she doesnt throw it in my face and sees it as her being better then me... we understand that just because our roles, and who we are are different doesnt make one job less/more important...

See nowadays women on that old lakers of kobe/shaq steez... Cant see that you both play an intricate part of the team...and despite having different roles and playing different positions...no one is more important or more valued then the other...I dont try to prove i can be a point...she doesnt try to prove she can be a center...just off the basis of well i can do what you do just to prove we the same. We look beyond that and see the bigger goal in winning the game of life.

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Originally Posted by ksteezy 


maybe its too late, BUT WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU SAYING?

like ive read this post 3 times and have no clue what im reading.

dude tryin to argue that an ugly but rich man will always have a pretty woman without sizeable paper of her own before you'd see a ugly but rich woman with a stud dude with no paper of his own and probably wouldnt even be with him looks or not if he wasn't at least equal in terms of said paper.  also says when women divorce men it's cuz they slooting with a dude with more paper than their husband and they want a divorce to get with the new rich guy, and when men divorce women its cuz of already mentioned cheating.  i don't know if i agree with either argument but *kanyeshrug.jpg

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Originally Posted by ksteezy 


maybe its too late, BUT WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU SAYING?

like ive read this post 3 times and have no clue what im reading.

in short you flip flopping and almost well hell just str8 up sound henpecked

you didn't answer my question Steezy.....

please respond

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Originally Posted by ksteezy 


women and men think differently, im a man, as a man i believe i should provide for my woman, i wouldnt feel comfortable having a woman support me, that doesnt mean she cant make more than me and i think thats where ya get it twisted, there is a difference between a bum a** uninspired dude and a dude who's simply in a lower pay bracket than his wife.

but thats not how you said it....so..i took it as you said it. Did you not see that dating special on women...i make 100,000 he makes 45,000 how is that a bum? i have 3 degrees from top universities...he has an associates at a local college.... i mean this is what tons of woman are saying...

I can honestly say it be hard pressed to find a man who says damn baby you fine and you got a good heart etc... but i went to mit and you went to devry so you out of the question... its not common place for a man to say i work as a head consultant making 100k a year and you just a mere admin asst... making 27k so you wont even get a look at let alone actual conversation or a date.

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Originally Posted by Royal Assassin 

 

dude tryin to argue that an ugly but rich man will always have a pretty woman without sizeable paper of her own before you'd see a ugly but rich woman with a stud dude with no paper of his own and probably wouldnt even be with him looks or not if he wasn't at least equal in terms of said paper.  also says when women divorce men it's cuz they slooting with a dude with more paper than their husband and they want a divorce to get with the new rich guy, and when men divorce women its cuz of already mentioned cheating.  i don't know if i agree with either argument but *kanyeshrug.jpg

Its about what you can bring to the table. If your paper doesn't match your partner's by a LONG shot, then you better be a good looking, in-shape,funny, crazy pipe game dude.

Jchambers made a good post a while back on how this world wants SOMETHING good out of you. If you can't offer this world something it needs, at a constant basis,then you will fail everytime .

J-lo been with a rack of dudes...you seen who she was with the longest right?  Somebody close to her equal in money, fame, and age. That dude is a fling.

soooo.. who the hell is sara?

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Originally Posted by blazinRook 

*I PERSONALLY WOULDN'T WANT TO BE WITH A WOMAN MORE SUCCESFUL THAN ME.

Reason: I'm wired to compete. If she's able to provide, she has changed my personal definition of what a mans job is to do. In the back of my head, ill always be competing with her, I don't want to compete with my wife.

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH SUCESSFUL WOMEN
*problems occur when balance is interrupted.
Over 1,950 years, gender roles have been the same. And it worked. When women alter the balance of provider, they force a change in the definition of Man, husband, and father.

AND AS MEN, we aren't forced into changing into anything.

WHAT WOMAN USED TO BE GOOD AT..
Was guiding their men, supporting their man. But Now they want the support. They want the protection. They want the power. They want it all.

MEN DON'T KNOW how to be the counter to an alpha woman. Because we weren't raised this way. Society tells us to be strong.

And when a women is strong and a man is strong, a relationship can't happen. A family can't happen.

ANOTHER MISCONCEPTION
Is that woman aren't thought to be SUCESSFUL if all they do is raise a family. Raising a family is one of the hardest, and least appreciative things to accomplish. I FEEL THAT BEING A SUCESSFUL MOTHER And wife takes just as much work, strength. and dedication to be a SUCESSFUL worker. IT IS A SELFLESS ACT TO BE A PROPER MOTHER, while anyone can be a self centered SUCCESFUL worker.

Being competitive is a good thing. But, why must you be competitive within your own family bro? I always hated how my brother used to never get along with me and I knew it was because I packed on muscle easily while he struggled, I take care of myself and am a pretty cute guy , and people always seemed interested in me and it bothered him so he was just straight rude to me ALL the time. He never wanted to hang out with me and his friends, he would avoid me at home, if I call him for ANYTHING it would bother him , and alot more. I was always nice to him , bought him stuff , put him up on nice sneakers. Insecure people really piss me off, especially when they don't like you for NO reason.

He doesn't get that I'm on HIS team and we should be competing with other people rather than eachother. If your blood or wife are doing better than you, then give thanks to god, because they are on YOUR TEAM. By them doing better will only benefit you.

EDIT: sorry for the rant.

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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH 

Man Yall need to shut up. ***** and pussies been coming together to procreate for millions of years from every organism on this earth. Systems and themes of change come and go in human civilization but one thing is for certain men and women are going to get together and they gonna eat,drink, hang out and **** at a certain point who's dime its on dont matter. Just wait till these girls get in their late 20's and 30's and tell me if they not giving it up. Broke dudes with pizzazz be tearing through white collar, blue collar,fast food, retail,office, lawyer,model,doctor pussy like it ain't nada. What's a womans biggest weakness? Her emotions man, she can be a billionaire but she still gonna be a female and females need masculine energy in their lifes and to be on the company of men. Pussies were made for ***** like i said. It's the very fabric of our existence. They aren't going anywhere and we aren't going anywhere. If a woman only values your masculinity off your ability to procure money and all respect is drawn from that you're in big trouble. There are billions of women on this planet just because a few hundred thousand are getting a little change doesnt mean the sky is falling. This article and discussion is pointless. If you want one of these chicks then just boss up. This **** ain't about sex, its about taking control of your life and your destiny. That's all that matters. I could really give a damn what these females out here are talking about because they arent talking about **** and neither are Yall. Yall acting like there aren't poor *** fine chicks. What you think is gonna happen to all these fine *** aspiring models,actresses,fashionistas and dancers that arent ever going to make it big? I'll tell you what, they gon be laying next to your cry baby ***. Let life run its ******g course and let order come out of this chaos. Ordo de chao for you conspiracy geeks. Peace and love

he's right. hot chicks that are poor are pretty fun if you're doing ok for yourself.