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lets be honest here, a lot of dudes dream about a woman that doesn't exist.
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Yes and no. Of course there's the "want a dime you stays home and cooks and lets me go out whenever....... Blah blah blah"...... Then there are the people who just want someone who meshes well with them. That's not impossible, hard to find, but not impossible
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Yeah we're all crazy, just have to find one who's crazy matches yours.
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Same here. I'll be 26 and everybody I know in a relationship with kids tell me to stay single and don't have kids til I'm older but I kind of want a relationship.
I've found that the older I get and stay single, the more I make married people envious. It's weird, right? You'd think they'd be happily married and not worried about you but in reality most people want to "settle down" and start a family because that is the way society has conformed us to live. So when they see a single person of the same age living by their own rules, they feel envious. That's the vibe I get. But then again whenever someone does anything different from the norm they get hated on.
Another thing that is cool about being single and approaching 30 (and you have to be good looking to pull this off) is making married women jealous because you're still dating new women, especially if you get someone younger. If you've met a pair of 30-somethings who've been married for several years, they tend to look bored already. They're still young and good looking and they're trying to get over that marriage honeymoon stage. Sometimes I'll just stare at a young married couple and I can see it written on their faces --- they wish they had played the field a little longer. And here I am doing just that --- playing the field. Most of my friends are married and whenever I bring a new chick around they look at me like, "Damn he's still doin it". And my married lady friends hate my guts because if I bring a hot chick who is 5-7 years younger than me then she will be like "Dude you're sabotaging my marriage". Basically married people hate single people. It's a psychological benefit for us.
I still feel lonely sometimes though.Married and bored or single and lonely, like Chris Rock said.
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Meh, if making people jealous keeps you going good for you, but it's really meaningless in the grand scheme of things. You don't benefit from other peoples jealousy 
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Been in two ltr.... To be honest just sex and help is the only benefits to being in a relationship for me ...
I have yet to find a women who I enjoy their interest or truly enjoy talkin to or really car bout they opinion.most women annoy AF ...
It is what it is.
I have yet to find a women who I enjoy their interest or truly enjoy talkin to or really car bout they opinion.most women annoy AF ...
It is what it is.
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damn
i might end of forever alone......cuz this is pretty spot on lol
at this point i think i just need to find a chick who is into the gym like myself and eating good food, o yea sex too. those 3 things alone should keep me interested
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If you get the right girl or wife you can still be about that singlelife except for cheating
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How did I just find this thread? Will read l8r.
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I do miss that mushy being in love, only thinking about #her time, though 
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"Being single is cool til aint nobody around."
Really though, the worst part about being single is pretty much all my good friends are in serious relationships, and they are always busy with their significant other, if I hang out with them, I'm always a third wheel, gets annoying.
It'd be nice just to have someone to always do something with, if I wanna see a movie or go to a concert, instead I'm always struggling to find the friend who isn't whipped and will go
Really though, the worst part about being single is pretty much all my good friends are in serious relationships, and they are always busy with their significant other, if I hang out with them, I'm always a third wheel, gets annoying.
It'd be nice just to have someone to always do something with, if I wanna see a movie or go to a concert, instead I'm always struggling to find the friend who isn't whipped and will go
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Going places dolo is not a sin. I'm starting to think Im just a dolo, random hook up type of dude. My career demands enough of my time. That's the worse part.
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The older you get the more of a problem this becomes"Being single is cool til aint nobody around."
Really though, the worst part about being single is pretty much all my good friends are in serious relationships, and they are always busy with their significant other, if I hang out with them, I'm always a third wheel, gets annoying.
It'd be nice just to have someone to always do something with, if I wanna see a movie or go to a concert, instead I'm always struggling to find the friend who isn't whipped and will go
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"Being single is cool til aint nobody around."
Really though, the worst part about being single is pretty much all my good friends are in serious relationships, and they are always busy with their significant other, if I hang out with them, I'm always a third wheel, gets annoying.
It'd be nice just to have someone to always do something with, if I wanna see a movie or go to a concert, instead I'm always struggling to find the friend who isn't whipped and will go
The flipside to that is having a girl who's always around. I just got out of a situation like that and it felt like torture at times. I guess I'm the type of person that needs space though.
^ One of the realest lines ever
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the only thing i miss about being single is just doing whatever i want whenever. im the type who needs their space and freedom
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26 and single. Don't ever want to go back to a relationship lol. I'm too independent and girls don't provide anything I can't for myself. Sex is easy to get and casual dating beats a relationship. Feel bad for people who always need to have someone.
