Benefits of being single.

smh.... thread about being single...

turns into:

if you're not trying to find a wife, you're childish
all single men do is try and get yambs
if you're having fun in you're 20s or 30s, it automatically means you'll be 65 with no companion, be it a wife or lady friend

its cool on both sides.... but lettuce not pretend having a girlfriend/wife is SOOOOO much better than not having one...

me personally... i like those corner chicks...

get the yambs, go out on dates, kick it... but you already know yall not together...

they have a shelf life like JOs... but they tend to last a little longer...

i lubbit.
 
Yea Ricky. I need new corners. But like the ATT commercial "we want more,we want more" it was easier at a younger age.......now chicks be wantin to be all serious n talk about life n kids etc.
 
Al Audi said:
Steezy I'm glad you have a great marriage. I'm not against it but there is pros n cons to both sides. All day. If I recall you an your girl been together off n on since HS.. then finally buckled down....I hope you guys make it to 50+. I dunno I'm so annoyed right now to. No relationship is perfect........but man it can just be draining. Everybody is diff I suppose.
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He'll yeah it's work!...sacrifices made, the whole nine, but that's what makes it worth it in the long run, going through the thick is what strengthens the bond...is something beautiful ad I wouldn't trade it for empty sex with multiple women that eventually either leads to nothing or a slip up, or if it turns into a relationship, one with lots of baggage due to how it all started....

Anyhow not telling anyone how to live their life, fact is getting old alone is not fun, see way too many old men die alone and no one cared....it's scary bruhs....at the same time yes it may be fun to be head deep in a variety of vagina but there has to be more meaning to life than that...no? I'm excluding my dudes in their 20's I completely understand ya, you guys are young and with all the rights to live life without a care, just seems like you guys talk about marriage/committment without having a clue of what is really about, which is why im even here replying...but my dudes in your 30's this can't be the answer to life to ya.
 
[h1]Benefits of being single.[/h1]
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none when you're 30
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ksteezy said:
So let me get this straight, it's so appears to me the main benefit of being single is ultimately the abundance of Yambs?...is that really what life boils down to some of you?...that and the occasional few that live life on the road with no worries, which I'm sure is not a whole bunch of you...because name any other benefit and I'm sure me as a married man enjoy those benefits as well.
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Having lived on both sides of the fence I can list more reasons then that.

1. Fending for 1 > 2
2. Making 1 happy > 2
3. Going home to a empty house after a long day at work > coming home to another persons hard day at work.
4. Growing yourself as a person > growing with 2 personalities.

Hell this is all from personal experience and I'm not saying you have the same issues as me. What I'm saying is single life for me is better then the married life for me. I respect that it differs from your experience, respect that it differs for ours.
 
Y'all are tripping over the age thing. Men in their 30s and 40s aren't lost causes. And as long as you keep in shape ain't nothing wrong with being an older dad.

My bro just got engaged at 36 and one of his good friends at 42 both to ladies in their early 30s.
 
Woah now, chill on the 30s. I turn 30 next month and its actually better than ever. Neo in the matrix like because of your poise and experience. I will say though, I felt a genuine connection with a female once in my adult life instead of just floating through together, and I crave that feeling again. If I get the chance again I'm holding on to it.
 
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Mark Antony said:
Woah now, chill on the 30s. I turn 30 next month and its actually better than ever. Neo in the matrix like because of your poise and experience. I will say though, I felt a genuine connection with a female once in my adult life instead of just floating through together, and I crave that feeling again. If I get the chance again I'm holding on to it.
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Team Scene lyrics :nerd:

Ike with u??
 
Iam 30, i been with my girl for 7 years.... had a couple girlfriends in my teenage yrs but nothing serious. i laid pipe to soooo many girls btwn the ages of 17-23 that i knew i would possibly end up getting some girl pregnant who i depised outside the sack.

There are benefits to being single but there are disadvantages.... when your 35 just getting into a relationship as a woman, you come with so much baggage in terms of past relationships , trust issues, career decisions etc. Trying to get your life in order right before your mid life crisis sets in.

