Bruhs...seeing your girl in the arms of another man is the worst feeling ever. do you know that feel

SolexSup said:
This thread making me sad though
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I feel you dog... brings back some bad feelings because of all the good memories/experiences we've lsot 
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No one mentioned what can be done to cure this and is the most methaphorical thing to do. :GO TO THE GYM!!!

The emotions you are feeling now is an energy you have to transfer to your benefit to help you out. 

She left you because you stopped being the person who she was attracted to when you both were courting each other.

Remember how confident and fearless you were when you wanted to get with her.

Best way to channel that aggression and pain is by hitting the gym and mentally gaining toughness.

You'll get stronger physically, mentally, be selfish for a change and be happier and feel better

plus you'll look more attractive to women. cant get no better than that. best remedy, 

And the best feeling is running into her again and you looking different.

Women sense and feed off men who display physical, emotional ,financial and social power. 

Fill your glass with these qualities and newfound understanding of the world and youll be plowing everything in sight with no remorse 

Time to be a man. 
 
The official simp thread lol.

In all seriousness, if y'all are going through this time is the best healer of wounds. keep yourself occupied and you'll get over it eventually
 
AXELROD said:
No one mentioned what can be done to cure this and is the most methaphorical thing to do. :GO TO THE GYM!!!

The emotions you are feeling now is an energy you have to transfer to your benefit to help you out. 

She left you because you stopped being the person who she was attracted to when you both were courting each other.

Remember how confident and fearless you were when you wanted to get with her.

Best way to channel that aggression and pain is by hitting the gym and mentally gaining toughness.

You'll get stronger physically, mentally, be selfish for a change and be happier and feel better

plus you'll look more attractive to women. cant get no better than that. best remedy, 

And the best feeling is running into her again and you looking different.

Women sense and feed off men who display physical, emotional ,financial and social power. 

Fill your glass with these qualities and newfound understanding of the world and youll be plowing everything in sight with no remorse 

Time to be a man. 
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get off your high house brah
 
each circumstance is different.

My ex and I dated for 2 years, I have a really strong will so i never stalked her or asked friends about her, kept distance and kept it civil, I "mourned" for about 6 months but it's not in my character to mope and feel sorry for myself which is what you're doing and most dudes are guilty of it. It's ok....kinda.

I just gotta say work on yourself and date around man. Hell maybe things will work up for you, my ex smokes weed, drinks more (claimed to hate weed/alcohol while dating), gained weight and is dating a dude not as fly as I ever was. She digressed, but YOU need to focus on YOU.

and don't be afraid to be selfish for a little.
 
didn't read thread, but all I can add is, "it gets better over time", trust me it does. my ex broke up w me in 2007 after a 6 year relationship (dated since 16 years old) and proceeded to have 2 kids with the next guy. I was a mess for almost a year... but you get over it. I could easily chop it up with her now and no jimmies would be rustled.

But to the op, sounds like it just happened, so I know that feels bro. Just stay busy and better yourself. They always try to come back when they see the grass isnt greener on the other side of the fence.. and my ex tried multiple times and would blow my phone up randomly. Like a user above said, "She left you because you stopped being the person who she was attracted to when you both were courting each other", so turn that ish into energy to better yourself.
 
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the first mistake u dudes are making is scoping out the competition. It can make or break u seriously. U look at the new ***** and think o she downgraded I won, hes ugly, poor etc. Theres gonna be a time where she post pics of his new m6 or his office on the top floor at work and its gonna kill u. I know the feel u guys are feeling tho 
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. I can say it leads to better seeing i found someone whos better for me all together. My current is 1000000x cooler than my ex and looks better. The only thing is if i seen her with another dude it would kill me for real seeing we got a child together and ****, I would probably go crazy.
 
AXELROD said:
No one mentioned what can be done to cure this and is the most methaphorical thing to do. :GO TO THE GYM!!!

The emotions you are feeling now is an energy you have to transfer to your benefit to help you out. 

She left you because you stopped being the person who she was attracted to when you both were courting each other.

Remember how confident and fearless you were when you wanted to get with her.

Best way to channel that aggression and pain is by hitting the gym and mentally gaining toughness.