Sounds cliche but it really is nice to do what you want when you want.
Honestly I want a kid a lot more than I want wife lol.
Sounds cliche but it really is nice to do what you want when you want.
Honestly I want a kid a lot more than I want wife lol.
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"Being single is cool til aint nobody around."
Really though, the worst part about being single is pretty much all my good friends are in serious relationships, and they are always busy with their significant other, if I hang out with them, I'm always a third wheel, gets annoying.
It'd be nice just to have someone to always do something with, if I wanna see a movie or go to a concert, instead I'm always struggling to find the friend who isn't whipped and will go
Being single allows you to take different women to those things. Doesn't mean you have to go alone. Nothing wrong with doing stuff alone BTW. I go to the movies alone a lot because of my schedule and the movies aren't really a great early date anyway
A decent amount of my friends are in relationships but they make the effort to spend time away from their SO and hang out
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Y'all who are saving money being single...how? I basically end up going out 10x as much and throwing around way more cash on clothes and food.
That being said, both single and taken are great under the right conditions.
That being said, both single and taken are great under the right conditions.
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It just hurts coming out of a serious thing still thinking about the person often you know. I really thought I had a mate...now it's just women I don't care much for or don't like other than a casual thing. Idk all I need is a love thats true
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I became courageous, I gained the courage to finally take a STD test. Because I was being promiscuous. So that's what I benefited from being single.
Also, when they say you are saving money, that's BS. You do spend more money hanging out with your homies. Food, gas, clothes, alcohol, etc.
Also, when they say you are saving money, that's BS. You do spend more money hanging out with your homies. Food, gas, clothes, alcohol, etc.
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Y'all really got me ready to dump my ***** this instant, I know just about all these feels
-always touching me/too damn lovey dovey
- Talks about the most irrelevant ****, can't remember the last time I had a meaningful conversation with her.
- that playing dumb/dingy ****..or actually being dumb/dingy I can't even tell no more.
-letting herself go with the weight, notices the problem, and still does nothing to change it.
That being said, she hold me alllllllllllllllllllllll the way down. Got thru some of the darkest times of my life with her and without her during them times, I would honestly be dead or in jail.
Stuck between a rock and a hard place because I'm really not happy, but I dnt wanna leave her after she been so loyal...
-always touching me/too damn lovey dovey
- Talks about the most irrelevant ****, can't remember the last time I had a meaningful conversation with her.
- that playing dumb/dingy ****..or actually being dumb/dingy I can't even tell no more.
-letting herself go with the weight, notices the problem, and still does nothing to change it.
That being said, she hold me alllllllllllllllllllllll the way down. Got thru some of the darkest times of my life with her and without her during them times, I would honestly be dead or in jail.
Stuck between a rock and a hard place because I'm really not happy, but I dnt wanna leave her after she been so loyal...
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Food, gas, clothes are things you buy n e way, alcohol should be bought either way. Why you spending money on you homies papi? Are you sure you're just homies?
I don't go out that much, at least when I go out now I'm only buying one drink (I don't buy broads drinks, very good reason for it). Then, I'm not paying n e one else's bills, not paying for anyone else's gas...my good is my food not 'our food'
If you're not saving money being single you're doing it wrong.
Until there are kids involved, there are only a few reasons to be on a relationship and all of them are flimsy...children, that's it. Being married w/o kids just seems weird to me...semi pointless honestly, your just dating with severe consequences if you break up.
Honestly, as a grown man you should be able to take care of yourself, when cats say 'idk what I would do w/o her, I don't understand the sentiment, like you are going to wake up, go to work, pay your bills...I get it in marriage because she's taking half your stuff, so that's hard...but just in a relationship? Nah, you'll be ok papi.
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man...
Everybody gonna say stick around...
You're gonna regret it...
But **** that... You gotta be happy mayne... Hearts get broken.
My thing is, people are so scared of the suckiness that follows a break up because its out of their comfort zone.
But to be real... That suckiness will go away with time.
If you truly love a chick, stay put... But if your gut is wavering, its only a mayyrr of time before that relationship implodes
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Young Jedi come.........come over to the dark side.
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I told myself a couple weeks ago next time she come on her period I'm out [emoji]127939[/emoji][emoji]127939[/emoji][emoji]128168[/emoji] it'll be just my luck she get pregnant when I decide to leave her ***