As a man. Being 35 with no kids to some women is a sign of a man who is either too into himself or does not possess the tools to attract a woman for precreation , therefore she pays closer attention to you and your faults. Not your accomplishments...

Everyone is different and deep down they will know when they want to settle down. I knew my girl was the one I would be with when I slept over woke up and didnt run out the house while she was sleep...
 
Given that I won't finish fellowship until 33 I can always say I wanted to be established in my career before settling down.

If you have your stuff together as a man the majority of single women will see the positive of being single with no kids in your mid 30s. I've witnessed it first hand with how women get at my brother and his friends.
 
yall not taking into context that this magical woman you all fap to at night mightve been a ***** in her 20s and is mentally unstable because of the bbc she has recieved on and off throughout the yrs.

i have 2 daughters and a son due in a few weeks. I have done things i shouldnt have but i dont regret it. seeing my woman preggo the 3rd time has made me love her even more... No more ****** for me.

BEING SINGLE IS COOL BUT IF YOUR A REAL PIMP. YOU CAN DO WHAT U WANT AS LONG AS U WANT.
 
SneakerPro said:
Lies damn lies.

Being a decent looking single man with your **** together is like having a cheat code for yambs.

The hell you talking about man?
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I listen when sp talks

Y'all should too.

PREMIUM3G said:
yall not taking into context that this magical woman you all fap to at night mightve been a ***** in her 20s and is mentally unstable because of the bbc she has recieved on and off throughout the yrs.

i have 2 daughters and a son due in a few weeks. I have done things i shouldnt have but i dont regret it. seeing my woman preggo the 3rd time has made me love her even more... No more ****** for me.

BEING SINGLE IS COOL BUT IF YOUR A REAL PIMP. YOU CAN DO WHAT U WANT AS LONG AS U WANT.
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lolwut
 
youngdoc said:
Given that I won't finish fellowship until 33 I can always say I wanted to be established in my career before settling down.

If you have your stuff together as a man the majority of single women will see the positive of being single with no kids in your mid 30s. I've witnessed it first hand with how women get at my brother and his friends.
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One of the many advantages of being a man, no biological clock. I can hold off for as long as I need to.
 
SneakerPro said:
Lies damn lies.

Being a decent looking single man with your **** together is like having a cheat code for yambs.

The hell you talking about man?
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Its not lies, its HIS experience.
That is what a lot of people on this site do not comprehend.
So many of you want to push your own views on others.
Make someone feel bad for living the yamb life
Bash someone for wanting deeper relationships and settling down.

Everyone can do what they want and you should be able to respect that .
 
I just wanted to know what you do when you are single I really don't consider getting yambs a single act because it takes more than one person.
 
TwoOneSicks said:
not all of us are lame black kids from the suburbs who only care about "yambs" in life
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PREMIUM3G said:
Iam 30, i been with my girl for 7 years.... had a couple girlfriends in my teenage yrs but nothing serious. i laid pipe to soooo many girls btwn the ages of 17-23 that i knew i would possibly end up getting some girl pregnant who i depised outside the sack.

There are benefits to being single but there are disadvantages.... when your 35 just getting into a relationship as a woman, you come with so much baggage in terms of past relationships , trust issues, career decisions etc. Trying to get your life in order right before your mid life crisis sets in.

As a man. Being 35 with no kids to some women is a sign of a man who is either too into himself or does not possess the tools to attract a woman for precreation , therefore she pays closer attention to you and your faults. Not your accomplishments...

Everyone is different and deep down they will know when they want to settle down. I knew my girl was the one I would be with when I slept over woke up and didnt run out the house while she was sleep...
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so having multiple baby mombs does?

got it.
 
semf said:
the older you get, the less cool it is to be in the club trying to get chicks.

everyone laughs at the old guy at the club . . .

major holidays and going on vacation aren't that great when you're single the older you get.
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not if you got paper.
 
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