You'll get stronger physically, mentally, be selfish for a change and be happier and feel better

plus you'll look more attractive to women. cant get no better than that. best remedy, 

And the best feeling is running into her again and you looking different.

Women sense and feed off men who display physical, emotional ,financial and social power. 

Fill your glass with these qualities and newfound understanding of the world and youll be plowing everything in sight with no remorse 

Time to be a man. 
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lol you gotta be a personal traininer or some ish..
 
lol this thread is too funny

So lets say if a couple should split should you be the first to be seen with another female, preferably an upgrade?

kinda srs
 
I still miss my ex like crazy...think about her every single day. It's been close to 5 months. This **** cray. Smh. The love I have for her is crazy smh. I want her back.
I'm far from a simp, I actually love this girl. She really was just the perfect girl, and trust I've tried hard to think of things that could help me like her less, flaws and such, and it just made me feel like more of a **** because I couldn't and coming to the realization that I messed up something amazing. It was my arrogance and pride that lead to my destruction, as always. I do think us breaking up made me such a better man though. I've learned a ton about relationships and love and everything in between. And I can't say I actually would have grown as I have without enduring the pain I've felt. So in a sense, it was necessary. It had to happen. It's unfortunate, but sometimes you have to burn yourself to know that fire is hot. So from that perspective, I'm thankful for the experience, I'll definitely learn from all of my mistakes and bad decisions. Pain and consequences are one hell of a teacher. Even beyond my faults, I think very highly of myself, and realize I was a great bf, but I was lost in my ways of thinking, I was immature and selfish. But I do realize that as much as I feel she was my blessing, I was equally a blessing for her. So I hope, one day, we are both fortunate enough to cross paths again.
 
*plays drake songs while i read through this thread

nah, but we've all been there. everybodys relationship is different and carries different circumstances. i got out of a serious relationship ( like we were about to get married) and ive yet to truly get over it. i go out and whatnot and meet girls but i let them know, right now im all about me. and its true hardest part is not the leaving, its the looking back part that kills you
 
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Freeze said:
I still miss my ex like crazy...think about her every single day. It's been close to 5 months. This **** cray. Smh. The love I have for her is crazy smh. I want her back.
I'm far from a simp, I actually love this girl. She really was just the perfect girl, and trust I've tried hard to think of things that could help me like her less, flaws and such, and it just made me feel like more of a **** because I couldn't and coming to the realization that I messed up something amazing. It was my arrogance and pride that lead to my destruction, as always. I do think us breaking up made me such a better man though. I've learned a ton about relationships and love and everything in between. And I can't say I actually would have grown as I have without enduring the pain I've felt. So in a sense, it was necessary. It had to happen. It's unfortunate, but sometimes you have to burn yourself to know that fire is hot. So from that perspective, I'm thankful for the experience, I'll definitely learn from all of my mistakes and bad decisions. Pain and consequences are one hell of a teacher. Even beyond my faults, I think very highly of myself, and realize I was a great bf, but I was lost in my ways of thinking, I was immature and selfish. But I do realize that as much as I feel she was my blessing, I was equally a blessing for her. So I hope, one day, we are both fortunate enough to cross paths again.
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i hear ya, you just never know things might come back around. i still struggle on a daily but i just gotta stay true to what i have to do for me in the present. 
 
OP, if your girl can bounce back that fast and already be comfy in someone else's arms that fast... maybe what you two shared wasn't all that or she's been doing her thing for a while?

Like everyone says, take it as a life lesson and you'll be stronger in the long run. Heck, stare at their picture together till it no longer bothers you... lol. 
 
Let me step in and say "that feel... I know it"

Now... the reason why I think its more necessary for a guy to rebound quicker is because the emotional state of men and women.

Women fall in love more often... but men fall in love harder...

They have am emotional support that most men don't . They can talk it over, cry, friends will console them...

With men, when a break up happens, they have to grid their teeth and bear it. We can't talk it over with our friends... we can't cry, we can't show emotion ..

Its more prevalent for a guy to find a new chick because if you don't, that emotional baggage will fester longer in you than in a woman...
 
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