shoelyesses
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exactly and as the stats show this is what happens 4/5 times. To the poster above you....having a college degree doesn't make you smart... in all actuality, it just makes you very learned in one particular aspect of one particular field. Example..... a aviation mechanic isn't the smart one, the man who came up with the concept of flying and created the plane is the smart one. It took initiative, imagination, creativity, general smarts and no how to create the aircraft....the guy working on it all it takes for him is memory and repetition.Aint nothing wrong with wanting a partner with an income but why get married if the minute the money gets tight, time for a divorce?
Like i said before if they were so "smart" they would figure out the way theyre going about trying to find a mate is wrong and would try a different approach. I know if I tried something over and over again doing it the same way time and time again, chances are in need to try go about things a different way. You don't need a b.s. nor a mba to figure that out.
And id like to add poverty for a family of 4 is 18,500 a year.... cats talking bout i cant live etc...with you making 50k and a chick making 28,500..... lol. You can live off that fairly easily and comfortably. Thing is most of yall is frivolous, buy a litany of things you don't need and seldom use, and just all around foolish with finances.
I mean even the numbers show americans are the most fiscally irresponsible ppl on the planet. So basically you got folks saying i already live well beyond my means... but i want another person to add to this lifestyle.
I look at that video and others like it....and i see a kid with a closet full of kicks, but not a college fund. I see a chick who net worth is less then a handbag she is holding, i see a chick who has spent 100's of thousands in leases car notes and still don't own anything, i see chicks paying in the thousands every month for a house they will never own.
And for what....? Ive posted before and yea my house isn't exactly cheap...but you know what i own it. Its mines and outside of if i don't pay my property taxes twice a year itll stay mines. Even if it was a fairly new nice house, id go out and buy a hud home and own it before i try to look like the rockafellas and be spending tons of money on a house id never own.
And how many of these chicks have roth accounts, 401k, retirement plans....exactly. i could see if these chicks was like im out getting a degree trying to make a lot of money in pursuit of lamenting them and their kids future. But nah that's not the case. They just want money etc...so they can so call keep up with the jones's and potray this image of wealth in which they not, in a attempt to be socially accepted, and live this façade of achievement/success aka balling....
Balling aint living in no 500k house, balling is owning it. i mean if your gonna be superficial, and be on that the betterment of my life is based on material goods, at least own the stuff.
Like i posted before the average black women for every 100 she makes has 5 dollars to show for it. Im speaking for me but a chic that OWNS a hyundia sonata impresses me more then a chic paying damn near a house not leasing a s class Mercedes. Give me the chic with coach bag with 10k in the bank, over the chic with the fendi bag with 6 maxed out credit cards.
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